First Time Threesomes: Tell Women What to Do

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You have to take the reigns and lead women when having a threesome

The menage a trois can be one of the most thrilling of sexual experiences for the heterosexual male. Historically, in man’s wilder days, it meant the chance for him to pass on his genes with not one but two women at the same time. Today, it usually doesn’t represent the same potential for genetic success but it’s still the pinnacle of male success in the mating market. Banging two women (or more) at the same time does come with its share of complications, though. Most often, I have found that women are confused about what to do or are shy and reticent once the party is about to get started. As the ZFG Alpha or Sigma, you can instruct them in what you want done so as to maximize pleasure for yourself.

I noticed the need to lead women after I started having threesomes. Girls were often trash talking and excited about having the threesome until we got to the bedroom. Then, there would be awkward looks and uncomfortable laughter and reluctance to begin the festivities once the rubber was about to meet the road. So, I quickly learned I would have to take charge of the situation and tell the girls what to do.

Most of the threesomes I have had have been with two women who are not experienced in orgies, so naturally as a man I had to guide them. Contrary to what feminists will tell you a man who makes demands rather than asks for things goes a lot farther with women. Here are 5 simple steps to help make a better threesome as you boss your lovers around.

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As with many things in life, threesomes get better with experience

A Better Threesome

Discuss what you want to do before hand. So the girls are not surprised when you get to the bedroom, talk with them about what you will all do before you get started. This is best done when setting up the threesome. If it’s two girls you have met in a bar, find out beforehand if the two girls you are with will be screwing each other in addition to screwing you, or if it will just be a “straight” threesome in which the girls won’t be doing anything sexual with each other, i.e. only pleasuring you and not each other. I’ve had threesomes that went both ways, sometimes the women would do each other, although most of the time they just focus on me. It is good to know this so there’s no surprises.

Drink a little to take the edge off and have some sexy music ready to go. It’s always a good idea to have some alcoholic beverages (or even some recreational drugs if that’s your bag) once everyone arrives in the bedroom. Whether it’s as simple as a beer in a hotel room or red wine or champagne, drinking always helps get everyone in the right frame of mind and releases social inhibitions. Some sexy times music and the right lightning also helps set the mood. One of my musical favorites for threesomes is High for This by TheWeeknd.

When in the bedroom, sit in between them hugging both and talk to both of them. As the man, you have to be the ringleader of the operation. Sit in between them on the bed, put your arms around both of them and be the ZFG overconfident jerk that allowed you to land in this situation in the first place. Don’t pull back and start acting Beta just because you have two hot women about to get naked with you. Once everyone is ready, tell them to take their clothes off – don’t ask them to. Chicks get lost easily, and believe me two girls will be looking for you to take charge though they’ll never admit it.

Decide which girl you want to screw first and which to finish with. This is an issue that never really occurs in the minds of many men until they have two naked women in front of them and the women are looking at him not knowing what to do. Again, your leadership qualities will be called upon so once they’re naked decide which girl you want grinding you and which you want sitting on your face and wriggling.

Let go of inhibitions. The first few threesomes may seem a bit awkward. This will lessen as you gain experience banging multiple women at the same time. Alcohol or recreational drugs will help curb some of the natural inhibitions you might have as a member of a sexual party of three, or just having the right attitude will do the same thing. The wilder and more exciting things get the more likely you and the girls are to enjoy it and to want an encore. Personally, I’ve gotten to the point having a threesome doesn’t phase me anymore. This is after I was inhibited and a little nervous the first few times I banged two chicks at the same time.

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My threesomes usually involve two black or brown women, I get to be the cream filling in the Oreo

Final Thoughts

Personally, I am not fond of using a condom with my regular sex partners which is why I will look for sex partners who I feel comfortable banging without protection. I will say that if there’s any doubt about a girl I will strap on a jimmy before entering the love cave. But through personal experience I have come to the opinion that STDs are not as common as we are led to believe. (Note: This is a personal opinion.)

Note that some women form emotional attachments easily so banging another woman in front of a regular sex partner may cause a jealous woman to do crazy things. If possible, it’s best to have threesomes with women who you have no emotional investment in and who likewise have no emotional investment in you. This keeps things from getting messy.

These are some common sense, introductory ideas that will help you enjoy a more exciting and sexually fulfilling threesome next time you set one up. Threesomes are exciting and fun diversions from the normal sexual routine, and I recommend all men try one at least once just for the personal satisfaction of knowing they’ve done it.

Any other questions? Email me and I’ll feature them in an upcoming reader mailbag segment here on The New Modern Man.

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