Bukowski on Shit Tests
Known for his gritty realism, Charles Bukowski had this interchange one of his wives in front of cameras interviewing him for Italian television. It resonates with me, because as a former good guy turned IDGAF Level 2 MGTOW, he is absolutely right. The truth comes flowing from him in the first paragraph out of his mouth:
I’ve always been used because I’m a good guy. Women when they meet me, they say, “I can use this son of a bitch. I can push him around, he’s an easy going guy.” So they do it. But you know finally I get to resent it a bit.
What do you resent?
Just being pushed.
Yeah. Just being pushed.
Why do you let yourself be pushed by this kind of shit, you idiot? Why do you allow yourself to be pushed by this sort of thing?
I’ve told you a thousand times to leave, you won’t leave. I told you I’m going to get an attorney to get you to leave.
Now wait, that doesn’t have anything to do with it. Why do you continually allow yourself to be pushed?
Because I’m kind hearted. I give the other person another chance.
Mmm hmm. I’ve given you dozens of chances, but you keep pushing and pushing. And you keep laughing at me. That’s why I’m gonna tell you, I’m getting an attorney and I’m getting your ass moved out of here. She thinks I don’t have the guts, she thinks I can’t live without her. I can have your ass out of here so bright and so fast with a Jewish attorney, you’re going to feel like your ass is skinned, baby. You think you’re the last women on earth that I can get?
I guess I’ve never thought about it.
Yeah, well, you better start thinking. I’m turning you over to the next.
The next what?
The next guy. He can have you. I won’t be the least bit jealous. With you mayor babba bullshit, all your goddamn staying out every night bullshit. I don’t need the kind of woman you are.
You may ask what is a Level 2 MGTOW. Here is that definition from The Observer Watches:
Level 2: Rejection of short-term [and long-term] relationships
Short brief: the MGTOW rejects all form of personal relationships with women, including dating, one-night stands, friendships, etc. Any contact with unfamiliar women is kept strictly professional and at a minimum.
Common reasons for this:
a) Inane laws that govern the treatment of sexually-charged crimes such as rape or sexual assault compared with, say, murder or theft. Rights stemming from due process such as the right to face one’s accuser (rape shield laws), the right to be considered innocent before found guilty (dear colleague letter, hanging in the court of the public, repeated calls for less evidence to be required for guilt, activist groups pushing for guilty verdicts irrespective of actual evidence).
b) The broadening of the definitions of these crimes to encompass a widening set of behaviour, to the point that post-coital buyer’s regret can be considered rape.
c) The heaping of culpability upon men and the concurrent removal of culpability from women for their actions (such as sex when both parties are drunk).
Resources withdrawn from society:
a) Beta orbiter benefits to women. (Chivalry, etc.)
b) Greater loss of intimacy and romantic prospects for women.
c) A general growing indifference by MGTOWs to women (and an observable trend from men in general, too). Hate is not the antithesis of love, because it still implies the one doing the hating still cares to some extent about the hated. The indifferent merely ignores all of this.
Bukowski also sounds like a Level 2 MGTOW in that clip. You can review all 4 levels of MGTOW at The Observer Watches.
Women are, to average kind-hearted good guy opportunistic, parasitic infections. They want your resources but nothing else about you. Bukowski knew it:
The male, for all his bravado and exploration, is the loyal one, the one who generally feels love. The female is skilled at betrayal and torture and damnation.
I of course, realized this too late in life to be redeemed. The going on four decades of abuse from literally hundreds of relationships (me ending most of them) has made caring about women that way I used to irredeemable to me.
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