Women Have No Loyalty to Men


Women’s loyalty to most men extends only to their ability to be a provider of shiny things, in other words “my vagina bought me this”

Betas and Blue Pill men everywhere never seem to grasp the fact you can’t buy a woman’s love, and women (even their wives) have absolutely no loyalty to them other than words and empty promises. (Actions speak otherwise!) Believing women “love” them when in fact women only love the resources or status their Beta herb is providing, these men are often used and taken advantage of in marriage and the thoroughly rigged divorce court system.

Johnny Depp recently fell victim to the predatory nature of women this way, illustrating the urgent need for divorce reform in Anglo America. If being a Super Alpha is no guarantee of female loyalty, why play the marriage game when these women extracted this much money from these men by nothing more than virtue of the fact they had a vagina these men once used:

  • Mel Gibson’s divorce from Robyn Moore Gibson; estimated at $425 million
  • Michael Jordan’s divorce from Juanita Jordan, $168 million
  • Steven Spielberg’s divorce from Amy Irving; estimated at $100 million
  • Ted Danson’s divorce from Casey Coats; estimated at $30 million
  • Donald Trump’s divorce from Ivana Trump; estimated at $25 million

Unlike men who will sometimes stand by a brother in need, women will exit stage right whenever it is politically and financially prudent for them to do so. They don’t care if the man they formerly “loved” is drinking puddle water and living under a bridge after the relationship is over, unlike men who will often harbor sentiments towards women even after being used. But, women are only loyal to their biological and psychological needs, and as Briffault’s Law so eloquently states, if a male is of no benefit to a female no association with the male takes place. This is the rule not just in our species but most others.

Males have to prove their “worthiness” by performing fitness demonstrations and passing tests. This ranges from a peacocks doing mating dance showing off their impressive plumes, to walruses having bloody fights with other males to see who gets the booty, to humans demonstrating the capacity to buy a McMansion and box cutter SUV that’s better than the one Becky’s Husband bought her. After the test has been passed, the male gets to mate but the woman remains loyal only insofar as the male is able to demonstrate his value to her. Slip up, and she’s out the door.

One Red Pill commenter summarizes well this lack of loyalty among women. The male is as good as muerte once his value as a meal ticket or dominant azzhole has been consumed.

As many men on this sub can attest, you can be with a woman for months or years, give her everything, and at the first sign of weakness, she will bail on you and then wipe your name from her memory banks as if you never existed. She can feel NO GUILT whatsoever about not answering your calls and texts. For all general purposes you are dead to her.

He’s absolutely right. Weakness will get you eliminated from a woman’s life faster than just about anything else. A woman’s loyalty works like this: For Betas, her loyalty extends only as far as your ability to resource provision, and for Alphas/Sigmas, her loyalty extends beyond reason because she sees you as dominant. Very important difference. Betas are weak but resourceful in the female mind, and Alphas are strong but may or may not be resourceful. Either way, weakness gets a man eliminated sooner or later. For Betas, it’s once the bigger, better deal comes along.

As pointed out in one of our Hamster Rationalization articles, women will even pursue sexual trysts with thugs and serial killers while Beta males are left to hand crank their sexual desires.

Consequently, criminals have a higher number of children than the rest of the population. Bad boys average around 3.0 offspring in their lifetimes, while in America the average for whites is 1.75 children, well below the 2.1 needed avoid demographic disappearance.

Once again we have both eyewitness and statistical evidence that women are loyal only to their biological and psychological needs. To the female, good guys don’t deserve loyalty, or even the propagation of their genes into the next generation.


Men: Always keep your options open and never give your commitment away easily no matter what a harlot she turns into

Don’t Give Your Loyalty Away

Well beyond the average Beta male (and even a Super Alpha actor) giving his life and fortune to a woman who is only using him as a meal ticket, always remember women will seek your loyalty only as a means of extracting what value she sees in you and keeping other women from realizing its promise. The man that gives his loyalty away easily is a weak man in the female mind. For the uncommitted man, women will be in a constant state of worry because he has many appealing options and she must compete with these other women in order to gain his favor. Once she has secured your commitment expect betrayal.

Importantly, once your loyalty is rewarded to a woman it will no longer be valued. Your loyalty to her means you have either lost your appeal to other women or she is the best one you can get out of the group. Either way – this is not good in her limbic brain.

The best thing you can do for a woman who expect loyalty (especially your wife) is to make sure she knows that you are fine on your own without her. I’m not saying replacing her for a better model, but just that you can live on your own without anyone’s help. As long as she knows that her actions are merely a comparative advantage in your life, she will stick around and remain loyal. This is because she knows that if she ever royally screws up, she’s out the door.

Now that we have seen women are loyal only to themselves, and once a man shows loyalty to a woman that which she seeks becomes a liability, we see there’s really no way to be the “nice guy” in a society that doesn’t have strictly enforced mores designed to keep female flightiness and predatory instincts under control.

It is heresy to say this in today’s gynocentric culture, but if women display no loyalty to men then men should display no loyalty to women. Ironically, the victory of feminism means men have no incentives to see women as anything other than sex objects and luxury expenses since women spend 90% more money than men do. Rather than go through the ruse pretending relationships and marriage are anything but legalized prostitution, let’s just get the transaction out in the open, legalize it, and save countless money in wealth transfers going from men to women in an abusive court system.

Think about it. Are we doing all these mental gymnastics in service of a myth that the sexual act between men and women is anything but a financial transaction when everywhere we turn that’s exactly what is involved? One might call that insanity. No wonder so many men are going MGTOW.

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  • “Men would do well to remember that the vast majority of life and liberty can be preserved by the choice to Go Your Own Way. Reject marriage. Reject the military. Reject corporate slavery. Reject chivalry. Reject group consensus on who and what you should be as a man. And reject ANYONE, including your family, who tries to coerce you out of those choices. Do all that, and you have a reasonable shot at a free, happy life. Never forget it is your choice and your responsibility.

    There are no victims, just volunteers”. –Paul Elam AVFM


  • I’m one of the most fortunate beta males you’ll ever meet. Avoided the marriage trap and well on my way to early retirement. Will retire with about three times what I need to pay the bills and will really have to work to spend the extra cash. No kids or wife to destroy my life. Only thing I have to be worried about is female predators and false accusations – which result in instant life destruction for men. That’s a big one to prepare for in my retirement years. There will lots of geriatric women looking for an easily disposable meal ticket – and I’ll have a big target on my back.

    It’s all so simple – yet tragically difficult for men to accept. Women don’t love men. Women love the disposability of men. Internalize that and – along with the unavoidable existential crisis – you’ll finally find peace and freedom.


  • Not all women were like like that. Women used to be loyal and loving and chaste.


  • In regards to shit tests, the women I absolutely despise with every fiber of my being are the ones who will always play, “Let’s you and him fight.” Numerous times, I’ve been dragged into some stupid cunt’s quarrel with her beau while I’m trying to mind my own business and the guy with her is always a white knight or some cunt is causing drama and white knights nearby come charging to the rescue and beat me to an inch of my life. Sometimes I was the better fighter, but I lost most of them.
    Women are only as loyal as the options other than you are not within her grasp. As soon as she has the bigger better deal, she is gone while you face dark times alone again.


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