Abundance Mentality: Turning Down Free Sex


Women aren’t as alluring once you know their psychology

I am turning down some 20-year old pussy.

I can’t believe I just said that. But it’s true. I have a girl in St. Louis sending me nude photos of herself, and the offer for a NSA tryst is on the table if only I swing by and hit it. She’s not even asking for dinner. She has awesome tits. She has a pretty puss. What’s more strange about this situation is my route takes me through St. Louis, and I have extra time on my hands. It’s very nearly the perfect setup.

But, it’s a tricky situation. First off, this chick still lives with her parents. Second, she has a great body butterface knocks her down to about a SMV 6½ or so. Third, I know from talking to her she’s been around the block a couple of times. Fourth, I’m spoiled with frankly superior women abroad. American chicks just don’t do it for me anymore. I know they’re an inferior product that typically comes at a very high price. They’re aggravating, unfeminine, and awkward compared to the primo cuts I enjoy abroad. (They’re also usually fat, but this chick isn’t fat.)

One of the main issues is, once a man knows the twisted psychology of women, sex becomes something of a novelty because you know what the ass you’re banging is attached to. A predator and a dissimulator. And as all PUA For Life guys know the more success a man has with women, the less impressive getting laid is. It’s abundance mentality.

I also know I will more than make up for it once I finish earning my freedom money, and flee the states to live abroad again in just two short months. So, I’ll let this one slide. But at least I know I’ve still got it. I’m pushing 40 and can get pussy half my age pretty much anytime I want it. What a difference the manosphere can make in a dude’s life.

Have you turned down some free ass recently? Did it put your mind into a pickle…asking yourself, at least for a minute, “What the hell am I doing, turning down sex?”

What a change, from being sexually needy to having more sex and more women than a man cares to handle. That’s about all the personal satisfaction a man can ask for. Perhaps there is something to Maslow’s Hierarchy, after all. With a man’s sexual desires filled, he’s able to move on to nobler pursuits rather than focusing on hedonism all the time. (Although, there’s nothing wrong with some regular hedonism!)

As as side note, for those interested in my trucking adventures…I just grossed over $1,000 this week. I’m fattening up that freedom fund quite nicely. I’ll be delving into some good old-fashioned womanizing, hellraising fun soon enough. I think I just want out of America and this cultural cesspool at this point. I’ve been here long enough, and need a breather in saner, happier places.

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  • Love your content brother; I recently turned down sex from a massage therapist. Wasn’t a happy ending situation, I asked her out, she invited me over instead. Solid 7.5 and seemed cool at first but like you say, once you see how the sausage is made you lose your appetite. I also got a baby-trap vibe as well. After shutting her down it made her think I was looking for a serious relationship with her. She invited me to dinner with her parents. Yeah, no thanks.


  • fuzziewuzziebear

    I am going to stick my neck out a little and say that something isn’t quite right and that you sense it. That may be why you are taking a pass. By the way, the first test for fraud is, “Is it too good to be true?” As for the abundance and scarcity mentalities, they are bending the sexual marketplace all out of reason. Men are stuck in a scarcity mentality induced rut and women are coasting on an abundance mentality free ride.


  • Hold on, you devil.

    You made 1000$ this week. But how many miles did you drive, how many hours on the road did you put in?

    Tis no great virtue to make a ton of money if you have to sell health to get it. If you drove 3000 miles that week, at 30 cents per mile, that would be “around” 1000, pre tax. You must be putting in a ton of hours bro.


    • Relampago Furioso

      This job is a means to an end. And it gives me tremendous freedom. I put in long hours, work hard and save a large sum of money in a short time while staying out of the system. It’s 6 months labor in The Matrix to spend 1 to 2 years abroad, I’ll take it.


  • Escape from the Anglosphere

    Relampago Furioso. Yes, I have, but reading your story and hearing what other men in my circle have to say … we are not crazy! Many times the hassle is not worth it in the US, when you can go abroad and not deal with as much BS. I’ve decided to start purging my pad of more useless crap. I don’t care whether I can donate/write it off or sell it. I’m getting rid of it. I’m tired of useless crap owning me.


  • Humans make sex too complicated. Men and Women are naturally attracted to each other. That’s it nothing, else is needed .
    You still have it? If pulling a 6 on the internet is having it, you da man. LOL. Just joking. I know what you mean.
    I am happy you are enjoying life. Keep the shiny side up and the dirty side down. I remember saying that to trucjers in my CB Radio day.


    • Relampago Furioso

      I grade on a tough curve. She’s be an 8 to most thirsty American guys, especially being 20 and having a nice body.


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