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The Panty-Moistening Allure of the Bad Boy


The ZFG guy gets to hit this for free, while the Beta lackey gets to jump through hoops and finance her consumerism

Any man who has been paying attention knows women throw their affections and their panties at bad boys. After all, Alpha Fux, Beta Bux is a maxim that proves necessity is the mother of all invention, and this colorful phraseology indeed provides a day in, day out play by play of women’s actions. Even as early as sixth grade I can remember a “bad boy” who came to our small town school from the big city and his presence causing quite a stir among the girls. We had school dances every Friday back then, and he was always the boy the girls wanted to dance with. Why? Because he was a little asshole.

Even in puberty, young women, classmates of mine, were falling over themselves to get access to this guy. What did he do? He teased them, taunted them, and they just spun their hamster wheels even harder. If only I had paid closer attention to the life lessons that were playing out in front of me maybe I wouldn’t have spent so much time trying to transform myself into a meal ticket with college degrees/rubber stamps, etc. But, the indoctrination to sell kids on education as the magic wand that will solve all life’s problems is strong in the public school system.

As I later learned, a clean cut male image attracts gold diggers who think they can ply men with their vaginas and get material rewards out of them, while women who predate these men hope they will stay oblivious to the fact they often have an Alpha or Sigma bad boy on the side wearing it out while Beta boy is at work. My best friend and I have seen this tragicomedy play out time and time again with girls we grew up with. A husband of some girl we know will be hard at work, busting his balls at a blue collar job while his wife has “company” coming over to her house or meeting her for “coffee” during the day. She gets sexed by the bad boy and her Beta bitch brings her a paycheck to waste. It’s win, win, for her. Incidentally, women who aren’t homemakers make having the affair even easier, and further reduce the value provider of Beta drones. The takeaway lesson is the ZFG bad boy will get premium ass for free, while the Beta runs around with his ass on fire trying to find some way to pay for her. Just see it for what it is: two different male mating strategies.

After seeing how bad boy psychology affects women, I started using it to my advantage. When dating a girlfriend who signaled she was only with me for convenience or who was quietly working on monkey branching to another guy, I would find a side chick to have some fun with. (Remember: Watch what women do, learn to pick up on the markers, and act on that. NEVER listen to what they say. Women are gifted by nature with the talent of dissimulation.) Because I know women love bad boys, I would tell my side chick that I had a regular girlfriend just to see how she would react. Did she react in disgust? Hell no. I can testify that some very good looking girls got off on the fact they were screwing me on the side while I had a girlfriend already. Often, they would try to lure me into commitments with them and tell me to get rid of the girl I already have. They tried to undermine my current girlfriend any way they could. One of the hottest side chicks I’ve had even tried to lure me into a week long getaway with her just so I would leave my regular girlfriend. The web women weave is a twisted one.

The lessons that can be gleaned from this are simple and true, but politically incorrect. Women love to compete with each other, they love to steal valuable men away from other women, and above all they love a bad boy with an IDGAF attitude. Five minutes of Alpha is worth more than five years of Beta to the female.


I’ve had women from all different backgrounds, the one constant that never changes is Alpha (and Sigma) Fux, Beta Bux

Course Correction

Once a man gains life experience or is instructed in the twisted arts of human sexuality and romance by someone who has the battle scars to prove it, a course correction and even a complete paradigm shift can be made. Learning the female bag of tricks means men are no longer oppressed by women, who see them as nothing more than sex fiends and meal tickets. Men then hold the upper hand, as women believe men are so obtuse they can’t figure out the games they’re playing.

In my own paradigm shift, in my younger days I would pay for dates with women, pull out their chair, shower them with compliments, and play along with the bullshit script Western men are told to conform to. And, usually, I would get the hell used out of me and end up alone and sexually frustrated. Once I started indulging my bad boy instincts, developing an abundance mentality by virtue of having at a regular girlfriend and at least one or two chicks on the side, my life completely changed. Suddenly, I had control over my sex life rather than women. No longer was I constrained by chivalry and supplication to women.

After committing the bad boy mentality to long-term memory and behavior modification, a man can custom design his own approach. For me, it’s empowering to realize I can play the part of the Beta provider for one girl (which incidentally proves sexual barter for material items is what women want from Betas) and be my “true” Sigma self with my side chicks. Meantime, the girl after Beta money can’t figure out why I’m not spending it on her. Personally, this is my favorite method of dating women. A lifetime of use and abuse by women has removed any remorse I have for playing this game. After all, as the gatekeepers of sex women set the conditions of the sexual playing field, I am just a player in their twisted game.

Some additional wisdom for the man who wishes to repent of his Beta provider ways and make a course correction follows.

Beta nice guys are boring. Men need to know women only commit to Beta males for material benefits and as a matter of safety and security. Taking the money and riches approach to landing a woman will surely get a man used, as many well paid but pathetic men never figure out. Old reliable pays the bills, buys the Lexus, and protects her as he goes off to dangerous industrial jobs and fights wars in which nearly 100% of combat deaths are male, but he’s boring because he has to be in order to keep a job, good credit, and develop the reputation he needs in the community in order to provide her this lifestyle. Conversely, a man with options, i.e. an Alpha or Sigma bad boy who women try to extract commitment from, will not commit to women and this drives them nuts. Hamster wheels spin until smoke spews out because every other man throws his commitment at her feet – why won’t this one?!

Beta nice guys are expendable. Betas are the male equivalent of a prostitute – they will give their affections to anyone. Just as men don’t value women who give their puss to anyone, women don’t value men who easily give their commitment away. This demonstrates low status when a man is willing to commit easily. After all, what man with many appealing options is going to willingly commit to one chick?

Never listen to what women say. Before feminists tell you they Don’t Need a Man™ to do anything for them, watch what women do instead of what they say. Women will not have anything to do with men who provide no benefit to them, i.e. women never marry or get in relationships with men who are equal to them. (An exception is when certain bad boy losers know how to prey on women’s maternal instincts.) Women always reach upward when landing a mate. And they always look for a massive divorce settlement and financial rewards from used up and discarded Beta males.


Bad boys often get two for the price of zero while good guys get to pay for dates, homes, and shopping and get no nookie in return

Why Women Love Bad Boys

So, why do women get wet over bad boys while nice guys leave them as dry as the Atacama Desert? Beyond exhibiting the Dark Triad of personality traits which is, unfortunately, what it takes to be top dog in a vicious world, there are three reasons women love bad boys.

Challenge. Women see men who are hard to get as having scarcity value. Needy men have low value. Since men are constantly throwing themselves at women, the value of the average man in female eyes is very low. There is a huge supply of potential suitors, but she only needs one. However, a man who is approached by women instead of him approaching women demonstrates high value in the limbic brain that dominates female psychology. By virtue of being a challenge, this shows the man must have something about him that makes him better than the other men. Since men are all sex-obsessed simpletons in the minds of women, if he doesn’t want her sex he must be getting it from other women. This instantly boosts his sexual market value in the female mind.

Unpredictability/excitement factor. Women love being taken on emotional roller coaster rides. In fact, they are so given to and controlled by their emotions (the aforementioned limbic brain) any man who can provide steady entertainment and/or a high level of emotional ups and downs will dominate her attention. Bad boys are perfect for providing short term thrills as they do all sorts of things the good guy can’t, like buying blow then taking her to a desolate area by some sea cliffs to screw her brains out. (Speaking from experience here.) Women love a man who challenges them rather than being a predictable little manlet who does what he is told.

Put themselves first. Perhaps more than anything else, men who put themselves first communicate strength, control, and dominance. A man who runs around with his ass on fire trying to jump through all the hoops she throws out is seen as the weakling he is. Women want a leader and not a follower. A leader is a man who is self-interested, a follower is a man who does what he is told to do. Here’s a crucial Game tip: Always put your finances, life goals, career goals, and freedom goals ahead of your goals of getting laid. As paradoxical as this seems to the uninitiated, once you do this women will naturally gravitate towards you.

Aren’t Jealous. This is a major Beta tell. Women often probe men to see if they’re jealous. A man who has many options, many plates spinning won’t give a damn about one particular woman. This goes back to the idea of scarcity value – a man who isn’t jealous knows he can easily move from one vagina to the other if need be. A jealous man who clings to a chick as though he will be her last gives all his power over to her, rather than the IDGAF guy who could scarcely care if she comes or goes.

Bad boys flip the script. Perhaps most importantly, bad boys make women fun sex dolls in their minds, but nothing more. As “sexist” as this will sound to feminists, there really is no other way around this basic principle. Becoming a man slave, as many feminists and White Knights claim is the best thing for men to do, is a one way ticket to oblivion. Women love being dominated and told what to do, no matter how much wailing fat and unfeminine feminists go into. Feminists want to dominate men, but women get off when they are dominated by men.

The moral of the story is simple. From the time I was in grade school, up through my suffering phase of life as a young nice guy, to the uncaring jerk women have turned me into in my middle age, the lesson here is be the bad boy. Don’t be a human dynamo that only exists to aggrandize female lifestyles and consumption. Get off the treadmill, even, no especially if it means turning into an asshole.

Chicks dig jerks and assholes, not nice guys.

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The Rationalization Hamster: 10 Ways It Affects Women and Society


The female rationalization hamster is a metaphor for a quirk of female psychology which rationalizes terrible choices

Bad, bad, bad, bad boys…you make me feel so goooood! Gloria Estefan made a hit song about them back in 1985. While today this song has little more than kitsch value, 30 years later we are seeing the destructive effects of women being allowed to indulge their bad boy loving instincts. The song is also representative of a time when Anglo culture started to shift towards total degeneracy.

No matter your level of experience in the mating game, you probably have noticed women fall in love with the type of man who is the exact opposite of what they say they want. For the Red Pill man, there is perhaps no better definition of the rationalization hamster phenomenon than this one from Urban Dictionary.

The rationalization hamster is a legendary creature dwelling deep in the minds of the self-delusional, and is particularly common among young liberal women. From birth, the rationalization hamster enters a symbiotic relation with its host, whereby whenever the host feels a craving to do something completely insane and malicious that will have horrible consequences for everyone in the long run, the rationalization hamster will jump on its wheel and run really, really fast, getting the magical hamster wheel to spin out a long sheet of paper full of neat rationalizations for the ultimately devastating action.

In other words, women rationalize terrible choices they make based on what they feel. The primitive limbic system inside all of us which drives emotion dominates their decision making, rather than the logical (and oh so boring!) cerebrum. Men can make stupid choices, too when driven by emotion but women are virtually powerless against the hamster hidden inside the limbic brain. You can see The Rationalization Hamster outlined in a The New Modern Man infographic here.

Here are 10 ways female hamster rationalizations are affecting society and an explanation of how the hamster rationalizes each terrible outcome.


Red Pill study continues to reveal uncomfortable facts about women

The List

10. Criminals end up with more sexual partners than nice guys. The hamster loves bad boys because of the feels they give women. It runs quickly on the wheel churning out poorly reasoned rationalizations. An endorphin rush of emotion accompanies each thought of a romantic tryst with a criminal in the female mind. Consequently, criminals have a higher number of children than the rest of the population. Bad boys average around 3.0 offspring in their lifetimes, while in America the average for whites is 1.75 children, well below the 2.1 needed avoid demographic disappearance. A finding published in a study of human evolution and behavior reveals:

Criminal offenders had more reproductive partners, were less often married, more likely to get remarried if ever married…Importantly, the increased reproductive success of criminals was explained by a fertility increase from having children with several different partners.

So, statistics once again confirm the old adage of Alpha fux, Beta bux in the mating game. Perhaps this is why women’s instinctual behavior has traditionally been considered evil in the world’s religious documents. These instincts literally lead to criminals outbreeding civilized nice boys. If you want a society in which the majority of children are sired by criminals, by all means continue to denigrate patriarchy and live under the Law of the Jungle.

9. The state has replaced the role of the Beta male in society. The hamster views this as every female’s right to screw bad boys and have children with exciting men who aren’t BORING contributors to society. Big Daddy Government will clean up the devastation wrought by her poor choices in Anglo America, and use Beta male tax money to pay for the children a bad boy fathers with her. After all, as Hillary Clinton puts it, It Takes a Village, not a family. Feminism has resulted in a nation in which women have monopoly on all legal rights but few, if any responsibilities.

For example: A woman has an affair on her Beta provider, initiates divorce (4 out of 5 divorces are initiated or caused by women) then is awarded cash and prizes in the form of the house, child support, and alimony by a family court system that is biased against men. Or, option B, she has children with a destitute bad boy and gets abandoned but the government tit is waiting to be suckled; it picks up the tab with social programs. Either way, women can’t lose, which in tandem with emotion-driven, bad boy loving decision making renders good men worthless to them.

8. Increasing numbers of sexless Omega males are going on shooting rampages. The hamster says 4 out of 5 men are just not good enough. The rest of us live with the consequences of sexually disenfranchising millions of men, like sexless men simmering in the background of society until they eventually blow their top. A few examples:

Eliot Rodger killed 7 and injured 14 when he went on a rampage in Isla Vista, CA. Rodger was an incel (involuntarily celibate) Omega male who claimed he went on the shootings because of his frustration over not being able to find a girlfriend and his hatred of women.

James Holmes of the infamous Aurora, CO theater shooting and Sueng Hui-Cho were also sexless incel men. Sueng Hui-Cho couldn’t even get an escort to do him.

While this in no way justifies their violence, it is a byproduct of a male-hating culture and the sexual disenfranchisement of an increasing number of men. Men who do everything society tells them to do often end up sexless and alone.

However, proving the insanity of the Rationalization Hamster, once Omega males have committed a heinous crime and become media celebrities women then chase after them, reinforcing Fact 10: Criminals end up with more sexual partners than nice guys. Just look at James Holmes’ prison cell and all the fan letters and photos from hot chicks he now receives.


James Holmes was sexless while he was a nonviolent member of society but pursued by women now that he is in prison, confirming another unpleasant fact about female sexuality and psychology

7. Decreasing civility in society. The hamster does not care about civility, it only wants excitement. Decreasing civility is easy to see in American society, and it is a direct result of instincts that reward bad boys with lots of sex and punish good men with incel. Whether it be degenerate pop stars relentlessly rubbing their GrrlPower in men’s faces or women increasingly covering themselves in tattoos or slutting it up every weekend at the club until they’re 65 years old, the effects of de-civilizing feminism can be seen everywhere. Some interesting statistics:

  • 94% of all Americans consider the general tone and level of civility in the country today to be a problem
  • 65% believe the level of civility is a “major” problem

This really should come as no surprise as no society in history has abandoned monogamy and restrictions on female sexuality and remained cohesive.

6. The appearance of the Pareto Principle or the 80/20 rule in the sexual market. The hamster would rather be part of the harem of an Alpha than the one and only of 9-to-5 Johnny. Well known in the business world, the Pareto Principle also applies to today’s sexual market in which generally speaking 20% of top men dominate 80% of the attention and sex from women. One study revealed almost no single women have gone without sex in the past six months, while nearly half of single men reported having no sex in the last six months. Helen Smith, PhD demonstrated this phenomenon with her own survey in her book Men on Strike. Alphas and Sigmas monopolize the majority of female sexuality:

There were 141 male responses and 14 female responses. In order to more meaningfully calculate the income and partner averages, I threw out the top five and bottom five male outliers and the top and bottom female outliers.

The 80/20 rule is largely substantiated. Even if the outliers aren’t included, the 20% (27) most sexually successful men had sex with 617 of the 921 women involved, or 67% of them.

The missing 13% from Smith’s survey can likely be attributed to the very top echelon of Betas, or incomplete statistics. So, as with many things in life the sexual market is totally unfair. Adapt, or go without. The hamster does not rationalize reason in the female brain, it is driven by pure emotion.

5. Women will do anything to keep an Alpha male around, no matter how degenerate he is. The hamster says, oh but it’s not his fault, or (even better) he’s going to change once my maternal instincts show him the error of his ways.

There is a scientific process at work in the recent 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon. A powerful jerk manipulates and controls women, then has violent, denigrating  sex with them. How do women respond to his depravity, albeit importantly, the depravity of a wealthy, powerful man? Scores of them foam at the vag lips all the way to the bookstore and turn 50 Shades of Grey into a pop culture phenomenon. If trailer park Johnny performed the sexual escapades in this book he would likely end up in prison, but women turn a blind eye to abuse when men have money, power, or better yet, both. Explaining why women do this all comes down to this statement from the American Psychological Association.

In an evolutionary sense, women want superior genes.

Women view manipulative, controlling, and often violent men as dominant men with superior genes. Elite Daily further illustrates this concept:

All mammals, including humans, are designed to adapt for survival. If you’ve ever watched Animal Planet, you’ll recognize a pattern in the mating habits of everything from hippos to lions; the dominant male, the “alpha,” is the most desired and mated with by the females. Why? A dominant male means a successful romp in the mud, and that still holds true today. Just as men are subconsciously influenced by a woman’s waist-to-hip ratio and what it says of her fertility, women are attracted to a man who exudes confidence and power, with the assumption that he’ll make a better lover and therefore be more reliable in producing offspring with strong genes.

There is no negotiating female desire. This desire will lead them to hamster rationalize even the worst treatment by men, even abuse as we will see in a moment.

4. Women will sacrifice a lifetime of commitment from a Beta male for a random fling with an Alpha. The hamster says the Alpha interloper made me feel like you haven’t made me feel in a long time! How many times have we seen women destroy marriages, which represented a lifetime of financial and sexual commitment from her Beta provider – tossed aside for a fling? Personally, I lost count of how many times this happened to friends of mine. This behavior is genetically coded into females, and indeed in nature the male is disposable in most species. The female black widow spider even consumes the male (eats him) when the mating act is finished. Sperm is everywhere in nature, and eggs are precious and few.

The human species attempted to balance the scales a little and give males a role in society by enacting cultural policies of monogamy and punishing infidelity (especially female infidelity). The West now wants to have it both ways, male commitment without any reward. All our present-day problems stem from this issue. Men will only tolerate being shit on for so long before there is a collective uprising.

3. During ovulation, a woman is more likely to conceive with from a random fling with a bad boy than her regular Beta partner. The hamster says well, just this one time doesn’t count. Oh, he shot a load in you? Well that doesn’t count either. In the real world, scientific tests of what type of men women find attractive have shown women prefer more masculine traits, and features which make men look dangerous especially when they are most fertile. As revealed by Live Science, referencing an evolutionary psychology study done at the University of New Mexico:

“What we found was that, indeed, women who are with less facially masculine men — so more feminine men — they’re the ones showing a shift toward men other than their partner,” Gangestad said. For instance, while ovulating, women were more likely to have sexual fantasies about a non-partner.

The findings fit with the theory that men who are more masculine would have produced fitter offspring in the ancestral period when reproductive hormones first evolved.

“Things that may have been important ancestrally may not be all that important now, but the idea is you see the preferences that would have evolved ancestrally still show up,” Gangestad said.

They also prefer darker, meaner personality traits when they are ovulating. Brain scans of women have also confirmed areas of the brain dealing with risk assessment light up when women are presented with men who have a threatening appearance when they’re about to drop an egg down the Fallopian tube.

Consequently, an ovulating female tingles with desire when she sees a bad boy and later he tingles when he reaches orgasm with her. Then the poor Beta Bucks bastard gets to pay for the resulting offspring. Some studies tell us as many as 1 in 10 (or more!) fathers are raising children they think are there own, when in fact they’re biologically another man’s spawn.

2. Women are biologically wired to lust after violent men. The hamster says just because he beat up his other girlfriend doesn’t mean he will beat me up. Or, this time will really be the last time he gives me a black eye. This explains why women not only put up with, but often pursue relationships with abusive men. It explains why criminals like Charles Manson have groupies and orgies while the guy who studies hard and “does the right thing” often ends up jerking it alone in his bedroom.

It also explains the Chris Brown/Rihanna fiasco. Legacy media “journalist” Diane Sawyer bent over backwards to kiss Rihanna’s behind after she got beat up (remember, in Anglo-America women are ALWAYS the victim, even if they make terrible choices). Rihanna sobbed:

I was bleeding, I was swollen in the face. So there was no way of me getting home, except for, my next option was to get out of the car and walk. Start walking in a gown, in a bloody face.

What did Rihanna do after being set off in a nightgown with a bloody face? Go right back to the man that did that to her years later:

Rihanna [said] that [Chris Brown] is the “first love” of her life. The songstress also says she “feels” for the rapper.

See, you can beat the shit out of a woman and she will love you more than the guy who maxed out his credit cards and mortgaged his house to buy her things. Feels are to women what the Law of Gravity is to the rest of the Universe.

1. A dominant man gets more puss than a go-along, get-along nice guy. The hamster says yeah that nice guy is cute but this badass really turns me on. This concept relates to the Five Types of Men in the Social-Sexual Hierarchy. Some guys have all the luck, while others beg for table scraps. Estimates of how many sex partners each type can expect roughly break down like this:

Top 20% of Men

  • Alpha: 2-4x average sexual partners
  • Sigma: 2-4x average sexual partners

Bottom 80% of Men

  • Beta: 1-1.5x average sexual partners
  • Gamma: 0.5x average sexual partners
  • Omega: 0-0.25x average sexual partners

So what is the average number of sexual partners? The University of Michigan found an average of 31 partners for men and 9 for women. Men are likely to overestimate the number, and hamster rationalizing women (not surprisingly) are likely to underestimate the number of sexual partners they have had. As has been said before, Alphas and Sigmas cannot walk outside without falling into puss. Up next is the reason why women find them so desirable…and it reveals more uncomfortable truth.


Women select for the Top Dog in the sexual market; in the past the survival of her offspring depended on it

The Badass Wins the Day

Once again, we prove nature comes down to the heartless business of nature saving those heredities that work, and rejecting those that don’t, as stated by astrophysicist Carl Sagan. What heredities work? In short, having or being able to approximate these traits will make you irresistible to females:

  • Narcissism
  • Machiavellianism
  • Psychopathy

Being in love with yourself, being manipulative, and being an uncaring, aloof, unsympathetic jerk will make you go far in life with women. This may not conform to our preferences, but our preferences don’t count in the real world. Only the truth. That is what taking the Red Pill is all about.

Survival is everything in nature, and to the female, the roughest, toughest, baddest boy has genes that will survive nature’s cruelest tests (and her own shit tests). Manipulating these urges using The 10 Laws of the Mating Game is the end result of feminism in a radically altered sexual market. If more civilized behavior is desired, the society must go back to traditions which were set up in the Bronze Age and have endured over 2,000 years for a reason.

The hamster won’t like it, but the alternative is to literally live like animals.

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