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How To Have Women On Your Own Terms


Redheads are fiery in bed, so why not have one on your terms

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.

When I first started learning about this thing called “Game”, it was all about getting the lay.  The all important f-close is the reason most men undertake the the arts of seduction.

Since we live in a culture which is hostile to male heterosexuality, most grow up with a drug induced haze of images from faggot made movies like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and other assorted dog shit which indoctrinates a young boy’s mind into a form of psychological slavery.  This form of bondage is collectively known as white knighting or male thirst.

Growing into young adulthood I seemed to have this idea that a girl who loved me dearly, fanatically devoted to my every need was the end all-be all of life’s journey.  As a young brainwashed fucktard I romanticized endlessly about how that scenario would play out or just how amazing I would feel with my very own pretty pretty princess.  This only served to raise that pedestal up even higher in my mind, putting women in the clouds while I gazed up worshipful from the unclean floor where all sinful males have to be.

Just a pathetic, unworthy chump who somehow deserves a miracle because I’m such a good guy at heart.  I would see girls at school with other guys and think, “He doesn’t deserve her.  I could treat her so much better”.

At some point I’m not sure when, this idea took over my entire thought process.  Converting to Christianity at age 21 after being a manic depressive for years was the nail in the coffin for me.  Now my beta bitch boy mentality received a monster steroid dose of delusion.  Attending churches and hearing all the spineless pastors praise women constantly was a lethal injection of poison into my highly contaminated mind and spirit.  What modern culture did to me was only exacerbated tenfold by embracing Christianity and the weak males who proliferate it’s fagged out congregations.

It was a constant struggle to wrest my mind and spirit from Medusa’s gaze.  The whole time I sensed this internal battle going on within me.  I couldn’t quite articulate it then but the struggle was between sincere belief in the paper thin facade of lies and the primal instinct in my gut screaming DANGER DANGER!

Enough is Enough

After 6 long years of spiritual slavery and cognitive dissonance I’d had enough.  I finally grabbed my nuts and said a big fuck you to the church and every fag within it.  I finally stopped believing in the lies which only caused me to bash my head against a wall constantly while every weak bitch around insisted I was on the oh so righteous path.  These “godly” men would always say things like “God has a special plan for you and He has the right woman already picked out and just around the corner” as the church tried to pawn off single mothers and used up whores as some kind of “blessing” to its lovesick, piss weak males.

I had all this pent up frustration for so long and I was so angry that I went in the complete opposite direction.  I became the biggest shitlord I could possibly imagine in a very short period of time.

So what does this have to do with having women on your own terms you ask?

Well the answer is very simple.  To have women on your own terms you simply must not care about them anymore. You must lay to rest in a shallow and forgotten grave the entire notion of romantic love. Now I know this is easier said than done but there is a plan of action to achieve these results but only if you are willing to go all the way and not hold back one bit.

Are you truly ready for that?


You, too can tap dat ass with this sage advice

Find Your Nuts Again

In order to regain control of your mind, your life and become the tantalizing delight of the female hindbrain one must completely abandon all pretensions of care towards women and act in 100% complete and total selfishness.

“But Jack, I’m just not that kind of person.”

Well if a female’s petty love is something you truly want you had better change yourself and do it goddamn quick.  One of the best ways to become a master of pussy is having the inner power to turn down a piece of ass even when you have no other options.

“WTF Jack! Isn’t the purpose of learning game to get laid?”

While that may be the impetus which spurred you down this path, the destination is much much greater.  Now a lot of playa playa’s and guys in the manosphere might disagree with me here but the purpose of learning game isn’t just to get pussy.

The purpose of game and self improvement is to become a SUPERIOR man.  One whose thoughts, words and deeds are in a frightening, mystical alignment.

Pussy is simply a side effect of becoming a superior man.  When you the reach the point of total ZFG, women will find you irresistibly arousing.  Having been on the wrong side of those tracks for so long you will feel like you now have magical powers and your relationships with women will seem like one big hilarious joke which you entertain yourself with.  If you are like me you will maniacally laugh inside every time you see some retard female’s eyes light up with attraction when you are an arrogant, uncaring prick.

That is the point when your life will become something you live just for you.  Whether that be for your own entertainment or something more, all that matters is that your life and your destiny are now in your hands alone.

Violently Destroy Your Barriers

If you have never turned pussy away you should force yourself to do it on a regular basis until you don’t give a fuck.

Shortly after I made my exodus from fagged out Cucktianity I ran through sluts like a freight train and I got addicted to the momentum and the action.  For me getting the f-close was cool and all but the hilarious shit I said and did to get me there was the juice I began to crave.  Every time I did some crazy asshole shit I would tell myself

“Alright Jack, this time you gotta one up yourself.”

From making out with girls in front of their boyfriends, choking girls within 20 secs of meeting them and grabbing sluts out of groups of chodes to take them to the dance floor make out and finger them while the chumps stood by completely bewildered.  I was on a fucking rampage.

I remember this one blond I fucked and she must have thought that I really liked her or something because I enjoyed the sex.  She told a friend of mine that I was in love with her.  So the next time she called I made it a point to plan a meetup in which I stood her up.  After a bunch of missed calls and texts I finally simply told her, “Guess what babe?  No dick for you!”

Even though I didn’t have any other options for pussy that night I felt like a fucking boss telling some whore to get fucked (by someone else).  If you’ve never done this before, the mental and spiritual power it will give you cannot be understated.


Make women obey your commands rather than vice versa

Feed The Fire

When you get momentum like this it is essential to go harder and harder pushing yourself into the stratosphere.


Not for the faint of heart! 

This is the path to forge a man out of steel.  Ironically my entire attitude and ZFG mentality ended up attracting a girl 10yrs younger than me who ticked off a majority of all indicators to be girlfriend material.  She quickly fell madly in love with me and honestly it was fucking funny to watch.

All this time I had been led to believe what I now had was the absolute pinnacle of a male’s existence.  I remember thinking after a lengthy period with this girl, “Fuck. This is it? Goddamn. I was happier single!”

Serious relationships in my experience just bring a man down, kill his ZFG attitude and obliterate his freedom.  The path of a superior man is one of climbing ever upward.  The only caveat is this.

When you ascend to the heights no one else dares go, you might find yourself all alone.  This is not a bad thing however.

Just takes some serious introspection and honesty with oneself to assess whether or not you have the fucking cajones to handle it.

This is Jack Ronin signing off.

P.S. Do your part and punch a white knight in the face!

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Plundering Poon in the 20-25 Age Range as the Awakened Man Pushes 40+


Why settle for bologna when you can have filet mignon?

Here’s a modest proposal for the man who has mastered Game and who wants to toss up a middle finger to women’s increasingly ridiculous demands of men in the 21st century. Stop dating women over age 35 even as you pass this milestone. The multitude of reasons why men of all ages should do this were elucidated in another TNMM article earlier this year about Female Expiration Dates.

But, important points bear repeating. Especially in a nation in which even top dog Alpha males are regularly frivorce raped. Personally, I take it a step further and won’t date women over age 30, and except in unusual circumstances only date women aged 20 to 25 even though I am pushing 40.

Call it revenge as the sexual tables have turned for men and women in my age group, i.e. women in my age group have only lost sex appeal while I have gained it, or call it a man who realized the truth of the “Men Age Like Wine and Women Age Like Milk” maxim and prefers nubile flesh and facial features over saggy and worn out ones.

What man wants a bologna sandwich when he can have the choicest cuts of pussy meat?

Oh, and before the flood of hate mail starts from dried up feminists, let’s reference a Jezebel article in which women are encouraged to adopt the same dating strategy.

While the “cougar” (the older woman who pursues significantly younger men) is at least partly an overhyped media creation, there’s some evidence that for one age group in particular, this is a real emerging trend. More than a few women in their late 20s to mid 30s who generally dated older men are now switching to going out with younger guys. While the stereotypical cougar is a woman in her 40s with a boyfriend little more than half her age, these women are still in their 30s going out with guys just a few short years younger than themselves.


What’s good for the goose is good for the gander, ladies. The only difference is the younger men you date are likely incels who are out for an easy lay and the USDA-approved, prime filet mignon seasoned men pull gravitate to us because biology has made it this way.

Isn’t it odd that women in their prime gravitate to older men. I have no trouble tapping 20 to 25 year old tail, as women once again prove they care more about dominance (i.e. a male who has survived the shit tests of life and prospered) more than they do anything else. It’s all about exploiting that male utility value, isn’t it femcunts?


Only the best will do for the discriminating gentleman

Choicest Cuts of Meat

So, you men who are struggling with women in your teens and 20s – hang on. If you develop yourself professionally and personally without a wit to what women say you should be doing (getting married, becoming a White Knight or other sort of Bitch Boy, etc.) you are in for a cornucopia of ass as a physically fit, successful asshole in your 30s.

This is double and triple true if you buy a plane ticket off the Anglobitch’s plantation and travel to virtually any other destination on earth, where you will more often than not be treated as a sort of demigod rather than a meal ticket to be used up and discarded.

In fact, if you go full Red Pill, and become a Machiavellian manipulator of women sensual delights most men dare not dream of will be laid out before you, even in America for those most cunning of poon hunters. As your fortunes are rising, female fortunes in your age group will be declining. It is the most delicious irony, and proof there is some modicum of justice as that Great Wheel in the Sky keeps on turning.

What does a women have to offer me after she passes age 35 other than the biological equivalent of the Spruce Goose? Even Blanche Devereaux knew that women lose their appeal to men after a certain age. As she said, men may visit, and play with her controls, but her anatomy will never really “fly” again.

Their looks have fully depreciated by this age, and today’s YouGoGrrl “empowered” corporate drone fembots  have run up the equivalent of 500,000 miles on their vaginas if they had odometers. Would you pay top dollar for a worn out car? Of course not. So why would you pick up the pieces of a post-carousel cock rider and do anything she wants you to do?

The only reason women more easily relinquish their sexuality and commitments to men at this age is because they’ve run out of pussy power. They know they’re depreciating assets and their sell by date is fast approaching or has already passed.

Men need to relegate women past the age of 35 to lives lived out as cat mommies and let them continue to be the corporate drones they so wanted to be until the company pumps and dumps them financially like so many men before did physically.

Vengeance is sweet even in the time when men must choose to be poolside or saddle up with the coming infantry to defend the declining fortunes of the West. This author sees nothing worth defending since feminism and liberalism destroyed the foundations of this culture, so I’ll see you poolside gents with a Latina on one arm and a black girl on the other.

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The Psychology Of The Sheeple

Feminized humans are sheeple

Most people follow the herd, no matter how ridiculous the herd’s actions may be

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.

Feminized humans are herd animals.  Those who truly think and act for themselves are exceedingly rare.  To live in this kind of freedom requires risk and danger.  A feminized and spineless culture is loathe to take any risks or stand apart from the herd.  Society in the west, since granting universal suffrage has conformed to the feminine mindset of rules, regulations, safe spaces and alleviation of any perceived dangers through use of state force.  With the group think mentality pushed by schools, the media and virtually everywhere else, it makes perfect sense that we have a docile mass of sheeple.  Their psychology is very simple.  They want to be accepted within the group and they want to be entertained.  They use technology not as a means to better themselves or humanity but something to give mindless distraction while inflating their fragile egos.

Weakness Personified

With these motivating desires in mind it is easily observable why most people do all the stupid shit that they do.  When you see a white person virtue signaling to others by denigrating anyone else past or present who have a similar skin tone it is because they are appealing to a perceived group think consciousness of morality.  Anyone who is assertive of views which would place them outside said moral construct are to be quickly reprimanded to get back in line by the drooling sheeple.

To show unique qualities or viewpoints is simply wrong to anyone whose ego is invested in the status quo.  For most of the sheeple, to be singled out and scrutinized causes tremors of fear to rattle through their brittle bones.  Likewise when they seek to punish stray sheep for daring to be different, it comes by way of this fear.  It is fear which is the locus of control for the mind and heart of the sheeple.

It was Machiavelli who said it would be best for one to be both feared and loved.  If one had to choose however it would be better to be feared.

Knowing that fear is largely the impetus for action among the passive, one can more accurately assess how to corral the herd for a savage man’s own end.  Knowing someone’s fears is the lever by which you can exert total control over them.  Much of the modern media platform is based around fear and repetition.

This is key to understand.  When you are able to see outside the narrative, it is possible to observe the techniques they use to control the sheep.

For Every Sheep A Shepherd

For sheep, the shepherd is whatever force in their lives which directs them the most.  For nearly everyone this is the mainstream media narrative including television, commercials and movies.  The process to shape and mold someone’s perception of reality is with constant repetition blasting images, sounds, whatever to reinforce the candy coated turd they are feeding the sheeple.

It is possible through this method to reinforce someone’s opinion of yourself and also to affect their mood/emotions when around you too.

If you want them to think well of you simply construct a narrative of a near ecstatic state due to amaaazing things happening in your life and within your sphere whenever you are around this person(s).  Remember constant repetition and reinforcement of the narrative.  This will project your constructed reality into their feeble minds.

There will be other times where you do not wish to take the shepherd role but would rather work unnoticed as a wolf in sheep’s clothing.  For this you embody the weakness and pathetic conformity of the sheeple to slide in without resistance and plant yourself among the docile.

I devoted an entire article to this subject here.

Lastly you may actively take on the role of hunter at other times and openly poach the sheeple in whichever ways you please.  Hey, every sheep needs shearing.

Hearts And Minds

To win someone’s heart you must constantly occupy their minds.  To occupy someone’s mind you must affect their heart(emotions) deeply.  As I have stated….fear and repetition.  This is the means to control the sheeple.  Love is transient and fickle.  Fear is a natural biological response to threat.  Therefore fear is a much more powerful emotion.

When it comes to the shallow hearts of females I personally don’t believe any woman can truly love a man she does not also fear.  Keep this in mind in regards to the sheeple because I’m sure most readers here know we live in a feminized cesspool.

Often the only requirement for you to take center stage among the sheeple is to simply be the loudest and most obnoxious about your message.  Those who dissent are drowned out amidst your cacophony of projections.

Finally understanding the psychology of those around you will better prepare yourself for future endeavors.  If you are like me then you are loathe to endure the trite social malaise of the modern world.  Knowing the psychology of the sheeple though gives me the perspective with which to take action.

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The Burden of The Disposable Anglo Male


Western men have endangered their own survival by creating a society so prosperous women don’t need them anymore…they just avail themselves of the Female Free Ride through life

On my recent trip back home to The Matrix there was an idea that occurred to me that I just couldn’t shake. As I looked upon a nation that scarcely resembles the one I grew up in anymore, I was constantly reminded of female solipsism and females’ total lack of respect and regard for what the men in their tribe have done for them.

It’s never: “What have you done for me?” It’s always: “What have you done for me LATELY?” when it comes to women in this moribund culture.

Anglo women have disposed of the men in their tribe and family even after both gave them the most prosperous society in the history of the world. Men literally created everything you see around you through their genius and creativity and the children they once had powered the economy and protected the tribe.

Everything you see around you in the Western world is the result of sexual selection and the male attempt to appease the female of the species.

Now that she has everything she wants, the male has become completely worthless to her and the house-band’s (husband’s) “primitive” notion of family is no longer of interest to her. Men hold the family together…but their ability to do so has been almost completely destroyed by a gynocentric culture and legal system.

When reminiscing about the situation as I return to the warmth of the Caribbean, I feel the pain of my brothers who have no sense of purpose in life now that the traditional reasons for them to strive, achieve and create – wives and families – have been taken away from them.

It’s a sad commentary as one writes the obituary of Western civilization. I’m flabbergasted as I tour areas what were once European American strongholds that now look like foreign countries. I harbor no ill will towards those moving in to fill the vacuum left by a dying race of people, but at the same time I know deep inside the reason traditional Americans are dying off is because their women have become useless from a biological and reproductive standpoint.

Women now have no incentive to play along with the marriage/family game because all their needs are taken care of.

And that’s all men are good for, right? Utility value.

In short, Anglo women’s frigid nature led Anglo men to greatness and world domination as they strove to appease it – but it is also destroying them as she simply has no further use for them because his creation has become self-sufficient and replaced him as the provider in her life.

Which shows us once again very ugly aspects of the female psyche and behavioral repertoire (especially in K-selected females) that are taboo to speak of in most circles and verboten to criticize in a pussy pedestalizing society.

As we play out the string and watch a once dominant nation succumb to generations of women’s liberation, documenting the decline will serve as a cautionary tale about becoming too prosperous and loosening restraints on female sexuality and behavior a little too much.

And at least one corner of the blogosphere will mention the truth that others dare not speak of – that of the burden of the disposed of male. What do you think? Do you have any personal stories to share as a disposed of male? We would love to hear from you. Post a comment below or send us an email.

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MGTOW Ghosting: A Way to Go Galt


Refusing to participate in a society that dehumanizes men is an important topic

Whenever I return home to the East Coast of the United States for a short visit, if there’s one overarching theme that describes the entire event it’s the complete and total lack of desire to participate in society in a meaningful way. It’s really a sad place to me, compared to the warm and fun Latin culture I now live in.

Whether it was watching people walking around like zombies, going from a fix of crappy fast food and coffee milkshakes, Made in China shopping/competitive consumption at Walmart, or accidentally wandering into a white girl strip club and thinking just how piss poor the quality of American women is, there are just no incentives for male participation in this sexless clusterfuck anymore.

Juxtaposing Latin America alongside Anglo America is jarring, to say the least when a man jumps from one culture to the other. In one culture I feel totally invisible and worthless, and women treat me that way even though I am an attractive, well-traveled and cultured and successful man. In the other culture I am somewhat of a rock star wherever I go, and women treat me well. Guess which society I want to invest my time and energy into?

But, expatriation is not for everyone. Some people want to stay in Anglo America. For them, Going Galt or MGTOW Ghosting is the preferred means of removing the benefit of their participation from a society that at best doesn’t care about them, and at worst completely exploits them. Going Galt and MGTOW ghosting are related. While I don’t particularly identify as a MGTOW since I get more ass than a toilet seat, and could never give up women, I do think there is a lot of overlap in MGTOW ideology and the rest of the manosphere and I respect it.


Women are for entertainment purposes only with this philosophy

How to Ghost

There are several ways men can ghost. There are varying opinions on how to Ghost. Here are some of the more pragmatic ones.

Live on your own. Don’t let women into your life in any meaningful way as most of them are financial predators. Learn the tenets of Game, and practice them well. Bang chicks, but never invest yourself in them or their problems. Know women can “smell” money and resources, and always keep them at arms length before they can financially rape you either through marriage, making you her baby daddy i.e. slave for an unwanted pregnancy, etc.

Live minimalistically. Live on the cheap and have a variety of cheap hobbies you enjoy. In my best friend’s case, he built a tiny home for around $15,000 and lives in it even though he earns about $50,000 a year and has no consumer debt. He has hobbies he enjoys, like fixing up classic cars – something he couldn’t do when he had a bitch around because, of course, she wanted to control him and his money.

Get a job that suits you, and work as little as possible. As marketing guru Clotaire Rapaille says, most of the time people have no idea WHY they’re doing what they’re doing. This observation applies to men working themselves too hard and consuming too much because they’re socially conditioned to do so. Your goal as a Ghost should be to get and stay out of debt and cut your expenses in such a way that you can work only enough to support yourself while enjoying the rest of your time living a lifestyle of freedom. This blog – particularly the Minimalism and Money section is here to help you learn how to do just that.

Stay mentally and physically healthy. By not participating in the follies of HR and estrogen-rich office spaces as much as possible, your mind will begin to cleanse itself of toxic and sarcastic Anglo culture and petty office politics. Just the realization I didn’t have to put up with a bunch of assholes every day once I started Going Galt and doing whatever the fuck I want to do was enough to take my bouts of depression and anxiety away. Exercise and eat right – track what you eat with MyFitnessPal or a similar app as a healthy body and fit physique is 70% diet and only 30% exercise.

Most important: Do things that make you happy and fuck what everyone else thinks about your life. Nobody is going to understand you and everyone you tell about your plan is going to try and discourage you from realizing it. Remember, most of these people are hopelessly dependent on the myths and fantasies of a system that exploits them. For that reason, don’t go approval-seeking as it’s not only Beta behavior it’s also going to destroy your Ghosting journey before it begins. I am quite possibly the happiest motherfucker I know and it’s only because I haven’t turned myself into a slave to consumption and a slave to pussy and a slave on the Anglobitch plantation that I feel this way.

In short, I totally understand why men want to abandon modern day culture in Anglo America and much of the West. It only offers a lifestyle of working and consuming until you drop dead, in an economic and cultural scheme that benefits females far more than it benefits males.

I encourage men to either Go Galt or MGTOW Ghost as a way of regaining control over their lives and their freedom. Male participation, cooperation, and utility have been taken for granted for much too long.

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