Category Archives: Game, Hypergamy, and PUA

Girl Tries to Scam $150 Dinner from Tinder Date – But He Outfoxes Her


An Anglobitch’s plan to use her date and score a free $150 dinner epically backfired

An awakened man knows women often compartmentalize relationshits with men. They friendzone guys who Beta orbit them, throw themselves under thugs and bad boys, and consciously choose to flat out use “good guys” who treat women they way feminists say women want to be treated. (Word to the wise: They don’t really want to be treated good by guys they bang.)

Anglobitches in particular have no qualms about using one guy for dinner while running off with another for a sexual escapade the same night. We call this the Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks theory here in the manosphere.

It’s heartening to see that men are wising up to the cruel, calculating games of women. Case in point, check out this hilarious dine and dash story making the rounds. After an underdressed Anglobitch with a frigid persona ran up a $150 tab she expected Dinner Guy to pay for, he walked out and left her ass with the bill. This tale of a date set up by a woman under false pretenses even made the Daily Mail:

A man who plucked up the courage to go on his first ever Tinder date after being ‘superliked’ by a seemingly-eager woman has told how the evening ended in total misery after the unnamed lady behaved so rudely that he ran away without telling her. After talking for a few days, the Imgur user, known only as Minilogo37, shared that despite their chemistry prior, the date took a turn when the girl arrived to the fancy restaurant in sweatpants, did not look at him once, and ordered the most expensive items on the menu.

Heh. Excellent. Women choose their targets wisely, in true Predatory Female fashion. She probably saw him on Twitter and thought he’d be so thrilled to have been “picked” she could get a night of free fine dining out of him. And he would scurry off after the date, rub one out, and she would lie and say she was “going home” while no doubt hopping on the cock carousel that night with a full belly. But Dinner Guy caught on to her game quickly, especially when she came to their “date” dressed for the gym. Dinner Guy writes:

We met up tonight at a restaurant I’d picked out. She didn’t look at me, wore sweatpants, and immediately ordered a $13 appetizer. Okay, not a deal-breaker. I tried starting a conversation a few times, but she only gave one word answers. Then, she orders a $25 steak and $22 crab legs. She drank four $9 glasses of wine.

I actually suffered this quite often in my Nice Guy days back in college. Women would feign interest in me, use me for food and entertainment for the night, then turn cold as the night prematurely drew to a close. The next day, phone calls would go unanswered. Dinner Guy recounts a similar scenario:

“She talked more to the waiter.”

It’s at this point a man should know he’s being played. It seems Dinner Guy knew well, and played the chess game appropriately:

I got the steak, and a few drinks myself. Right about the time our main courses arrived, I’d pretty much given up. As we were finishing, I excused myself and went to the restroom. While I was in there, a light bulb went off. I left the bathroom, headed out the door, got in my car, and drove home. Now, here I am. She messaged me a few times, called me a “fucker” about twelve times. Heh.

I’d seriously like to buy this guy a drink. Excellent execution. The fact she messaged him and called him a fucker scores him bonus points. Bring this guy another round. The irony is, she’s probably more likely to fuck him now that he’s shown her he’s not the Beta target she thought he was. Chicks dig jerks.

It seems she spent a good amount of time buttering him up beforehand for the $150 dinner. The innate female talent for what Schopenhauer called dissimulation means women effortlessly play mind games with men up until the time they go in for the kill.

Dinner Guy’s method of dealing with a predatory Anglobitch won him some praise from those who read the article. Well, praise from men who know what it’s like to be used by entitled women, and scorn from women who like using men. As the Daily Mail writes:

One user wrote, ‘You played the player at her own game and won,’ while others said things like, ‘I would’ve looked her in the eyes as I ask for separate checks,’ ‘I agree, this guy knows how to play,’ and ‘You handled that like a champ. Enough said.’

Another man wrote:

A lot of women have admitted to using Tinder for that very reason, good on you for turning it around on her.

Gentleman, if a woman is helping herself to the most expensive items on the menu while acting like a total bitch, she’s not interested. Part of being a good PUA and practicing good Game is knowing when to walk out on a bitch. Don’t be a typical Dinner Guy. Be this guy, and leave her ass sitting.

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Tinder Game Tip: Wusses Need Not Apply


Some “good news” from Tinder, if you can believe that

Have we reached high tide with the cancers of feminism and liberalism? There are subtle signs popping up around the landscape pointing to both philosophies ebbing in the public consciousness. Importantly, the Realtalk phenomenon is now manifesting itself with a small but vocal minority of chicks actually coming out and saying what they really mean.

LeannaMuch to the chagrin of White Knights and other Beta orbiters who think that by paying lip service to women’s feigned “ideal world” of weak, effeminate, liberal men, one SMV 7 hottie (she would be a 7.5 without the tattoo) reveals the ingrained reproductive motivation inside the mind of every chick (i.e. what makes women hot) that so many other women won’t on her Tinder profile. She seems to have had her fill with men who are toeing the line of the dictates issued by emasculating feminist doctrine as she drops this bomb: “I prefer my men non liberal. I’ve already got a pussy, I don’t need another one.”

At least this chick disposes with the Beta Bait so many women effortlessly dispense thanks to their Schopenhauer-defined innate talents of dissimulation. One can envision the tears of hopeful orbiters of this chick welling up in their eyes. While men who are uninitiated in the crimson arts jump through every hoop women throw out, they simultaneously sit at home wondering why a tub of Jergens and some toilet paper provide them more stimulation than any of the women they deify ever have or ever will.

The truth is, women love having an army of Beta orbiters figuratively kissing their asses and doing their bidding for the attention if nothing else. But men who are willfully friendzoned, their tails figuratively wagging like a small puppy dog for a pat on the head never seem to figure out men who follow female instructions are not the kind of men that women want to breed with.

Women prefer assholes, vagabonds, and basically the exact opposite behavior of that they profess to be “attractive” in men. As always, watch what women do and never listen to what they say. Except, in this case, in which Leanna gives you a rare glimpse directly into the female soul… er… hindbrain with her short but sweet profile. Her stunning Tinder sentence is about as real as it gets. All women think like Leann, but very few come out and say it.

Lesson: Being a pussy won’t get you pussy.

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Fleecing Beta Males: The Feminist/Socialist State Will Fail Without Totalitarianism


Social engineers continue working to make men useless in the eyes of women – but their schemes will ultimately fail without totalitarianism

In my journeys around the world, comparing and contrasting different cultures and societies, sleeping with countless women to see what I could learn about the female mindset and feminine behavior, as well as picking up a good deal of street smarts along the way, the realization that modern American men are the biggest chumps of all time has dawned on me. They’re literally allowing themselves to be walked all over by women and a government that serves the female imperative.

Here’s the play by play as America, Inc. descends into feminist and Socialist totalitarianism, designed to turn women into deities and men into serfs.

Modern American men are on the razor’s edge of letting women totally drive them out of providing the only value the Beta male masses ever had to the offer the female, which is the ability to provide tangible socioeconomic benefits to women – especially the ability for females to improve their lives – through association with with the male. Without utility value, men are as good as dead to women.

Almost every major social policy since the dawn of the feminist era has been aimed at totally debasing men and making them as repellent as Raid to women. Examples: Women in the workforce? Stripping Beta provisioning strategies, weakening men’s hand in family and marriage. The Great Society that turned into The Great Dystopia? Forced state wealth redistribution to finance women’s de-civilizing mating habits – bastard children, disposable dads, Beta male masses left with chafed hands and blue balls, etc. The Equal Pay Myth? Aimed at completely destroying what’s left of the now-metrosexual’s appeal to women. No woman is going to want to fuck a guy who earns less than them. (Hypergamy might as well  be a law of the universe.)

Take male utility away, and soon you’ll have a society in which men are disposable meat bags in the eyes of broads and women clamor to orbit – and fuck – a few dominant Alpha males who rule over all the other males like slaves. It’s a brutish return to the world as it was pre-civilization. Of course, the elites are ready assume the role of the dominant class while the rest of humanity is turned into pawns in their game of world domination.

What’s so genuinely terrifying about the way the world is being reshaped is the fact the cuckolded Beta male masses, cucked by Big Daddy Government and his welfare state, remain clueless at just how badly a government that was supposed to serve them has betrayed them. Cloak and dagger style. Smile in the front, knife in the back. Of course, the women of their society have also betrayed them, but as a matter of genetically encoded behavior. (Never trust a woman. And never trust a government.)

On a related note, going through countless bitches I now know foreign women wouldn’t be so anxious to jump up under me and spread their legs if I didn’t represent the opportunity for them to improve their socioeconomic status. I now know that’s the real reason I can live a swinging lifestyle abroad: Because of hypergamy and Briffault’s Law. If I didn’t represent the opportunity for foreign women to improve their lives or social status (I’m fucking an American, she says to her friends) I’d be just as invisible abroad and detested as I am in Anglo society, in which my value as a man has been destroyed by the welfare state and social engineering via the evil American media.

If men really want to stop the slide into a totalitarian, feminist state, that filches their wallet, spits upon them, and leaves them lonely, bereft of both sex and family, the government must be stripped of its wealth redistributing capacity and women must be returned to traditional roles in society. A society in which women behave themselves or are reduced to the life of a prostitute. No gibsmedats, no handouts, no free rides at Beta male expense.

Our lives don’t mean shit to government overlords and women who can enjoy the fruits of male labor without providing anything in return.

A feminist/Socialist totalitarian state cannot survive without fleecing Beta males, robbing them of their productivity and giving it to women who do not deserve it or appreciate it. This is the real reason the race is on to build an electronically enforced totalitarian world before the ongoing Great Awakening reaches critical mass. If Beta males suddenly woke up and realize how badly they’re being fucked by a system that threw them overboard 50 years ago, there would be a revolution tomorrow morning.

Of course, MGTOW, Going Galt, and becoming an expat who works just enough to get by become even more appealing options than they already are upon gleaning knoweldge of just how badly men are being abused. Why work hard to support a system and women who have nothing but contempt for you? Men need to realize we still have the power of the purse, and resolutely refuse to stop financing those who would walk on us while spitting in our eye.

A feminist/Socialist state cannot stand without the implied or coerced consent of the Beta male masses. Women spend more than they earn over the course of their lives, and men are expected to make up the deficit and keep the trains, planes, and buses running on time without so much as some thank you affection (a fuck once in a while) nor any gratitude. The machine is still humming along now because most men are content with living the life of a mushroom, being fed shit and kept in the dark. But the time will come when even shit-covered mushrooms will see the light of day.

It’s that day, when the Beta males throw their sabots into the machine we’ll see the feminist, Socialist imperium brought to its knees – and the value of pussy will drop from the price of a palace to the cost of a woman’s next meal. Doubt me? Take a look around the rest of the world to see what happens when men refuse to be fleeced the way American chumps are.

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The Sexual Market is an Economic Market

Attractive passionate couple is having sex on kitchen.

The laws of economics are intimately linked with the human sexual market

The mysteries of the sexual market aren’t mysteries at all once logic is applied and a few lessons from economics gleaned. The sexual market, as with all markets of man is an economic one. It’s just that the sexual market is the supreme economic market of mankind, reigning over all the others. Get left out, i.e. live life as a “broke” low-SMV male and become a masturbating incel and/or genetic dead end.

On the topic of sexual and economic markets, Days of Game typed up this succinct description of how the human sexual market operates, and how it conforms to the rules of other economic markets:

I don’t understand the manosphere’s interest in “hypergamy.” It’s the most obvious thing… girls are looking for the best opportunity. That’s not girls… that’s everyone.

And then: Eggs are expensive, sperm are cheap. Got it.

So… girls have more bargaining power, and thus… a lot of guys lose (due to low SMV)… and girls hop around (because they can)… as that egg is in demand (until it isn’t).

Why does this need a billion hours of analysis?

This particular research continues the pattern of underwhelm: A seller with a high-demand product (her pussy), that can find more and more markets (online)… can charge a higher price, and/or burn more potential buyers (for fun or profit).

Econ 101.

Indeed, there’s a lot of overlap between financial and sexual economics. And it is simpler than most men realize.

Women are “sellers” of sex and men are “buyers” of sex. Men pay for it whether or not they realize it. Some guys leave a $100 on the nightstand after a ONS with a pro with a mouth like cocaine. Others have their entire life savings siphoned off and end up living under a bridge for a frigid piece of Anglo ass. The price of entry into the tunnel of love is dependent on numerous factors: supply and demand of sex. Supply = Number of women willing to spread her legs for the average guy. Demand = Male thirst.

There’s one looming conclusion that the awakened man must come to when he realizes the sexual market is an economic one. As TNMM has revealed countless times in the past: Marriage (and relationshits) become sophisticated forms of prostitution when seen through this new set of glasses. Every woman has her price. And sex is never free. Even in the animal kingdom, females trade sexual favors for resources and/or good (bad boy) genes. Even if you think you’re getting it for free, you’re paying in ways you haven’t yet realized.

About the only quibble with the above statement from Days of Game one can find is his diminishing the importance of hypergamy. Hypergamy is an important concept to know because many men are oblivious to the fact women are keenly aware of socioeconomic status while to men such status in a potential poon conquest is largely unimportant. In layman’s terms, men will fuck a hot bitch regardless of if she comes from a poor background or not. How often do we see men marrying hotties who happen be broke, and how often do we see women marrying broke guys? Answer that question and you’ll have an idea of how things work with hypergamy.

That said, we must not always conflate sexual economics with money. In sexual economics, social dominance is more important than economic dominance because social dominance often leads to economic dominance, while idiots with more money than brains end up getting used by women and the world. (The reptilian brains lurking inside all women subconsciously know this, which is why you want to be Alpha Fucks guy and not Beta Bucks guy.)

The takeaway lesson is, study economics and you will understand the human sexual market far better than those who cling to notions of love.

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Don’t Save Her – She Does Not Want to Be Saved

The “Damsel in Distress” is a powerful cultural myth

Titanium Vulture is an author, filmmaker, and contributor to The New Modern Man.

Gents, here’s something to think about if you haven’t figured it out already. The Disney fantasy of the female protagonist being rescued by her dashing prince charming is, for the most part, just fiction.  Although many of these tales where inspired by folklore from the history of man, I can’t help but feel there was some kind of agenda to place the women of these stories front and center.

The damsel in distress.

How many times have you or someone you know gotten pressured into helping some dame move her shit up several flights of stairs?  Or maybe she wants a shoulder to cry on.  The princess DEMANDS she be served.

During the days of chivalry, being kind and courteous to a lady was seen as an aspect of the honorable knight.  It was the knight’s responsibility to come to her rescue should danger, be it man or beast, were to transpire against the fair maiden.

Fast forward to today…many males have fallen far from grace.

I say males instead of men because, in my opinion, eager-beaver-dudes ready to save a random chick from a rational thought, the truth, or “the patriarchy” are nothing more than White-Knight Manginas.  They are not men.

The damsel will not respect a mangina.  A nice summary of the mangina definition is quoted below from Urban Dictionary:

Someone who espouses feminism but is really being suckered into a form of chivalry in which women’s interests take precedence over men’s. Unaware that they are merely “useful idiots”, doing what women want in the vain hope of getting laid. When his usefulness is over she tosses him out with the rest of the rubbish.

Yep, we’ve talked about male disposability before.  But its even more insulting when we demean ourselves by willfully going through the trouble of “rescuing” the object of our desire.  The idea that the woman is just waiting for you to ride in on your horse and save her from, well just life really, sounds absurd to me.

Here’s the secret:  she does not want to be saved!

I’m a life-long fan of hip hop music.  One of my favorite artists in recent years is J. Cole.  He’s producer and rapper that talks about the damsel in the song “No Role Modelz.”  The lead-in to the chorus has some interesting insight:

One time for my LA sisters
One time for my LA hoes
Lame (dudes) can’t tell the difference
One time for a (fellow) who knows
Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved

Women want the “fantasy” of being rescued by their knight in shining armor.  But in real life it’s actually the barbarian that gets the girl.  While the knight’s armor is rusting in the rain along with wilted flowers, the real man is nailing the damsel upstairs in the tower.

The barbarian does not do shit for the damsel.  Not even a rescue.  He just comes in and fucks her.

I’ve been the white knight.  I’ve been the barbarian.  Having played both of these roles, I’ve come to the realization that chivalry, by and large, is not rewarded in our current society.  I believe in being kind for the sake of being kind.  But if someone fucks with me I don’t take their shit.  That goes for both males and females.

I’ve taken my oath and will now aspire to be a dark knight.  One whose armor, while a little dirty and scuffed, still protects the heart of a king.  I will be kind to people.  I will serve.   But men and women will be treated with the same value.  No more of that Disney bullshit.

Gents, I urge you to do the same.  Peace, and stay focused!

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Thirsty, Weak Men and The Downward Spiral of American Women


Stop massaging the egos of blimpy women

Titanium Vulture is an author, filmmaker, and contributor to The New Modern Man.

Men.  We need to talk.

We new modern men are aware of the downward spiral that American women are participating in.  And while feminism, the court system, and the overall march towards communism is a factor, I have to, at the very least, hold some of us fellas accountable.

Cover1267Thirsty…ass…lame…simpin’ men.

I have seen, time and time again, men willing to put their bazooka in just about anything with a heart beat.  Dudes chasing land-whales like they really have something special.

No wonder these girls out here are fucking gassed, man!

And by gassed, I mean so many of these chicks are ignorant, thinking they are just fine, when in truth they would not have a chance in hell if dudes actually held some kind of standard for themselves.

When men become weak, women get out of line.  If you, as a man, allow any woman to walk all over you, degeneracy is the result. I’m in a Facebook group for Puerto Ricans, and someone posted the above pic saying “thick ladies are gorgeous.” Okay, so perhaps the first two from the left are worth a shot. But the rest??? Check out some of these comments below:

Yes they are they are the most lovely sexy oh my God I love I love I love a real woman😍😙😙😙🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷💯💯💯💯.

Followed by:

Beautiful ladies God Bless.


Wow 😱 love them just like that.

Damn, son.  So men are actually thirsting over these land-whales?  REALLY? Gentlemen, it is time to account for ourselves.  We can critique the ladies all day long, but there are a bunch of White Knight Manginas ready to smash these chicks anyway. Why would a woman take care of herself when men have no standards anyway?

I propose a challenge for everyone in this man-o-sphere:  Hold yourself to a higher standard.  You are worth something in this fucked-up world.  You are the descendant of KINGS.  Always remember, modern society is wreaking havoc on our natural, masculine instincts.  It is up to you to don your armor, raise your shield and DEFEND yourself from all this degenerate fuckery.

Though we may not win our world back, at the very least we can set the example for the next generation of men to come up, be strong and demand more from these dames.

Peace, and stay focused!

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Is MGTOW the Ultimate Destination for Successful PUAs?


Is PUA a stepping stone to becoming a MGTOW?

Regular visitors to TNMM will know I’ve gone through a lot of women in the past few years since learning female nature, writing about it, and becoming a successful PUA. I really should have a turnstile installed in my bedroom to keep track of all the tail that’s in and out of there.

Before learning the crimson arts, I managed to get about 30 women into bed by the time I was 30 years old. But in the last few years, I’ve been getting more ass than a toilet seat. I got to a notch count of around 150 women before I stopped counting and writing them in on my list.

The latest development is I have become bored with women and the Game. Sex is still fun, and appealing, but I need less of it. Once a man has climbed the mountain, realized a cornucopia of sensual delights and how to make females feign attention in him, he realizes success can often be a stale finale.

My success with women – and staring into the toxic abyss that is female nature with each successful pick-up – has caused me to lean more towards living a MGTOW lifestyle lately.  I won’t reach the level of a MGTOW monk and I’ll still go through about a dozen women a year by my estimation (about one a month), but my interest in women continues to wane after gaining extensive experience with them. Women are empty souls. The writings of Schopenhauer first clued me in on female nature, and later I found the writings of J.D. Unwin as well as Briffault’s Law:

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

  • Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
  • Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit.
  • A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male.

From Briffault’s Law and the fact bad boys have higher notch counts than good guys, a man can glean that the essence of Game is this: If women don’t want to use men for resources (Betas) they want to try and tame them (Alphas and Sigmas). In short, Game is based on using innate female desire to manipulate and control men against them.

Once you realize women don’t see you as anything except something they can consume, try to tame, or exploit, the allure of sexual encounters with them starts to slip and the scales tip in favor of just avoiding them. The only thing most of them have to offer is sex. (And of course, children. But who wants to have children with Anglobitches dangling the Sword of Damocles i.e. state enslavement over a man’s head?) A man who is thoroughly experienced with women begins to see through every dissimulation, every trick, every game they play before they even make the attempt to move you like a pawn on the chessboard.

He knows how to short circuit the hamster. He even develops a sense of whether a chick is going to be a hot mamacita or a cold fish in bed before the encounter takes place. This man has even developed a sense of resentment towards women…but at the same time realizes he shouldn’t get mad at a predator for being a predator. Why would he get mad at a jaguar for being a jaguar?

But, he might be better off to just avoid the jaguar most of the time. (It’s always good to keep those PUA instincts honed, however, hence the most of the time reference.)

So, this conundrum does pose an interesting question. Do many, if not most successful PUAs eventually become MGTOWs once they’ve realized enormous success with women, and seen chicks for what they really are? I know I don’t want them in my life beyond occasional hook-ups. I’d much rather focus on activities and pursuits that make move me towards self-actualization on Maslow’s pyramid.

Sex is an important part of a man’s lifestyle. But sex and women should never be his final destination. Chicks are merely hedonistic, passing pleasures along the way.

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