Category Archives: The Sexes

Cheating Women Are Good, Cheating Men Are Bad in the Matriarchy


“It’s not my fault I cucked you with the football team, blame evolution…”

Ah, Anglo-Saxon culture and its slavish pedestalization of women.

This cultural quirk is evident even in the mainstream newspapers of our day. The latest double standards of a culture in decline become evident with a recent lamestream media article which literally defends cheating hussies. It uses hamster rationalizations and manipulation of science (without telling the whole story) to make women feel good about the affairs they have on Beta providers.

The narrative is cheating women are good, and cheating men are bad in today’s matriarchy. No surprise, the following screed was written by an Anglobitch by the name of Rachel Moss. She writes:

If you’re ever been cheated on by a woman, blame evolution. According to a new research paper, women have genetically evolved to be unfaithful so they end up with the best possible relationship for themselves.

That’s a bold opener and quite a hamster rationalization. Now, when you find out your girl has been taking on more sausage than an Oscar Meyer truck, it’s not her fault. It’s evolution. She’s just looking for the best possible relationship.

That’s what I was doing, too, Rachel, when I installed a turnstile in my bedroom to keep track of all the women who are in and out of there. Just looking for the best possible relationship.

There is no doubt this article would not have looked so favorably upon infidelity if the tables were turned.

Putting that aside, these are scientific findings, even though they’ve been cleverly manipulated by the press to defend the wanton harlots that skulk about the modern, Western dystopia. The findings really should come as no surprise to a regular reader of TNMM.

Using data from previous research, scientists and psychologists from the University of Texas and California State University use the term “mate-switching hypothesis” to describe their observations.  They say heterosexual women in relationships seek out alternative males in order to test their current situation and look for better long-term partners. This “switching” also enables them to have a backup if their relationship fails.

In this paragraph, we see evidence of the following Red Pill concepts embraced by PuffHo (our colorful colloquialism for Huffington Post). Here they are, conveniently translated for you:

  • “Mate switching” really means Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks and Monkey Branching
  • “Seeking out alternative males” really means Cock Carouseling
  • “Better long term partners” really means a fatter meal ticket to exploit, not a better human being
  • Backup guy needs no further translation

These are instincts all women have, but that society wisely constrained until the insanity of feminism came along and plunged the West into inexorable decline.

Rachel goes on with gusto.

Lifelong monogamy does not characterize the primary mating pattern of humans,” the paper states, according to The Times. “Breaking up with one partner and re-mating with another — mate switching — may more accurately characterize the common, perhaps the primary, mating strategy of humans.

It is absolutely correct that lifelong monogamy is not the norm. It has only been the norm in civilized societies, which regularly undergo cycles of birth, growth, decline and death. Decline is intimately linked with relinquishing control of female sexual instinct, as both Unwin and Huxley knew. Let women follow their whorish instincts if you want to tear society down. Make them chaste and control the instinct to spread their legs for every random thug that walks by with religious and cultural norms if you want to build society up.

Additionally, harems have been the norm in our species for a long, long time. But this leads to an unstable society as men who have no sexual or reproductive access aren’t as keen to go along with society’s insane schemes which benefit women far more than men.

Rachel did at least throw men a small crumb, even if the bulk of her article was dedicated to defending whorish Western women.

Of course, it’s not just women who cheat on their partners. While the paper focuses on women, it acknowledges that men can also be adulterers. It says that when men stray from home, it is likely to do with the primal instinct to obtain “reproductive success” by mating with multiple fertile women.

We get a paragraph, and women get the rest of the article.

What we see here is a feminist press manipulating science to defend cock carouseling women by telling us about the history of our species and what our natural instincts are. However, PuffHo fails to follow up by revealing the fact our raw instincts lead to a cultural Law of the Jungle and not a stable society.

That’s sort of why myth and religion hhace always tried to direct this raw energy in a productive manner, a lesson atheistic leftists have a hard time understanding.

We are relearning lessons of the Bronze Age in the “advanced” era of today. Someone telegraph that to the powers that be.

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When Sex Loses Its Mystical Quality


Women profit by keeping sex in front of men, but always tantalizingly just out of reach

In the West, women and social engineers profit by keeping sex shrouded in mystery, awe, and fascination. Sex is everywhere, but there’s none to be had for the average man.

But what happens when a man is getting more ass than a toilet seat? Sex loses its mystical quality, and female power over him evaporates. Unlike innumerable chumps, he is pussy-whipped no more. He quickly stops caring what women think, doesn’t listen to anything they say, breaks all the rules and plays all the fools. What happens? Rather than reducing his prospects, even more women come his way. (Some guys humorously say women have picked up the scent when this happens.)

It’s really quite like a cascade effect. Women who know he has a main dish, want to be his side dish – in my case a chick named Rosangela explicitly telling me so as she sent video of herself masturbating to my instant messaging account. A sexual bounty is truly quite an experience for a man, as women have to work to keep a man’s attention rather than the other way around.

I’ve already gone through so many women this year I’m having trouble keeping track of them all in my own personal Little Black Book of statistics, names, and star ratings. Jack Ronin of The Savage Lifestyle describes own his transition into the world of zero fucks given.

For me getting the f-close was cool and all but the hilarious shit I said and did to get me there was the juice I began to crave. Every time I did some crazy asshole shit I would tell myself, “Alright Jack, this time you gotta one up yourself.”

From making out with girls in front of their boyfriends, choking girls within 20 secs of meeting them and grabbing sluts out of groups of chodes to take them to the dance floor make out and finger them while the chumps stood by completely bewildered. I was on a fucking rampage.

All this resulted as many of us started out as men who originally wanted nothing more than a nice, humble family and chased that carrot for 30 years or more before realizing there was no way to win and we embarked on a new Going Galt lifestyle. Unlike eat, pray, love, this lifestyle has a philosophical foundation. It’s about bringing down the remaining vestiges of a corrupt, gynocentric system, refusing to play along in a subordinate role, and having fun while doing so.

But wait, there’s more. Here are some findings that resulted in sex losing its mystical quality for me. I’ve been having so much of it since taking the Red Pill and learning what really makes women tick, I am able to think more clearly about it.


The long, sordid and cross-cultural history of harems in our species is central to understanding women and how they view men and sex

Troubling Findings: The Holy Trinity of Human Sexual Behavior

My hands-on, fingers in research has yielded quite a number of disturbing findings about human sexuality. I take no pleasure in writing the things I write at times, but I am dedicated to personal integrity and telling the truth about all men’s matters. These sage words from astrophysicist Carl Sagan are my guiding light:

When he found that his long cherished beliefs did not agree with the most precise observations, he accepted the uncomfortable facts, he preferred the hard truth to his dearest illusions. That is the heart of science.

Incidentally, preferring the hard truth is also the heart of masculinity. In this case, dumping long-cherished beliefs that women are damsels and goddesses and better than men.

Give me a fucking break.

Here’s the reality. My sexual bounty has assisted me in formulating several ideas about human sexuality which are supported by reems of underground research. Ideas like harems being the norm in our species rather than the exception.

1. Harems are the norm in our species. Get used to it. From my article The History of Harems, Women Orbit, Too which details how women also display “Beta” orbiting behavior around dominant men:

The University of Wisconsin showed the practice of maintaining harems is far from unusual in history. It surveyed 1,000 historical societies to find out how common polygyny has been, and the findings are astonishing: Just 18% of historical societies were monogamous. Half of rest of the 82% had occasional polygyny and the other half had it all the time. If nothing else, this historical fact helps show why women have such contempt for Beta males – they are not as valuable for providing material things as high status men.

2. Every woman has her price. They just have different asking prices and demands for access to sex. This is based not just on human behavior, but the behavior of females in the animal kingdom who regularly trade sex for resources. These are some of my preliminary findings detailed in Transactional Sex: Every Woman Has Her Price.

Generally, female relationships with men break down into these four categories:

  • The rare and short-lived freebie: A woman develops a temporary infatuation with a new man, but her lust for him quickly wears off as she returns to her predatory instincts. The male is disposed of as his novelty value wears off and she gets “bored” with the relationship.
  • The honest and direct pay for play: A woman straight up sells sex to the male.
  • The pay as you go: Beta males rely on this tactic to keep women in their lives; women tolerate men who provide dependable financial resources while often enjoying the company (and sperm) of Alpha bad boys on the side.
  • The balloon payment: Female predatory instincts come into play in this type of relationship, as a woman fakes love for a man until such time as she can “cash in” on him and dispose of him in the court system. This is the human equivalent of the female “eating” the male as in Black Widows and Preying Mantises.

3. Anglo women are so bad they literally drive men to faggotry en masse. Incidentally, related to sexual bounty, one English scholar (Rookh Kshatriya) believes a stolid culture is why homosexuality has become so prevalent in Anglo countries across the world. Western women (especially those in English-speaking countries) are so frigid and so stingy with sex men have resorted to taking care of each other’s own sexual needs for centuries.

Biological explanations of homosexuality are currently in vogue. While they hold some truth, they do not really explain why homosexuality is more prevalent in Anglo-American countries than, for example, the Hispanic world (where it is viewed with horror). After all, if homosexuality were entirely biological in origin, it should not be culturally specific. The fact that it is implies that culture plays a decisive role in shaping homosexuality in men.

What Anglo-American cultural features dispose men to homosexuality? The answer is very simple: poor relations between the sexes. Interaction between the sexes is so unpleasant and mercenary in the Anglo-American bloc that many men derive more from relations with their own sex rather than women. This leads to exceptionally high incidences of homosexuality among Anglo-Americans.

In a crude sense, homosexuality is the best way to experience plenty of sex in a repressed society where women are taught to commodify themselves from infancy. For men of low socio-economic status, whom Anglo women automatically strike off as potential mates, homosexuality is simply the only way to get bountiful supplies of free sex.

This latent homosexuality has been hidden until the last few decades, until social engineers perhaps decided mainstreaming it might be a way to ease mounting tension (no pun intended) in a culture that has shifted to the 80/20 rule since feminism.

A gay acquaintance of mine confirms with his own first hand accounts that many of the men who have gay sex on the side are indeed upstanding members of the community and “manly men” married to Anglo wives in sexless marriages. In short, they gotta get their rocks off some way, even if it’s on the down low. I was stunned by this revelation when he dropped the beans years ago. Today, I’m not surprised at all.

No matter what people say about these truths, the simple fact is using this knowledge yields results. Knowing women orbit and even form harems around dominant men while using and abusing good guys, that relationships broadly fall into one of four groups above, and that women are so bad in Anglo nations they literally drive men to queerness, a man is able to make decisions that result in rains falling on a sexual desert.


Keeping sex shrouded in mystery and mysticism makes men do just about anything to “get to the other side” inside a woman

When Sex Isn’t Mystical Anymore

When sex loses its mystical quality for men, women lose their bargaining chip. If women don’t control sex, they don’t control anything.

Sexual scarcity in the West is how women (and social engineers) keep men “under control.” Take it from someone who’s been there and been on both sides of this equation. Western women literally treat Betas like dogs. Be a good boy and bring me a material reward, and I might pet you and reward you with sex. Now wag your tail. Off to the grind you go!

In the West, sex is strictly controlled under a “seller’s market.” However, leave the insanity of a declining civilization and suddenly sex becomes a figurative “buyer’s market.” Women don’t seem to realize the cultural tightrope they keep men on only works inside specific little geographic areas. When a man has a surfeit of taut, nubile ass everywhere he turns, he’s less likely to put his entire life’s labor on the line for a depreciating asset. (As we all know, women are depreciating assets, with sharp declines in SMV after age 30.)

One might add that Americans only make up 5% of the world population. Among the 95% of the world’s population outside its borders, Anglo men are cherished and rare commodities for hypergamous women worldwide. The more men who discover just how badly they’re getting treated by women and those doing their bidding in the corporate-government complex, the more men are likely to Go Galt. It’s the metaphor of killing the goose that lays the golden egg playing out in real life.

All it takes to keep the goose laying the golden egg is for women to treat men like men. It won’t happen for a few different reasons. What stops the cult of feminism from utterly and completely collapsing? Men defending the status quo.

Latent Puritanism resurfaces in all kinds of areas of life in Anglo countries, from the gynocentric legal system to the deification of women and villainization of men in the media, to the White Knight effect. We still see a “goddess cult” revealing itself in many areas of life. “Alpha signalers” will come in and defend the honor of the goddesses, as so cleverly stated by a commenter at TNMM last week:

Saying that you’re done with fat, pussyhat wearing American nightmares is red meat because they get to shrug and say, “I haven’t had any problems with American women dude. I must be better than you, I guess. Go motorcycling through North Dakota. Pussy everywhere. Every truckstop is just filled with ass bro.”

That’s an emotional counterbalance to the stunning and often painful truths elucidated above.

Meantime, it behooves all men to become better PUAs or to let hypergamy work for them by “flying up out this bitch” and putting their intrinsic male value to work for them somewhere else. Once a man has the culturally-specific mirage of sexual mysticism lifted from his eyes, he never quite sees the world the same way again.

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Americans Having Less Sex, But Not This American


Being a reliable Beta male no longer pays sexual dividends in the insane West

Most Americans aren’t getting laid as much as they used to.

A skewed sexual market (i.e. the return of the Law of the Jungle brought on by feminism) means fewer men are monopolizing more women. Harems, that have dominated much of human history are forming anew. And a large rump of Beta males aren’t getting any nookie as a result.

In today’s world, Betas are in the midst of a terrible sex drought while Alphas and Sigmas are enjoying a bumper crop. It pays to be the bad boy or to have vastly more resources than your competition, and not old Mr. Reliable these days.

Speaking in generalities, around 80% of female sexuality is now monopolized by 20% of men since civilization-destroying feminism was unleashed on the West. In business and many other areas of life, this phenomenon is called the Pareto Principle. Anthropologist J.D. Unwin would not be surprised by what has happened, as he warned in vain about easing restrictions on female sexuality based on his epic survey of human societies cross-culturally and throughout history. Every time a society eased restrictions on female sexuality it degenerated and fell apart.

A large population of sexless men will have destructive consequences for the West. The men doing the grunt work aren’t getting sexually rewarded anymore. This scenario has never boded well for a society across recorded human history. Access to porno and pushing everyone to go gay is not going to cut it forever, and social engineers should familiarize themselves with this fact.

When factoring in the large numbers of sexless Betas with the small numbers of Alphas and Sigmas who are getting laid on the regular, statistically, Americans are having less sex than ever overall. The mainstream rag Washington Post details the numbers:

Using 1989-2014 data from the General Social Survey, the study found that American adults have sex seven to nine fewer times per year than in the 1990s. Back then, Americans on average had sex 60 to 62 times a year, but in the early 2000s the frequency began to slip, and by 2014 it had declined to less than 53 times a year.

Dang. I probably had over 53 different women last year, not including all the times I slept with each one. But I spent almost the entire year of 2016 outside America in a much more libertine Latin culture.

Incidentally, marital beds are also growing colder, so marriage isn’t going to save Beta Johnny from the ongoing sex drought.

When looking only at married people, the drop was even sharper — from around 73 times a year in 1990 to around 55 in 2014 — bringing their frequency of sexual activity below that of never-married people. People in that group have sex an average of 59 times a year.

That’s an average of about one lay a week.

Of course, as Groucho Marx knew politics (and journalism for that matter) is the art of looking for trouble, finding it everywhere, diagnosing it incorrectly and applying the wrong remedies. The Post goes on to do just that in its nebulous article:

The report did not list causes for the decline. But it cited possible factors including increased access to entertainment and social media, a decline in happiness among people age 30 and over, higher incidence of depression, and use of antidepressants associated with sexual dysfunction.

While those are without a doubt contributing factors, once again mainstream “journalists” keep missing the target as they lob out politically correct but dead wrong diagnoses as to what’s wrong with a sexual market in which women have way too much power, Beta males have had their resource provisioning cucked by a welfare state, and there’s an epidemic of obesity, entitlement and overall bitchiness nationwide.

Read: Feminism is the root cause of almost every sexual and demographic problem facing America and Europe today.

Yet, the slave masters expect male worker bees to go along and get along as jobs get shittier and shittier by the year with longer hours, less pay, and vanishing retirement plans. This is why I gave up on being a Beta male, quit my corporate slave job and started living the life of a ZFG asshole. What good was being responsible doing for me sexually?

Since going rogue, I go through women like I go through underwear. Life as a vagabond is much more rewarding to me as a male than as a corporate drone in monotone. How long until the masses of men figure this out and throw their sabots into the machine?

Here’s the bottom line. The sexual market is the granddaddy of all other human economic markets. Everything else is just sophistry. Leaving millions of men with a case of blue balls does not bode well for the West.

Now at least we have some numbers backing up what we have been discussing in the manosphere for a number of years.

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Why Strippers and Legal Working Girls Are Better Bets in Anglo America


Most Anglo women today already have high mileage and high cock counts, so why not get a girl who knows what she’s doing

I’ve banged girls of both high and low status on the socioeconomic ladder. I’ve come to the conclusion I am only dealing with strippers and legal whores when I’m visiting the States. The truth is, in this day and age there’s nothing beyond sex women in Anglo-America are good for, as the supreme irony is feminism has actually turned them into nothing more than sex objects.

I detailed that inconvenient truth in a recent article. They don’t know how to do anything else that is of value to a man other than lay down and spread their legs.

Anglo women can’t cook or clean, they’re statistically sterile as the white population is literally dying off, they’re no fun to be around on a personal level, they’ve made themselves slave owners of men legally, and philosophically are empty souls attempting to fill the void with material things. What else do they have to offer but sex, since all of the above are true?

Why do I prefer strippers and legal whores in America? It’s really simple. They give me what I need, occasional sex, and offer no drama or hoop jumping in return. (Yes, sex is a psychological and physical NEED as revealed by Maslow’s Hierarchy.) That, and I’m tired of dumpster diving on dating apps and performing Herculean psychological maneuvers using day Game in order to land another boring ass date with an Americhick.

High status girls are always sizing me up for what kind of living they could get off my back or other material and financial benefits I could provide. They also are flakier, less fun in the sack, and have astronomical expectations for the low level companionship they provide. Low status girls are most often just out for a good time.

Guess which ones give a man less stress on the nerves and wallet?

I don’t just talk the talk, I walk the walk when it comes to the topics discussed here at The New Modern Man. So, when I am in The Matrix extracting more money from the economy to use to power my Going Galt lifestyle, I typically only deal with strippers who I can bang for free by using PUA techniques on them, and professional working girls when I’m lucky enough to be in Nevada where prostitution is legal at dozens of brothels statewide.

Commenter “John Smith” left this gem of a response to a recent article I wrote for Return of Kings, explaining the rationale behind why pro girls are often a man’s best bet for sexual satisfaction in a culture that is already swirling the drain. Here’s the litany of reasons I seek out good times in strip clubs and brothels:

First of all, most of them are way better looking than the average Corporate-Slave Princess who looks good with her makeup on, but turns into the Bride of Dracula when you see her the next morning.

Secondly, strippers look at sex the way guys look at blowing their noses – no big deal.

Thirdly, they are way more open-minded about sex and will basically do anything you want to do.

Fourthly, they tend to be way more skilled at sex than the average empowered femicunt who works a day job.

Fifthly, if you are good in bed, they will tell their stripper friends and that gives you access to even more hot sluts, while opening the door for threesomes (and/or moresomes).

I have “dated” runway models, actresses, single moms, Corporate Princesses, working twats – all that shit. That was back in the day, and I much prefer getting my needs met these days by somebody who is really good-looking, knows what she’s doing, and isn’t sizing me up for divorce-rape.

I still pick up “normal” women occasionally, but once you get some hot strippers with great sexual skills in your rotation, you’ll never go back – unless you want a wife.

To each their own.

Boom. No more calls, we have a winner.

Until there is a major cultural shift in a declining Western society, and women are forced back into biologically and demographically sustainable, traditional female roles the best bet is to limit any financial and legal risk with them. Hitting it and quitting it is not just fun, it also might just save you from frivorce rape. Dealing with strippers and whores will also save you a lot of stress and unnecessary drama.

Banging pros is my preferred modus operandi only in the States. Abroad, I don’t need strippers because hypergamy and culture both work in my favor. But it’s every man for himself in Anglo-America these days as the sexual Law of the Jungle has returned post-feminism.

Hence, the reason I keep a Strip Club and Brothel Guide for my brothers in the manosphere. Going for the goal is the Red Pill man’s best option. Now you know why.

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Transgender Wrestler Wins Girls’ Wrestling Championship


Transgenderism is only “fair” when girls can beat up boys, not the other way around, according to leftists


That’s about all there is to say about this twisted story of a transgender wrestler who is genetically a girl but transitioning to be a boy winning the girls’ wrestling championship.

The story is so twisted it’s hard to even figure out. The bottom line is wrestler Mack Beggs is listed as a girl on its birth certificate, but is undergoing hormone treatments and the like to become a boy.

How is this not child abuse?

Only in a decaying Anglo-American empire would be even be treated to such a story. The fact we are arguing about it and this issue will receive more air time than other, more important stories in the coming days is a testament to the power of Marxist agenda setters, who determine what you’ll be talking about before you even talk about it. They’re the ones who set up 24/7 rotation of stories like these to get the public cackling over window dressing issues while they make other moves behind the scenes.

Hypocritically, Anglo liberals are now up in arms about transgenderism. Why? In short, because Anglo-Saxon countries are characterized by a culture that hates men and boys. The failing mainstream media wrote:

Mack Beggs came here to wrestle. And wrestle he did, manhandling four opponents over two days as he captured a Class 6A girls state championship Saturday.

The 110-pound gold medalist also captured something else: The attention of a nation increasingly polarized by transgender issues.

Beggs, a 17-year-old transgender boy from Euless Trinity High School, didn’t come to the state tournament seeking to carry the transgender torch, or to become a lightning rod, or to be the target of a lawsuit that could end his high school wrestling career.

But those subplots all played out during the two-day UIL Wrestling State Tournament at the Berry Center in Cypress, where Beggs defeated Chelsea Sanchez of Katy Morton Ranch 12-1 to win the championship.

Note the use of the word “manhandling” in the first sentence. This word is there for a reason, to sway the reader’s opinion towards protecting the pussy. The press often inserts code words into stories to sway the narrative towards their point of view.

Even when a girl “gender identifies” as a boy.

The Anglobitch blog proprietor recently and eloquently detailed why boys – even those who assume the cloak of the “protected” classes in America by being transgender – will always be an easy target in a misandrist culture.

For normal men, Anglo-Saxon culture is an inherently flawed creation. Everything about it from the ground up is designed to exalt women and denigrate men. There is nothing male-friendly in the existing Anglosphere; it has declared war on men politically, economically, conceptually and legally. There is nothing there of interest to men at all. The situation has deteriorated beyond tinkering with minutiae or putting the clock back – only complete rejection of pan-Anglosphere civilization and all its institutions, root and branch, can now serve the enlightened man effectively.

He’s absolutely right. Men are personas non gratas in Anglo-America. If you were born with a penis or aspire to have one you automatically become public enemy number one. This is why The New Modern Man encourages awakened men to Go Galt, leave their figurative plows on the plantation, and enjoy their lives as they would see fit. To hell with the life script the power structure screams men have to go by.

This incident checks offseveral agenda items on the Marxist agenda. Inserting gender bending into the narrative: Check. Marginalizing boys, or girls who want to be boys: Check. Confusing teens about their forming sexuality: Check. Establishing a martyr for the androgyny narrative and setting a precedent for others to follow: Check. Setting up school systems for needless lawsuits: Check. Making a mockery of America internationally: Check. Sticking another shiv in the sides of the deplorables: Check.

What a weird crossroads for a society to be in. The fact we are even discussing this issue is testament to the rapid decline of a once great and mighty society. We are literally a turd, swirling the cultural toilet bowl in the modern Anglosphere.

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