When Sex Loses Its Mystical Quality
In the West, women and social engineers profit by keeping sex shrouded in mystery, awe, and fascination. Sex is everywhere, but there’s none to be had for the average man.
But what happens when a man is getting more ass than a toilet seat? Sex loses its mystical quality, and female power over him evaporates. Unlike innumerable chumps, he is pussy-whipped no more. He quickly stops caring what women think, doesn’t listen to anything they say, breaks all the rules and plays all the fools. What happens? Rather than reducing his prospects, even more women come his way. (Some guys humorously say women have picked up the scent when this happens.)
It’s really quite like a cascade effect. Women who know he has a main dish, want to be his side dish – in my case a chick named Rosangela explicitly telling me so as she sent video of herself masturbating to my instant messaging account. A sexual bounty is truly quite an experience for a man, as women have to work to keep a man’s attention rather than the other way around.
I’ve already gone through so many women this year I’m having trouble keeping track of them all in my own personal Little Black Book of statistics, names, and star ratings. Jack Ronin of The Savage Lifestyle describes own his transition into the world of zero fucks given.
For me getting the f-close was cool and all but the hilarious shit I said and did to get me there was the juice I began to crave. Every time I did some crazy asshole shit I would tell myself, “Alright Jack, this time you gotta one up yourself.”
From making out with girls in front of their boyfriends, choking girls within 20 secs of meeting them and grabbing sluts out of groups of chodes to take them to the dance floor make out and finger them while the chumps stood by completely bewildered. I was on a fucking rampage.
All this resulted as many of us started out as men who originally wanted nothing more than a nice, humble family and chased that carrot for 30 years or more before realizing there was no way to win and we embarked on a new Going Galt lifestyle. Unlike eat, pray, love, this lifestyle has a philosophical foundation. It’s about bringing down the remaining vestiges of a corrupt, gynocentric system, refusing to play along in a subordinate role, and having fun while doing so.
But wait, there’s more. Here are some findings that resulted in sex losing its mystical quality for me. I’ve been having so much of it since taking the Red Pill and learning what really makes women tick, I am able to think more clearly about it.
Troubling Findings: The Holy Trinity of Human Sexual Behavior
My hands-on, fingers in research has yielded quite a number of disturbing findings about human sexuality. I take no pleasure in writing the things I write at times, but I am dedicated to personal integrity and telling the truth about all men’s matters. These sage words from astrophysicist Carl Sagan are my guiding light:
When he found that his long cherished beliefs did not agree with the most precise observations, he accepted the uncomfortable facts, he preferred the hard truth to his dearest illusions. That is the heart of science.
Incidentally, preferring the hard truth is also the heart of masculinity. In this case, dumping long-cherished beliefs that women are damsels and goddesses and better than men.
Give me a fucking break.
Here’s the reality. My sexual bounty has assisted me in formulating several ideas about human sexuality which are supported by reems of underground research. Ideas like harems being the norm in our species rather than the exception.
1. Harems are the norm in our species. Get used to it. From my article The History of Harems, Women Orbit, Too which details how women also display “Beta” orbiting behavior around dominant men:
The University of Wisconsin showed the practice of maintaining harems is far from unusual in history. It surveyed 1,000 historical societies to find out how common polygyny has been, and the findings are astonishing: Just 18% of historical societies were monogamous. Half of rest of the 82% had occasional polygyny and the other half had it all the time. If nothing else, this historical fact helps show why women have such contempt for Beta males – they are not as valuable for providing material things as high status men.
2. Every woman has her price. They just have different asking prices and demands for access to sex. This is based not just on human behavior, but the behavior of females in the animal kingdom who regularly trade sex for resources. These are some of my preliminary findings detailed in Transactional Sex: Every Woman Has Her Price.
Generally, female relationships with men break down into these four categories:
- The rare and short-lived freebie: A woman develops a temporary infatuation with a new man, but her lust for him quickly wears off as she returns to her predatory instincts. The male is disposed of as his novelty value wears off and she gets “bored” with the relationship.
- The honest and direct pay for play: A woman straight up sells sex to the male.
- The pay as you go: Beta males rely on this tactic to keep women in their lives; women tolerate men who provide dependable financial resources while often enjoying the company (and sperm) of Alpha bad boys on the side.
- The balloon payment: Female predatory instincts come into play in this type of relationship, as a woman fakes love for a man until such time as she can “cash in” on him and dispose of him in the court system. This is the human equivalent of the female “eating” the male as in Black Widows and Preying Mantises.
3. Anglo women are so bad they literally drive men to faggotry en masse. Incidentally, related to sexual bounty, one English scholar (Rookh Kshatriya) believes a stolid culture is why homosexuality has become so prevalent in Anglo countries across the world. Western women (especially those in English-speaking countries) are so frigid and so stingy with sex men have resorted to taking care of each other’s own sexual needs for centuries.
Biological explanations of homosexuality are currently in vogue. While they hold some truth, they do not really explain why homosexuality is more prevalent in Anglo-American countries than, for example, the Hispanic world (where it is viewed with horror). After all, if homosexuality were entirely biological in origin, it should not be culturally specific. The fact that it is implies that culture plays a decisive role in shaping homosexuality in men.
What Anglo-American cultural features dispose men to homosexuality? The answer is very simple: poor relations between the sexes. Interaction between the sexes is so unpleasant and mercenary in the Anglo-American bloc that many men derive more from relations with their own sex rather than women. This leads to exceptionally high incidences of homosexuality among Anglo-Americans.
In a crude sense, homosexuality is the best way to experience plenty of sex in a repressed society where women are taught to commodify themselves from infancy. For men of low socio-economic status, whom Anglo women automatically strike off as potential mates, homosexuality is simply the only way to get bountiful supplies of free sex.
This latent homosexuality has been hidden until the last few decades, until social engineers perhaps decided mainstreaming it might be a way to ease mounting tension (no pun intended) in a culture that has shifted to the 80/20 rule since feminism.
A gay acquaintance of mine confirms with his own first hand accounts that many of the men who have gay sex on the side are indeed upstanding members of the community and “manly men” married to Anglo wives in sexless marriages. In short, they gotta get their rocks off some way, even if it’s on the down low. I was stunned by this revelation when he dropped the beans years ago. Today, I’m not surprised at all.
No matter what people say about these truths, the simple fact is using this knowledge yields results. Knowing women orbit and even form harems around dominant men while using and abusing good guys, that relationships broadly fall into one of four groups above, and that women are so bad in Anglo nations they literally drive men to queerness, a man is able to make decisions that result in rains falling on a sexual desert.
When Sex Isn’t Mystical Anymore
When sex loses its mystical quality for men, women lose their bargaining chip. If women don’t control sex, they don’t control anything.
Sexual scarcity in the West is how women (and social engineers) keep men “under control.” Take it from someone who’s been there and been on both sides of this equation. Western women literally treat Betas like dogs. Be a good boy and bring me a material reward, and I might pet you and reward you with sex. Now wag your tail. Off to the grind you go!
In the West, sex is strictly controlled under a “seller’s market.” However, leave the insanity of a declining civilization and suddenly sex becomes a figurative “buyer’s market.” Women don’t seem to realize the cultural tightrope they keep men on only works inside specific little geographic areas. When a man has a surfeit of taut, nubile ass everywhere he turns, he’s less likely to put his entire life’s labor on the line for a depreciating asset. (As we all know, women are depreciating assets, with sharp declines in SMV after age 30.)
One might add that Americans only make up 5% of the world population. Among the 95% of the world’s population outside its borders, Anglo men are cherished and rare commodities for hypergamous women worldwide. The more men who discover just how badly they’re getting treated by women and those doing their bidding in the corporate-government complex, the more men are likely to Go Galt. It’s the metaphor of killing the goose that lays the golden egg playing out in real life.
All it takes to keep the goose laying the golden egg is for women to treat men like men. It won’t happen for a few different reasons. What stops the cult of feminism from utterly and completely collapsing? Men defending the status quo.
Latent Puritanism resurfaces in all kinds of areas of life in Anglo countries, from the gynocentric legal system to the deification of women and villainization of men in the media, to the White Knight effect. We still see a “goddess cult” revealing itself in many areas of life. “Alpha signalers” will come in and defend the honor of the goddesses, as so cleverly stated by a commenter at TNMM last week:
Saying that you’re done with fat, pussyhat wearing American nightmares is red meat because they get to shrug and say, “I haven’t had any problems with American women dude. I must be better than you, I guess. Go motorcycling through North Dakota. Pussy everywhere. Every truckstop is just filled with ass bro.”
That’s an emotional counterbalance to the stunning and often painful truths elucidated above.
Meantime, it behooves all men to become better PUAs or to let hypergamy work for them by “flying up out this bitch” and putting their intrinsic male value to work for them somewhere else. Once a man has the culturally-specific mirage of sexual mysticism lifted from his eyes, he never quite sees the world the same way again.
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