Category Archives: The Sexes

Why Foreign Women Are Better Than the Anglobitch

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Foreign women are often superior life and sex partners

My recent article criticizing the Anglobitch that first appeared on Return of Kings sparked a lively debate with its bold but personally well-researched claim that Western women (and especially those from the English-speaking world) have become the worst in the world, with some men defending their honor even as they plunge Western nations into sexlessness, fatherlessness, and take beta male provider roles away through careerism, rendering modern men nothing more than sperm donors and utility objects.

To some men the demographic destruction of Western nations, dying populations, hateful femcunt marches demanding the right to kill a father’s progeny without consulting him, demands for more gibsmedats from the cuckolding welfare state, a dearth of satisfying sex lives for millions of men – all don’t mean Western women are broken.

As the society around them crumbles, and Western women either breed with men conquering America (and Europe) or take cats home rather than bouncing baby boys and girls, some guys insist nothing is wrong. They take a “Walk away, there’s nothing to see here…” approach even as some notice the massive (pun intended) Anglobitch trainwreck unfolding.

No, somewhere in the Midwest or another hidden corner of America there’s a fertile damsel in distress just waiting to save the West if a man “alphas up” and finds her.

This attitude is why Western women suck, and why they’ll never change. There will be 100 white knights defending them for every one asshole that calls them out on the substandard companionship they offer and the destruction their wild woman ways are bringing to society.

While there was some reasonable criticism of the article, predictable boilerplate attacks quickly ensued from white knights and jaded American women who try to defend their sullied reputation with hot air. White knights and Anglobitches laughably say every man who’s not into them is a basement dwelling loser rather than someone who has discovered he doesn’t need or want them or their well used, moist piece of anatomy anymore. It never occurs to these myopics that maybe he’s found a far better deal in life, and is calling a spade a spade.

But there is an important point to be made when comparing and contrasting American vs. foreign women. AWALT still applies – All Women Are Like That. All women have wild and base sexual instincts, and it’s true that foreign women are just as bad as Western women IF their behavior isn’t modified by the culture they’re in.

The crucial difference is as follows: American women have been allowed to return to their wild instincts which quickly cause civilization to become unstable, while foreign women in many countries still have cultural constraints placed upon their sexuality. This crucial difference averts the return to a sexual Law of the Jungle that has descended upon America (and the rest of the West!)

Here’s why Western women suck, and how to fix them.

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All societies and tribes in history that have loosened constraints on female sexuality have quickly declined

5,000 Years of Anthropological History

When women are left to return to their true nature with no cultural checks and balances on their behavior, we see the post-feminist clusterfuck that is quickly killing the West ensue. As I frequently point out in my writing, 5,000 years of anthropological history has proven this should come as no surprise, as no society that ever stayed civilized eased inhibitions on female sexuality.

Inhibiting and controlling female sexuality is the price of living in a civilized society. Anglo-America has forgotten this. Across thousands of years of human history, in J.D. Unwin’s study of 80 tribes and 6 high cultures, 100% of societies that loosened constraints on female sexuality, opening Pandora’s pussy box quickly degenerated and fell apart. Natural female instincts are destructive to civilization as the following happens, elucidated by none other than Unwin and Aldous Huxley and simplified into bullet points by me:

Huxley put it like this:

All human societies are in one or another of four cultural conditions: zoistic, manistic, deistic, rationalistic. Of these societies the zoistic displays the least amount of mental and social energy, the rationalistic the most. Investigation shows that the societies exhibiting the least amount of energy are those where pre-nuptial continence is not imposed and where the opportunities for sexual indulgence after marriage are greatest. The cultural condition of a society rises in exact proportion as it imposes pre-nuptial and post-nuptial restraints upon sexual opportunity.

Controlling female instincts with the proper cultural restraints is how a civilization is built up. Female “sexual liberation” is destined to end in disaster as it tears a civilization down. Other cultures still control female sexuality, and therefore the women in these cultures are superior to the Anglobitch for commitment and companionship.

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Women possess an enormous amount of biological power over men; this power is checked by culture in a sane society

Checks And Balances On Pussy Power

Again, this isn’t because foreign women are innately better. All women are born the same. But proving that nurture is of utmost importance in the nature vs. nurture debate, foreign women are better options for sane men for three reasons:

  • Culture: Women are taught to respect men. Female sexual depravity is constrained by a patriarchal culture and slut shaming. Women with illegitimate (bastard) children are ostracized rather than praised as saintly single moms. Fathers are central to the family and not depicted as sex-hungry oafs and check writers as in the West.
  • Pussy Power: Women’s enormous biological power over men is checked and balanced by a patriarchal culture. Women can’t therefore can’t lord this power over men, using nature’s credit card to get what they want. Enforced monogamy means no beta thirst allowing low quality women to act like goddesses.
  • Hypergamy: Women’s instinct to “marry up” in social status means they’ll comport themselves better with men they see as useful utilities or who are part of a higher caste, i.e. Western men abroad or the average working man in the States when there is no welfare state sugar daddy.

Take these bulwarks against female depravity away and you will destroy foreign women as well. The reason Western women are so bad is because the West has removed all three of these protections for men with the institution of feminism, female “empowerment” and the resource cuckoldry provided by a beta male robbing welfare state.

When it comes to culture, commenter “David” makes my case very well:

Personally, I speak enough Spanish and Italian now to see that foreign women have a general respect for men that Americans don’t. They look men in the eye when they talk and they don’t interrupt when he’s speaking. Even with strangers. They love their family and are respectful of their fathers and brothers. Asia was the same. For that reason, those men don’t need that weird “clown game” for attention that Roosh refers to. They are given attention as a man.

…Every American girl I know is estranged from her dad. Probably because her mom divorce raped him and shit talked him.

Women are all the same sure. But those patriarchal societies are happier because the women have less power. No woman in Colombia would win a custody battle against the bread winner, or a rape case against her fucking husband or boyfriend.

A crucial point is made here: Once patriarchy is overthrown, women have almost unlimited power. And as Lord Acton knew, when it comes to human nature, power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

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What’s most unreal about the West’s woman problems is men who defend Western harlots

Patriarchy Vs. Degeneracy

Patriarchy is the only counterbalance to the immense amount of power women enjoy by virtue of their biology. It is what made the human species different than the lower animals in the animal kingdom. If there is one constant in biology, it is that the male is disposable.

The Black Widow kills and consumes the male after the mating act, so does the Preying Mantis. In countless species, the male exists to do little more than survive and pass his genes on to the next generation.

Humans were different in that they offered the male a seat at the head of the table of the human family, a role which he has demonstrated an aptitude for as his guidance of the human family led us to the abundance we enjoy today. But, no sooner than the Western male completed his job as a utility object giving the world abundance like it has never seen, are some ready to throw him overboard and reduce him to his former role in animalistic world of the matriarchy as sperm donor and laborer.

That’s where the West is headed. It’s not going to take me with it.

So, while it’s true AWALT/All Women Are Like That, there’s no doubt foreign women are superior to Western women where checks and balances are still applied to their biological power and they’re shaped and molded by a patriarchal culture rather than a degenerate culture.

This isn’t an illusion, it’s just an inconvenient fact until the wild women of the West either destroy themselves and their men, or Western culture as a whole grows a set and once again tames the wild beast known as female sexuality.

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The Sublime Beauty Of The Housewife

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Few things are more beautiful than housewives

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.


Much has been said about the sorry state of western women.  Many men are turning off and tuning out from a system designed to demonize them.  While I support starving the system and otherwise withdrawing any hands of provision to the western whore.  I also support anything which serves to uplift women into the best roles for themselves, their families and society as a whole.  As men we know that female behavior is dependent on the males who are the real culture creators and lawgivers.  We cannot have an upright and upward striving people if we do not FORCE our women to follow the roles best suited for them.  For any red pilled man we know beyond any shadow of doubt that female bad behavior will never rectify itself on it’s own.

In fact said behavior is a direct reflection of the society and the males they grow up around.  So, the only way to change this malignant strain of inferior specimens is to first cut off all support from undesirables(weak males and carousel riding career skanks).  Then we must at the same time offer the right way for them to behave and encourage and guide them into the roles to which biology and God has created them for.

The Housewife

I am fortunate that even before I was thoroughly red pilled I still made it a point to surround myself with the types of men who were similar to me or even further along the path.  Because of this I have direct observational experience at witnessing the sublime beauty of the Housewife and her happiness at making home and hearth her dwelling place.  A labor of love she endures in giving birth to her husband’s children and also making the home an inviting and nurturing place for her little ones.  While the husband is off to do the work of his calling she keeps herself busy aiding him in clerical duties and the immense work of  caring for their future.

The housewife is truly a role only fit for women who bear the most regal standard in their hearts.  The highest calling to which her biology agrees.  Her womb is the future of her and her husband’s genetic legacy, as well as their people as a whole.  To treat her body and the fruit of her womb with the kind of disdain we see from women today is only fit for the most retrograde and recalcitrant death cult mutants.  I have seen with my own eyes the joy of the housewife in preparing dinner for her family.  We as men must reinforce this role with any suitable women we may find and also aggressively encourage our friends and family to do the same.

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Slut shaming was one of the ways society effectively controlled wild female sexuality in the past

Bringing Back Shame

One of the largest motivating factors to shape female behavior is societal shame.  As men it is our duty to bring back the social stigma attached to loose women along with the abusive mockery and debasement suited for these types of sewer rats.  Yes we must shame them relentlessly!

Before we direct our ire towards these wayward women, we must first target our anger and our contempt at the weak males who enable this sort of behavior in women.  That means as a man you must with horrifying aggression attack the white knight faggot wherever you may find him.  I have written about this recently in my piece about punching a white knight in the face.

Everywhere we look today there seems to be an endless throng of “nasty” women screeching from their bullhorns their great delight in attaining the status of a wretched harridan.  We must point, laugh and sneer with open disgust at them.  When the grotesque blob of low t males come to her defense we must unleash all of our rage and anger upon every last one.  Do not let these punks escape your wrath!  For the great black hole of terrible female behavior is a direct result of these types of males.  They must never be allowed to escape judgement.

A Man Brings Judgement

The masculine principle is Order.  That is what we bring to the world.  When said world is completely out of balance and lacking in order we must bring down fiery judgement on all the sinners.  We must cast them to the hell of their terrible decisions without remorse.  No one is going to change our world except for us.  Sitting by hoping and praying that one day women will see the light and repent of their behavior is the want of the weakling.  If we see that something in our world needs to change it is on US to make it happen!

If we have seen the orderly and righteous house that belongs to a man and his loving housewife.  We must with all our strength work tirelessly to bring it to realization in our own lives and the world around us.  We simply cannot wait for anyone else to do it for us.

For modern women I am sure that many if not all you have witnessed the abject fear and revulsion that is caused in the modern harlot anytime that word JUDGEMENT is used on her.  The wicked witches of the west recoil like hideous ghouls to such ego obliterating truths.

We must aim this weapon like Poseidon rising up from the depths, hurling a Trident of Truth right through their mother fucking skulls.

If you don’t have the balls to smash a white knight’s face in or publicly point and shame a ho then don’t you ever open that mouth to complain.  You are either the hand of reckoning to bring down ruthless judgement on a twisted world full of human insects.  Or you’re just another fuckboy awaiting your day of annihilation.  Either way.

Judgement is coming!

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5 Ways Anglo Women Have Turned Themselves into Sex Objects

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Anglo women complain about being seen as sex objects even though their selfish lifestyles mean they have no other commodity to offer a man other than a flat behind and well-used anatomy

The more globe hopping I do and the more time I spend in different parts of the world, the worse I feel for my American brethren, and the more I know it wasn’t me who was to blame for the fiasco that was my dating life until I deserted the Anglobitch once and for all. American women are truly the worst in the entire world, and I can now say that with reassurance and confidence after spending some more time in the States. This isn’t just hyperbole from the manosphere. This disturbing realization is palpable every time I come back to The Anglo-American Matrix.

Those who read my material may already know I reside in the Caribbean, but I recently embarked on an extended road trip from coast to coast across the United States (and incidentally, will be hitting four continents this year while writing about my journeys). Sometimes you just have to spend time with buddies and I wanted to challenge myself to see if American women really are that bad, as I had been away from them for a while. Give them a second chance and all that jive.

Was that ever a horrible idea.

The most interesting part of my trip was my visit to the infamous Moonlite Bunny Ranch, a legal whorehouse in Nevada. I came to the conclusion there needs to be a whorehouse like this one in every town in America, for feminism and women’s instincts unleashed by liberalism have made them absolutely worthless for anything else except casual sex.

Maybe I’m spoiled by living in Latin America, but I just refuse to deal with American women for very long, refuse to put up with their nonsense, and refuse to put up with their bitching – even those who show interest in me. I’ll hit it and quit it, but that’s as far as it will go.

It didn’t take long before I was aching to leave the dry and dusty snatch of America once again. Here’s what I saw.

Obesity. Lord almighty at the obesity. People have transformed themselves into consumption machines, and a recreational eating obsession is taking its toll on American women. They’re the most piggish women on the planet.

Bad manners. Talking to women in bars or worse, online, has become an exercise in futility and sadism directed towards oneself. It was PAINFUL to try and carry on a conversation with a girl in America.

Trashy appearance. Chalk it up to slut worship as the media tells women how to dress and act, but it would seem at some point we could have a national conversation explaining to women being covered in tattoos with blue hair and an unhygienic countenance isn’t desirable.

And these are only appetizers for the all you can eat buffet of disgust!

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With literally nothing else to offer to a man, American women have become self-made sex objects

Self-Made Sex Objects

With nothing to offer men but sex, the truth is modern American women have become self-made sex objects. They’ve done it to themselves! Let’s delve into the cost-benefit analysis and return on investment for today’s Anglobitch.

  • Cost: Astronomical. Whether it be damaged goods working girls with badly painted on eyebrows asking for up to $1,000 an hour in many cities (that was the quote I got from two hoes in Vegas who stopped me to talk in Caesar’s Palace) to women who won’t settle for anything less than the Barbie Fun House and a quarter of a million frivorce settlement, expected male investment in even Plain Jane women is sky high.
  • Benefit: Are you kidding me? Other than a vagina that’s been around the block more times than the UPS man, there’s literally nothing American women have to offer a man other than sex. What are they good for? Companionship? Fuck no. Good life partners? Fuck no again. Good mothers? Nope. Entertaining to be around? No. Good conversationalists? Only if you like endless stories about careerism and vacuous banter. Sweet natured? About as sweet as vinegar. Their loyalty? Please, stop already.
  • Return on Investment: Negative numbers here, as men pay through the nose for a substandard product.

Here are 5 more points that help prove American women, by stripping themselves of anything of value to a man other than their anatomy, have ironically turned themselves into the very sex objects they supposedly loathe.

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A recent trip home only reinforced the following talking points

5 Strikes Against The Anglobitch

Can’t Cook Or Clean. It’s well known American women know how to stuff their pie holes quite well, as they’re literally the fattest women on the planet, but when it comes to actually preparing food they prefer to leave that to kitchen slaves. Cooking is a lost art, as people settle instead for ersatz corporate cuisine that got stamped out of a machine rather than something lovingly cooked by a girlfriend or wife. Would it hurt them to be able to make a decent sandwich, when women from other cultures can serve up culinary delights most gelded American men dare not dream of?

Many if not most American women live in unkempt, messy, and even dirty living spaces. Rather than lift a finger to do some light housework, they spend their days watching daytime TV, playing career girl, and/or drugging themselves with both legal and illegal substances to silence the dying eggs in their wombs.

Statistically Sterile. With a birth rate below even mere replacement fertility for more than 40 years, American women’s selfish, ego-driven lifestyles have resulted in a population that is literally dying off. More white people are now dying than being born nationwide. Yet, the Anglobitch still proudly marches around Washington demanding the right to kill her own unborn offspring rather than demanding that women be responsible and use one of the myriad forms of birth control available. I recently listed about a dozen and a half forms of birth control right here on ROK that will prevent pregnancy in the first place, but Anglo women find killing unborn children a sexier topic than using birth control properly.

No Fun to Be Around. Anglo girl’s personalities are the interpersonal equivalent of wandering into a dry, dry desert. One realizes just how obtuse the Anglobitch is after he’s spent months or years abroad. She is in many ways a miserable human being. In fact, many of them will go out of the way to be boorish and offensive. Beyond those negatives, they have nothing of interest to talk about other than the trite talking points shoved into their silly putty minds by social engineers in the public school system pushing careerism and the mediaites pushing hatred for men.

Have Made Themselves Slave Owners. Slavery never ended in the United States, for potential slaves are exactly what fathers are in modern times. Women can single-handedly turn a free man into a slave who has 18 years of debt servitude and penury on his hands with one call to a filthy lawyer. This is one of the most inhuman ways of treating men in human history, a return to the doleful days of the matriarchy, before society was civilized. We are regressing to a society in which men have no roles, and will become uncivilized as a result. That fact is based on anthropological science, not opinion.

Are Empty Souls Attempting To Fill The Void With Material Things. On my trip around the nation, I noticed just how similar every state and every town is to every other state and town in the country. Thanks to women, who drive four-fifths of the consumption economy, the nation is literally a coast to coast shopping mall built on the female predilection for mindless consumption and Keeping Up With The Joneses. I see women populating these churches of materialism with nothing inside them except the desire to mindlessly buy more and more and more consumer crap, and to make sure her crap is better than her neighbor Becky’s crap. This is the be-all, end-all of human existence, and the great victory for women’s lib? A world of drones lumbering around the mall and local slop joint?

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Pump and dump the predator before she pumps and dumps your wallet

Pump And Dump, My Friends

This recent experience – reinforcing knowledge I already knew – only served to take away any remaining guilt I had for looking at women as sex objects. By their own volition, that’s the life they’ve chosen. When they have nothing to offer but sex, they shouldn’t be outraged when that’s all men want from them. Women did this to themselves, with the assistance of unscrupulous social engineers.

No man should be expected to make an investment in an empty human being, devoid of any qualities that makes her worthwhile to a man except the sex she maneuvers to control and even enslave him with. As many of us know the modern Anglobitch exhibits all the traits of a predator, elucidated by Lawrence Shannon:

Know your adversary. Know that she IS your adversary. Develop a working understanding of predatory females. Accept what you’ve learned about predatory females, both emotionally and intellectually. Forget your past presumptions and values concerning females. They were sprinkled into your mind by the matriarchal system. You have to break out. For the risks involved, you’d definitely be better off with a high class prostitute. After all, there are good reasons, most of them very Darwinian, for prostitution being the oldest profession. We’re talking survival here. Banned and hunted by the matriarchal society because they threaten the established marital scam, prostitutes are not only legal in some jurisdictions, but may be the wisest investment for your dating dollar.

In other words, better to pay for the ass up front rather than suffering a balloon payment after a frivorce. Don’t let the predator eat your bank account and freedom.

So, next time there’s a pang of guilt inside you for using a woman for your pleasure and a good time, purge those feelings from your mind. You got to the predator before she got to you. You tapped it before she could maneuver to use and abuse your utility value. Make out like a bandit, and never feel any remorse for the pump and dump.

American women literally have nothing else to offer men other than sex.

P.S. Legalize prostitution in all 50 states, already. Not just Nevada.

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The Mindset Which Always Gets Me Laid

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Mind over matter will help you get the bang

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.


When I was in my late teens and early twenties.  Much of my actions were centered around appeasement and trying to “fit in” among social groups. Even though it did not feel natural for me at all.  Everyone seemed to agree that you needed to fit in to get what you want out of life.  I found there was an unspoken consensus among my peers that you must fit in even if meant lying to yourself, lying to others and generally behaving like a weak, supplicating bitch.

It made me sick whenever I attempted to go along with the herd.  Whenever I took their shallow advice as something to be learned I always felt an overwhelming sense of self betrayal.  This caused a lot of inner turmoil and self loathing.

When it came to the opposite sex, I never ever experienced success when I took the advice of the weak and attempted to convince girls I was some great guy who had it all together.  A polite and eager chump who was ready to listen to her stupid problems or treat her like an intellectual equal.  Again it absolutely disgusted me to think, this is what it takes to get laid?  To completely abandon the instincts inside whispering “Fuck this shit”.

Failing Like The Rest

I didn’t realize this at the time but most of the advice I was taking was from people who I would laugh in their face now should they attempt to counsel me on anything.  While they may have been able to maintain relationships with the opposite sex to varying degrees.  It was at a cost to their spine and a payment of their balls which I found utterly appalling.

Even as a young, confused and lost boy I knew deep inside this was not the way for me.  The hardest part for me to overcome was finding true belief in my own self, trusting my own instincts and maintaining a zealous faith in my own abilities.  This however did not come easily.  I first had to experience the true nature of women without the rosy colored goggles handed out like condoms in high school.  Also I had to sit in the church pews of some seriously deranged evangelical churches, filled to the brim with gelded males and slutty women.  Churches whose members behaved as if they were drunk and spouting gibberish from their mouths like they have fucking turret’s syndrome.  These same morons would then proclaim with boundless enthusiasm how this was some gift from God.  Imagine if you will the utter debasement I felt actually believing these idiots!

I was led to believe that all my natural instincts were wrong and not to be trusted.  For this was “the flesh” and everything from the flesh is abhorrent and not from God.  Yet putting females up on the podium to instruct the church, lauding single mothers as some great gift for lovelorn men and otherwise behaving like disgusting fake fucks was to be praised as holy.

Perhaps they just had more faith than me right?

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Developing a carefree attitude is key to getting the panties to drop

Countdown To Detonation

Having to suffer through an endless parade of circus clown freaks and incessant preaching about the beauty and purity of women while chiding males for not being man enough was the ticking time bomb waiting for the lit fuse to ignite it’s explosive content.  Still a part of me wanted to believe that I was wrong and could somehow become like the rest.  Having the things they have.  To be happy like them which they seemed to love flaunting to the world.

I even had a young “Christian” girl around my age who manipulated me, telling me she loved me while seeing another guy.  My weak ass fell hard for the emotional blackmail and allowed her ego to swell by having two males dote over her.  She ended up marrying the guy and when their relationship started to have trouble she wanted me to move in with her at another place.  Thankfully I said no to her childish demands and coy remarks that she could make me if she really wanted to.

I couldn’t believe myself for behaving like such a chump.  I was absolutely disgusted.  When I finally realized just how low and pathetic I had become.  I fucking snapped.  I realized if anything, none of this ever felt natural to me and what I really wanted to do was tell them some straight up real talk.  Then I could finally be free of their claws.  I came to the point that I’d rather be completely alone than suffer the wiles of these women.

Doorway To Another World

I had seen briefly the antics of guys who didn’t seem to care one iota about women.  Yet they always seemed to be surrounded by them.  I wrote them off as I was thoroughly indoctrinated.  I completely wiped any reality based truths from my mind that did not mesh with my fantasy ideals.  Finally when I said fuck this and just wanted to be left alone. I discovered another world right in front of me.

I’ll never forget one of the defining moments of my personal breakthrough.  It was my birthday and my good buddy wanted to visit this strip club where we had a friend or two who worked as bouncers.  I really never cared for strip clubs and I had no desire to get blue balls from some mediocre broad.  He kept cajoling me and finally I agreed since we had nothing better to do.  I had been to strip clubs before only this time I didn’t give one fuck about the girls.  Our bouncer friends let us sit in a VIP booth and we had some beer brought to us for free(I forget how that happened).  I remember distinctly that because I didn’t give two shits about being there my body language was completely different.  My arms were spread wide across the booth and I had a look on my face that must have said I simply don’t care.

This one stripper who was devilishly hot came over and wanted to hang with us.  We talked for a moment but I really couldn’t be bothered that much.  I was gonna get fucked up, not spend a dime and enjoy myself regardless.  At some point my buddy leans over and tells me

“She just said you look like fun”.

My boy being a true friend completely pumped my image up to her while I was sitting across the booth with a devil may care grin.  As the strip club is reaching closing time she tells me she will be waiting outside after she changes because a stripper isn’t allowed to leave the place with a patron.

Sure enough she is there when they kick everyone out and follows me home.  Funny thing, she even said “we can’t have sex” as we are heading to the bedroom.  30 seconds later I had some of the best sex of my life.  I fucked her all night.  I literally felt like this girl was fucking me like I’m the last dick on earth.  At one point I’m fucking her from the side and she is leaning off the bed pushing herself up from the floor onto my dick.  That was impressive.  I released all the pent up sexual energy I had on her and was absolutely 100% in the moment.  Perhaps the joy I had in fucking her gave her the impression that I really cared or something.  I fucked her two times and I was done.  I mean hey, it’s a fucking stripper.  I wasn’t trying to hang out or anything.  Apparently she got really butt hurt over this and told my bouncer friend how much of a dick I was while he played the nice guy beta and cuddled her precious tears to sleep.  Never once getting laid.  LOL.

After that experience I morphed into a fucking savage.  All the elements were there for me to become a Beast, yet I had been running from my destiny all this time.  Remember the manipulative church girl?  She called me one day to say she wanted me to be the Godfather to her child and how she was just telling a girlfriend how I am this great guy.

I could only laugh at this point.  The maniacal laughter of a man who has become the Villain.  I told her hell no I don’t wanna be the Godfather to your children and don’t be telling people I’m such a great guy because guess what?  I fucked a stripper the other night and it was god damn great!

I stopped talking to her shortly after that and it felt good.  It’s good to just say fuck you sometimes.  From there I went on to have many many other hilarious stories.

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Becoming a savage isn’t easy, but it will take you much farther than being Mr. Nice

A Savage Reigns

All this shit about being a “good” person is superfluous to me.  Fuck your ideals.  Fuck your beliefs and infantile opinions.  I’m not a good person and if that matters to you.

Go fuck yourself.

This is the mentality that gets me laid and after all these years I’m still surprised at times.  I remember another time when I was bouncing at this bar and some random hot college blond comes up to me with a dumb look on her face and says “I don’t know anyone”.

To this I looked at her and said plainly  “Yea who fuckin cares!” while I  made the motion with my hand like I was jerking off on her.  She storms away and I’m giggling to myself.  About 3 minutes later I shit you not.  I see this chick in the crowd and like a laser pointer her eyes are focused intently on me.  She makes a b-line right to me.  Comes up to me with this look of needful expectation.  Then she literally collapses into my arms.  So I start making out with her hard, pulling hair, grabbing handfuls of ass.  Eventually some friends pull her off and seem really surprised claiming they’ve never seen her act this way before.

I didn’t give one fuck.

As for the modern woman.  I’ll fuck her.  I’ll play with her.  I’ll enjoy the fleeting caress of female flesh.  Then it matters not to me if I ever see her again.  If she were to get hit by a car and die when she left.

There would be zero tears shed.

Zero feelings of pain.

ZERO FUCKS GIVEN.

This is the world the modern woman has screamed and shouted for.  I am going to shove it down her fucking throat with aggression.  Choke on that shit.

Strangely this open disdain and utter satisfaction with myself is the mentality that has never failed to cause women to notice, to swoon, to have their feeble little hearts melt over a man who no longer gives a shit about them.  I’d rather sit alone and ponder deep things than listen to her basement level opinions on issues completely insignificant to me.  I am openly averse to everything she says she believes in.  Every piss weak ideal she proclaims with baseless fervor.  I take a gigantic peanut filled shit on everything her fairy princess world is made of.

Fuck her and fuck anyone else who by hook or crook drowns in the stagnant sewers of mediocrity. I was in the shit once.  Know what?  I rose up out of it with my own hands and my own strength.  I won’t lift one finger to save your bitch ass.

I love to make it abundantly clear just how little I think of nearly everyone.  I love the looks of faux indignation.  The sneers.  The whiny butt hurt.  Yes YES!

Say hello to the motherfucking bad guy.

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Defining the Sigma Male

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James Dean defines the Sigma male in many ways

Everybody talks about Alpha and Beta males, but few discuss the enigmatic Sigma male. However, in many ways, the Sigma male is the most interesting of all male types because he is mysterious, an outsider, and is yet a successful plunderer of poon. He is the antithesis of Mr. Popularity, the Alpha male, and yet women are drawn to him.

Since embracing my natural instincts and tossing aside the Anglo-American cultural indoctrination that grooms men to be soft-spoken utility objects known as Beta males, I have realized I am a natural Sigma male. And as a man who has shifted way from my Beta past, a role foisted upon me by society until I saw the shadows on the wall and embraced my natural, Sigma bad boy instincts I feel it’s important to define what a Sigma male is.

The crucial difference between the two top dogs in the sexual hierarchy is this: Alphas embrace and move to manipulate and dominate society’s ridiculous games in an extroverted manner, while introverted (and often more intelligent) Sigmas are repulsed by them.

Here are some more Sigma traits.

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Sigmas prefer to go it alone rather than playing the ridiculous social games the rest of society obsesses over

Sigma Traits

Rebellious. Sigmas are the rebels of society, and as an INTP I am beginning to realize how deep my rebelliousness runs after shedding the coil of social indoctrination. Sigma males naturally loathe confining and arbitrary social norms and expectations, seeking instead to live original and authentic lives of their own design. Statistics show higher intelligence (which many Sigmas possess) is correlated with more run-ins with the law. We can find ourselves on the wrong side of the law since we have little regard for rules and regulations intended to rule the lives of “follower” men with an iron fist.

Original. Sigmas are never plain vanilla or predictable. Unlike the Alpha, they do not crave social acceptance or lofty social laurels. Many Sigmas prefer to blend into the background and watch the ridiculousness of society in a bemused manner. (The Great Master artist Bruegel the Elder comes to mind when discussing this attitude.)

Sigmas do not blindly follow groups or trends. They’re likely to have eccentric behavior and tangential interests in a number of academic fields. This leads to their greatest potential source of friction in a world of fearsome conformists: some people are put off by men with minds so original they cannot conform to the prejudices and constraints of the society they’re in, but originality is the very essence of the Sigma.

Drift in and out of social situations. This is both the Sigma’s greatest asset and worst weakness: the ability to drift in and out of high and low castes in society with ease. But we will never truly belong to any of them. I have personally walked with “kings” of society and peasants, and I see them as being more alike than not. When I worked in the mainstream media, I could be on television the first half of the day then at night partying with whores from the wrong side of town. Sigmas don’t get themselves caught up in the trappings of fleeting glory and petty social hierarchies. They define Rudyard Kipling’s statement in one of his most famous poems, If:

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
    If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

Tendency to cause conflict. Nothing scares the average person more than someone who challenges the trite myths they believe in. Sigmas are the original thought criminals of society. The original thoughts of Sigmas upset many people, who need to be told what to think and how to behave rather than determining what are appropriate thoughts and actions for themselves. This will undoubtedly cause conflict if the Sigma’s true opinions seep out into the gossip mill of the average corporate “Office Space” inferno. The freethinking Sigma will be ostracized, and Alphas will move to have the Sigma marginalized so as to try and eliminate competition with lapdog Betas following suit.

Quirky behavior. Sigmas can have quirky personalities, which again puts them at odds with Alpha males and the masses. Sigmas have an air of unpredictability and can be quite enigmatic and mysterious to those who do not take the time to try and understand him. They won’t be men who live the life script given to them by the Great Marketing Machine, that tells them which car to buy, what house to live in, and how much money to make. They also won’t treat women with supplicating deference as Beta males do, which incidentally makes women hot.

Lone wolves. Since Sigmas do not “fit in” to most social groups, we often find ourselves journeying through life alone. Many Sigmas become bad boys when they realize how innately insane society is and that there is no saving it from itself. In film, the Sigma would be the motorcycle riding guy in a leather jacket in the back of the bar. The IDGAF factor is very high in the Sigma, especially once he reaches maturity and begins to purge the sewer pumped into his mind by decades of public school and mass media programming.

Subject to social scrutiny and criticism. Nothing bothers conformists more than someone who totally rejects the sophistry and social game playing they worship. This can make the Sigma a lightning rod for criticism. As Sigmas age, they can become more adept at being “chameleons” when in social situations. They can fake being a normal rube well enough that the prejudices of the average idiot are not aroused, while knowing deep inside they hold the cards. Sigmas can possess Red Pill knowledge while blending in with the average person. This gives the Sigma great strength in that it allows mastery of both social situations and himself.

Provoke love or hate attitudes in people. Some people love the rebel. Others are terrified by what he represents. There is usually little in the middle when it comes to the reactions the Sigma provokes. People either love or hate him. Alphas often hate Sigmas once they’re identified, perhaps because the Alpha knows the Sigma sees right through the ridiculous social game playing he is beholden to. Betas will often go into orbit around the Sigma, that is unless the Sigma’s original mind and IDGAF attitude become the subject of a social stigma. Then, fair weather friend type Betas will evaporate into the ether.

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Sigmas are non-conformists who drift in and out of different social situations

Further Defining the Sigma

Knowing the Sigma archetype can help other men who find themselves between a rock and hard place trying to decide whether they’re Alpha or Beta or lower on the totem pole realize they’re neither. They can also realize it’s okay to be different.

It is my personal belief that those men who possess the INTP and INTJ Kiersey/Myers-Briggs personality types are often natural Sigma males, in that many of the traits associated with those personalities are Sigma traits. A look at the descriptions of both types illustrates my point. First, the INTP, as defined by 16 Personalities:

The INTP personality type is fairly rare, making up only three percent of the population, which is definitely a good thing for them, as there’s nothing they’d be more unhappy about than being “common”. INTPs pride themselves on their inventiveness and creativity, their unique perspective and vigorous intellect. Usually known as the philosopher, the architect, or the dreamy professor, INTPs have been responsible for many scientific discoveries throughout history. INTPs are known for their brilliant theories and unrelenting logic – in fact, they are considered the most logically precise of all the personality types.

Then, the even rarer INTJ:

It’s lonely at the top, and being one of the rarest and most strategically capable personality types, INTJs know this all too well. INTJs form just two percent of the population, and women of this personality type are especially rare, forming just 0.8% of the population – it is often a challenge for them to find like-minded individuals who are able to keep up with their relentless intellectualism and chess-like maneuvering.

This does not mean every INTP or INTJ is a Sigma. However, it’s a safe bet to say many Sigmas are probably INTP or INTJ types.

In essence, the Sigma male is the model of adaptability in a cruel world. He adapts to get what he wants out of the world without participating in it, and stays true to himself and his beliefs unlike the courtiers of society. As Darwin knew, it is not the strongest of species that survive, but the most adaptable. Sigmas are models of adaptability, as they bang countless women while never betraying who they really are.

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