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The Mindset Which Always Gets Me Laid


Mind over matter will help you get the bang

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.

When I was in my late teens and early twenties.  Much of my actions were centered around appeasement and trying to “fit in” among social groups. Even though it did not feel natural for me at all.  Everyone seemed to agree that you needed to fit in to get what you want out of life.  I found there was an unspoken consensus among my peers that you must fit in even if meant lying to yourself, lying to others and generally behaving like a weak, supplicating bitch.

It made me sick whenever I attempted to go along with the herd.  Whenever I took their shallow advice as something to be learned I always felt an overwhelming sense of self betrayal.  This caused a lot of inner turmoil and self loathing.

When it came to the opposite sex, I never ever experienced success when I took the advice of the weak and attempted to convince girls I was some great guy who had it all together.  A polite and eager chump who was ready to listen to her stupid problems or treat her like an intellectual equal.  Again it absolutely disgusted me to think, this is what it takes to get laid?  To completely abandon the instincts inside whispering “Fuck this shit”.

Failing Like The Rest

I didn’t realize this at the time but most of the advice I was taking was from people who I would laugh in their face now should they attempt to counsel me on anything.  While they may have been able to maintain relationships with the opposite sex to varying degrees.  It was at a cost to their spine and a payment of their balls which I found utterly appalling.

Even as a young, confused and lost boy I knew deep inside this was not the way for me.  The hardest part for me to overcome was finding true belief in my own self, trusting my own instincts and maintaining a zealous faith in my own abilities.  This however did not come easily.  I first had to experience the true nature of women without the rosy colored goggles handed out like condoms in high school.  Also I had to sit in the church pews of some seriously deranged evangelical churches, filled to the brim with gelded males and slutty women.  Churches whose members behaved as if they were drunk and spouting gibberish from their mouths like they have fucking turret’s syndrome.  These same morons would then proclaim with boundless enthusiasm how this was some gift from God.  Imagine if you will the utter debasement I felt actually believing these idiots!

I was led to believe that all my natural instincts were wrong and not to be trusted.  For this was “the flesh” and everything from the flesh is abhorrent and not from God.  Yet putting females up on the podium to instruct the church, lauding single mothers as some great gift for lovelorn men and otherwise behaving like disgusting fake fucks was to be praised as holy.

Perhaps they just had more faith than me right?


Developing a carefree attitude is key to getting the panties to drop

Countdown To Detonation

Having to suffer through an endless parade of circus clown freaks and incessant preaching about the beauty and purity of women while chiding males for not being man enough was the ticking time bomb waiting for the lit fuse to ignite it’s explosive content.  Still a part of me wanted to believe that I was wrong and could somehow become like the rest.  Having the things they have.  To be happy like them which they seemed to love flaunting to the world.

I even had a young “Christian” girl around my age who manipulated me, telling me she loved me while seeing another guy.  My weak ass fell hard for the emotional blackmail and allowed her ego to swell by having two males dote over her.  She ended up marrying the guy and when their relationship started to have trouble she wanted me to move in with her at another place.  Thankfully I said no to her childish demands and coy remarks that she could make me if she really wanted to.

I couldn’t believe myself for behaving like such a chump.  I was absolutely disgusted.  When I finally realized just how low and pathetic I had become.  I fucking snapped.  I realized if anything, none of this ever felt natural to me and what I really wanted to do was tell them some straight up real talk.  Then I could finally be free of their claws.  I came to the point that I’d rather be completely alone than suffer the wiles of these women.

Doorway To Another World

I had seen briefly the antics of guys who didn’t seem to care one iota about women.  Yet they always seemed to be surrounded by them.  I wrote them off as I was thoroughly indoctrinated.  I completely wiped any reality based truths from my mind that did not mesh with my fantasy ideals.  Finally when I said fuck this and just wanted to be left alone. I discovered another world right in front of me.

I’ll never forget one of the defining moments of my personal breakthrough.  It was my birthday and my good buddy wanted to visit this strip club where we had a friend or two who worked as bouncers.  I really never cared for strip clubs and I had no desire to get blue balls from some mediocre broad.  He kept cajoling me and finally I agreed since we had nothing better to do.  I had been to strip clubs before only this time I didn’t give one fuck about the girls.  Our bouncer friends let us sit in a VIP booth and we had some beer brought to us for free(I forget how that happened).  I remember distinctly that because I didn’t give two shits about being there my body language was completely different.  My arms were spread wide across the booth and I had a look on my face that must have said I simply don’t care.

This one stripper who was devilishly hot came over and wanted to hang with us.  We talked for a moment but I really couldn’t be bothered that much.  I was gonna get fucked up, not spend a dime and enjoy myself regardless.  At some point my buddy leans over and tells me

“She just said you look like fun”.

My boy being a true friend completely pumped my image up to her while I was sitting across the booth with a devil may care grin.  As the strip club is reaching closing time she tells me she will be waiting outside after she changes because a stripper isn’t allowed to leave the place with a patron.

Sure enough she is there when they kick everyone out and follows me home.  Funny thing, she even said “we can’t have sex” as we are heading to the bedroom.  30 seconds later I had some of the best sex of my life.  I fucked her all night.  I literally felt like this girl was fucking me like I’m the last dick on earth.  At one point I’m fucking her from the side and she is leaning off the bed pushing herself up from the floor onto my dick.  That was impressive.  I released all the pent up sexual energy I had on her and was absolutely 100% in the moment.  Perhaps the joy I had in fucking her gave her the impression that I really cared or something.  I fucked her two times and I was done.  I mean hey, it’s a fucking stripper.  I wasn’t trying to hang out or anything.  Apparently she got really butt hurt over this and told my bouncer friend how much of a dick I was while he played the nice guy beta and cuddled her precious tears to sleep.  Never once getting laid.  LOL.

After that experience I morphed into a fucking savage.  All the elements were there for me to become a Beast, yet I had been running from my destiny all this time.  Remember the manipulative church girl?  She called me one day to say she wanted me to be the Godfather to her child and how she was just telling a girlfriend how I am this great guy.

I could only laugh at this point.  The maniacal laughter of a man who has become the Villain.  I told her hell no I don’t wanna be the Godfather to your children and don’t be telling people I’m such a great guy because guess what?  I fucked a stripper the other night and it was god damn great!

I stopped talking to her shortly after that and it felt good.  It’s good to just say fuck you sometimes.  From there I went on to have many many other hilarious stories.


Becoming a savage isn’t easy, but it will take you much farther than being Mr. Nice

A Savage Reigns

All this shit about being a “good” person is superfluous to me.  Fuck your ideals.  Fuck your beliefs and infantile opinions.  I’m not a good person and if that matters to you.

Go fuck yourself.

This is the mentality that gets me laid and after all these years I’m still surprised at times.  I remember another time when I was bouncing at this bar and some random hot college blond comes up to me with a dumb look on her face and says “I don’t know anyone”.

To this I looked at her and said plainly  “Yea who fuckin cares!” while I  made the motion with my hand like I was jerking off on her.  She storms away and I’m giggling to myself.  About 3 minutes later I shit you not.  I see this chick in the crowd and like a laser pointer her eyes are focused intently on me.  She makes a b-line right to me.  Comes up to me with this look of needful expectation.  Then she literally collapses into my arms.  So I start making out with her hard, pulling hair, grabbing handfuls of ass.  Eventually some friends pull her off and seem really surprised claiming they’ve never seen her act this way before.

I didn’t give one fuck.

As for the modern woman.  I’ll fuck her.  I’ll play with her.  I’ll enjoy the fleeting caress of female flesh.  Then it matters not to me if I ever see her again.  If she were to get hit by a car and die when she left.

There would be zero tears shed.

Zero feelings of pain.


This is the world the modern woman has screamed and shouted for.  I am going to shove it down her fucking throat with aggression.  Choke on that shit.

Strangely this open disdain and utter satisfaction with myself is the mentality that has never failed to cause women to notice, to swoon, to have their feeble little hearts melt over a man who no longer gives a shit about them.  I’d rather sit alone and ponder deep things than listen to her basement level opinions on issues completely insignificant to me.  I am openly averse to everything she says she believes in.  Every piss weak ideal she proclaims with baseless fervor.  I take a gigantic peanut filled shit on everything her fairy princess world is made of.

Fuck her and fuck anyone else who by hook or crook drowns in the stagnant sewers of mediocrity. I was in the shit once.  Know what?  I rose up out of it with my own hands and my own strength.  I won’t lift one finger to save your bitch ass.

I love to make it abundantly clear just how little I think of nearly everyone.  I love the looks of faux indignation.  The sneers.  The whiny butt hurt.  Yes YES!

Say hello to the motherfucking bad guy.

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How To Have Women On Your Own Terms


Redheads are fiery in bed, so why not have one on your terms

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.

When I first started learning about this thing called “Game”, it was all about getting the lay.  The all important f-close is the reason most men undertake the the arts of seduction.

Since we live in a culture which is hostile to male heterosexuality, most grow up with a drug induced haze of images from faggot made movies like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and other assorted dog shit which indoctrinates a young boy’s mind into a form of psychological slavery.  This form of bondage is collectively known as white knighting or male thirst.

Growing into young adulthood I seemed to have this idea that a girl who loved me dearly, fanatically devoted to my every need was the end all-be all of life’s journey.  As a young brainwashed fucktard I romanticized endlessly about how that scenario would play out or just how amazing I would feel with my very own pretty pretty princess.  This only served to raise that pedestal up even higher in my mind, putting women in the clouds while I gazed up worshipful from the unclean floor where all sinful males have to be.

Just a pathetic, unworthy chump who somehow deserves a miracle because I’m such a good guy at heart.  I would see girls at school with other guys and think, “He doesn’t deserve her.  I could treat her so much better”.

At some point I’m not sure when, this idea took over my entire thought process.  Converting to Christianity at age 21 after being a manic depressive for years was the nail in the coffin for me.  Now my beta bitch boy mentality received a monster steroid dose of delusion.  Attending churches and hearing all the spineless pastors praise women constantly was a lethal injection of poison into my highly contaminated mind and spirit.  What modern culture did to me was only exacerbated tenfold by embracing Christianity and the weak males who proliferate it’s fagged out congregations.

It was a constant struggle to wrest my mind and spirit from Medusa’s gaze.  The whole time I sensed this internal battle going on within me.  I couldn’t quite articulate it then but the struggle was between sincere belief in the paper thin facade of lies and the primal instinct in my gut screaming DANGER DANGER!

Enough is Enough

After 6 long years of spiritual slavery and cognitive dissonance I’d had enough.  I finally grabbed my nuts and said a big fuck you to the church and every fag within it.  I finally stopped believing in the lies which only caused me to bash my head against a wall constantly while every weak bitch around insisted I was on the oh so righteous path.  These “godly” men would always say things like “God has a special plan for you and He has the right woman already picked out and just around the corner” as the church tried to pawn off single mothers and used up whores as some kind of “blessing” to its lovesick, piss weak males.

I had all this pent up frustration for so long and I was so angry that I went in the complete opposite direction.  I became the biggest shitlord I could possibly imagine in a very short period of time.

So what does this have to do with having women on your own terms you ask?

Well the answer is very simple.  To have women on your own terms you simply must not care about them anymore. You must lay to rest in a shallow and forgotten grave the entire notion of romantic love. Now I know this is easier said than done but there is a plan of action to achieve these results but only if you are willing to go all the way and not hold back one bit.

Are you truly ready for that?


You, too can tap dat ass with this sage advice

Find Your Nuts Again

In order to regain control of your mind, your life and become the tantalizing delight of the female hindbrain one must completely abandon all pretensions of care towards women and act in 100% complete and total selfishness.

“But Jack, I’m just not that kind of person.”

Well if a female’s petty love is something you truly want you had better change yourself and do it goddamn quick.  One of the best ways to become a master of pussy is having the inner power to turn down a piece of ass even when you have no other options.

“WTF Jack! Isn’t the purpose of learning game to get laid?”

While that may be the impetus which spurred you down this path, the destination is much much greater.  Now a lot of playa playa’s and guys in the manosphere might disagree with me here but the purpose of learning game isn’t just to get pussy.

The purpose of game and self improvement is to become a SUPERIOR man.  One whose thoughts, words and deeds are in a frightening, mystical alignment.

Pussy is simply a side effect of becoming a superior man.  When you the reach the point of total ZFG, women will find you irresistibly arousing.  Having been on the wrong side of those tracks for so long you will feel like you now have magical powers and your relationships with women will seem like one big hilarious joke which you entertain yourself with.  If you are like me you will maniacally laugh inside every time you see some retard female’s eyes light up with attraction when you are an arrogant, uncaring prick.

That is the point when your life will become something you live just for you.  Whether that be for your own entertainment or something more, all that matters is that your life and your destiny are now in your hands alone.

Violently Destroy Your Barriers

If you have never turned pussy away you should force yourself to do it on a regular basis until you don’t give a fuck.

Shortly after I made my exodus from fagged out Cucktianity I ran through sluts like a freight train and I got addicted to the momentum and the action.  For me getting the f-close was cool and all but the hilarious shit I said and did to get me there was the juice I began to crave.  Every time I did some crazy asshole shit I would tell myself

“Alright Jack, this time you gotta one up yourself.”

From making out with girls in front of their boyfriends, choking girls within 20 secs of meeting them and grabbing sluts out of groups of chodes to take them to the dance floor make out and finger them while the chumps stood by completely bewildered.  I was on a fucking rampage.

I remember this one blond I fucked and she must have thought that I really liked her or something because I enjoyed the sex.  She told a friend of mine that I was in love with her.  So the next time she called I made it a point to plan a meetup in which I stood her up.  After a bunch of missed calls and texts I finally simply told her, “Guess what babe?  No dick for you!”

Even though I didn’t have any other options for pussy that night I felt like a fucking boss telling some whore to get fucked (by someone else).  If you’ve never done this before, the mental and spiritual power it will give you cannot be understated.


Make women obey your commands rather than vice versa

Feed The Fire

When you get momentum like this it is essential to go harder and harder pushing yourself into the stratosphere.


Not for the faint of heart! 

This is the path to forge a man out of steel.  Ironically my entire attitude and ZFG mentality ended up attracting a girl 10yrs younger than me who ticked off a majority of all indicators to be girlfriend material.  She quickly fell madly in love with me and honestly it was fucking funny to watch.

All this time I had been led to believe what I now had was the absolute pinnacle of a male’s existence.  I remember thinking after a lengthy period with this girl, “Fuck. This is it? Goddamn. I was happier single!”

Serious relationships in my experience just bring a man down, kill his ZFG attitude and obliterate his freedom.  The path of a superior man is one of climbing ever upward.  The only caveat is this.

When you ascend to the heights no one else dares go, you might find yourself all alone.  This is not a bad thing however.

Just takes some serious introspection and honesty with oneself to assess whether or not you have the fucking cajones to handle it.

This is Jack Ronin signing off.

P.S. Do your part and punch a white knight in the face!

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My First 130 Women: What I’ve Learned


The more women I go through, the more I see they’re all the same

As I approach the big 4-0 in the coming years, I look back on half a lifetime of relationships and sex with women and what it has taught me about them. It has been a quest to find out what every man wants to know about women – what makes them tick. Those experiences are the fuel for the Truth About Women half of this blog. I started keeping a list of women I had sexual relations with about 10 years ago when the list of names of my conquests started getting too big for me to remember. At that time, as an attractive but clueless guy, my count was about 30.

The list just clicked over to 130 women this month, 100 new lays marking a new milestone a few short years after learning the principles of Game from RooshV and Heartiste, among many other fabulous men’s blogs. So, I would say by mere dint of experience as both a Beta and a Sigma male I am more qualified than most men to draw a few conclusions about the most manipulative of the two sexes. You could describe this new chapter in my life as me delving in, getting my hands dirty, conducting hands-on research in the quest to find what really motivates women – and to see if there are indeed any of those fabled NAWALT unicorns out there.

I’ve had them all. “Good girls” like the daughter of an executive who I wouldn’t marry even though it would have (at least temporarily) meant a better financial future for me. (Seeing so many men wasted in the divorce meat grinder was the motivation behind that decision). Then there was the Army sergeant who turned out to have a secret boyfriend in prison she was waiting for while we shared some good times fucking around, and the hardworking Mexican girl I dated for a number of years who was probably the highlight of my entire dating life, and not so good girls like a coke whore who I really enjoyed hanging out with just because she was so laid back and we had fun getting high together. Then there were the threesomes, with me and two girls 7 different times. (You have to instruct women what to do in a threesome, as they’re lost most of the time. That’s coming up in a future article.)

Then there was the cheating girlfriend, cleverly hiding her tracks from her Beta provider after I came over to visit her. One of the standouts was a girl I met online and drove to Miami to spend an afternoon in a hotel with having some of the nastiest, best sex of my entire life with. I got off three times in a row with her in only a few short hours. I had a girlfriend at the time but was able to keep the incident on the DL. Since putting the power of pick up artistry and hypergamy to work for me, I’ve been having more sex with more women than I care to think about. About the only thing I haven’t had a lot of is fat girls. Somewhat ugly girls, yes, there have been a few. But fat I cannot abide by. I take care of myself and so should you.

As I look back at “The List” of bangs, there are memories of big titties, little titties, saggy titties, firm titties, big asses, little asses, tight pussies, loose pussies, dark skin, light skin, women that are good in bed, women that suck in bed, women with rythym, women with no rythym, dead fishes, live wires…all encompassed in the journal I’ve kept detailing my experiences with each one.

Most of the girls on “The List” have been aged 20-30 years old, but there are exceptions like the 46-year old, stacked, black hotel manager (who incidentally had a sister in the WNBA) when I was in college and working on the road who told me “I just love white guys like you.” Next thing you knew we were getting down and dirty in the conference room after midnight. I later met her boyfriend by accident as I was a frequent guest at the hotel, the man I just cucked who was very good to her from what I could gather. Then I met her son who was only a few years younger than me, also by accident. Little did I know, I was just getting started with experiences in reality that were sometimes stranger than fiction.

My sexual experiences have spanned several races and ethnicities – black, Latina, Asian, and white – and I draw on my experiences with them and the experiences of my friends in dating and marriage as “research” for this blog. I also paid attention to what happened to other “good guys” and “bad boys” my entire life amongst colleagues at work. In almost all circumstances, the relationship script adheres to the great work of Rev. Lawrence Shannon and his book The Predatory Female. The one constant among all these women, whether “good girls” or “bad girls” was dissimulation, a concept brilliantly detailed by the philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer over century ago:

For as lions are furnished with claws and teeth, elephants with tusks, boars with fangs, bulls with horns, and the cuttlefish with its dark, inky fluid, so Nature has provided woman for her protection and defense with the faculty of dissimulation, and all the power which Nature has given to man in the form of bodily strength and reason has been conferred on woman in this form. Hence, dissimulation is innate in woman and almost as characteristic of the very stupid as of the clever. Accordingly, it is as natural for women to dissemble at every opportunity as it is for those animals to turn to their weapons when they are attacked; and they feel in doing so that in a certain measure they are only making use of their rights. Therefore a woman who is perfectly truthful and does not dissemble is perhaps an impossibility.

Along the way, there are things I’ve seen that can’t be unseen. Like the divorce of my best friend from a domineering tyrant who ended up being a bitch who cheated and destroyed the marriage, the divorce of my uncle from a useless gossip and subsequent award of his home to his ex-wife, the home he spent a lifetime at a blue-collar job paying for, the divorce of a clueless (about women) co-worker of mine, a brawny Hispanic guy willingly letting himself be cucked by his Anglo wife, and the miserable marriage of another professional colleague that’s currently in separation because he got fed up with her bullshit and denigration. In all of these cases, these men are the “good guys” of society who do not deserve the treatment they get from women.

The conclusion I’ve drawn after a lifetime of experimentation with and observation of women both of high and low socioeconomic status: everywhere I turn there are women using men as utilities and not treating them as human beings worthy of love and respect. They may feign love and respect, but only when the man she is with is providing a benefit to her and a better meal ticket has not yet presented itself. Call it the advantage of having the Golden Vagina, nature’s credit card that women use to the maximum that their figurative credit limit of youth, beauty and fertility will allow.

That’s Life

In my lifetime of ups and downs and sideways, I tried the Beta “nice guy” thing from high school on through most of my 20s only to be repeatedly used. Up through around age 30 I had bedded about 30 women and played by all the rules of society. Since I adopted many of the ideals discussed on this blog and amongst MGTOWs, PUAs, MRAs, and others, and stopped approval seeking, becoming my natural self, a Sigma male I’ve seen my count shoot up by 100 women in that short period of time.

Perhaps what has been most interesting about my writing and blogging experience so far is the unadulterated hate Realtalk generates from certain corners of society for things I see as nothing more than inconvenient truths. It has been said that truth undergoes three stages: first it is ridiculed, then it is violently opposed (we are currently between the first and second stages in the manosphere) and then it is recognized as being self-evident.

When we tell the truth about women as we see it, it’s bound to piss a lot of people off. As Aldous Huxley said, “You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you mad.” Reinhold Niebuhr knew, the masses of people need potent myths, potent oversimplifications and illusions to keep them on track. In the case of Anglo society, the myth we in the manosphere are assailing is women are all perfect goddesses and men are all evil oppressors narrative, as well as the careerism makes women happy gnome. (It doesn’t and I have been documenting that fact.)

There are those of us who can’t live a life based on a myth, and for whom only the harsh truth will do. Philosopher and historian Oswald Spengler wrote at the end of his great work Man and Technics: Optimism is cowardice. Indeed, it is the brave man who dares think outside the box, not becoming a pessimist but a realist. I find reality is neither optimistic nor pessimistic – it just is, and as I grow older I truly see life as one big cosmic joke being played on all of us. We take it far too seriously. And we overanalyze life, just as most late stage, declining societies do.

No matter what political and popularity contest costs, there are those of us who insist on searching for truth and sharing our findings with other men who can handle the truth. My experiences with such a large and growing number of women have taught me more than any feminist lecture or high minded ideals and societal myths ever could. I share one man’s opinion about my experiences with women from virtually all backgrounds so other men perhaps can learn from my lifetime of experience and “research” dating and bedding women. When dealing with women, aloofness and caution is advised. Don’t get tricked by the fleeting emotion of love only to end up being used.

I have yet to find the “unicorn” even though I’ve been all over the map in my life. Frank Sinatra illustrated the type of diverse life experience I’ve had in his classic hit “That’s Life.” I’ve lived in areas with black majorities, Hispanic majorities, and white majorities in addition to having spent time living in two foreign countries (and counting). I’ve been in the so-called “high class” social circles (which always made me cringe because of their sophistry and courtier game playing) and in the ghettos having a good time with people there who were suspicious of me at first but later said, “This white boy is cool as fuck.” I have been all of these things in Sinatra’s That’s Life:

I’ve been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet, a pawn and a king
I’ve been up and down and over and out and I know one thing
Each time I find myself flat on my face
I pick myself up and get back in the race

To paraphrase Errol Flynn, if I have any genius at all it is a genius for living. And I’m here to share those experiences with you and create a dialogue for the uncowed and awakening men who are an endangered species in the early 21st century. Experiencing my first 130 women has been one of the best and worst experiences in my life. I’ve learned a lot about women, and none of it was what I expected. But, I’ve been having a good time. Here’s to 130 more, and the ups and downs and life lessons they will bring.

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Why You Should Ignore Women


Women crave male attention, you decide whether you give it to them or they earn it

Women love male attention whether they admit it or not. In fact, women get upset when men don’t notice them, especially if they have spent a lot of time on putting their war paint (makeup) on and bought some sort of new garment or shoes from the store. If men who women think should be noticing them aren’t, women will start acting childish. From giving men who ignore them dirty looks to seething about it in the bathroom with their girlfriends, women cannot stand being invisible to men. If men only knew the power of this tactic, intentionally withholding attention from women on a regular basis rather than giving it to them for nothing, they could affect real change in the way women act and treat men.

The Red Pill man uses aloof behavior to his advantage when dealing with females. An aloof attitude is one of the best qualities a man can develop: cool, calm, collected, uncaring, indifferent. Women want attention and approval from their peers as well as men they find desirable. When they don’t get this attention, the hamster hops on the wheel and spins very quickly, often until it falls off the wheel. Women who don’t get the proper level of attention will do everything from accusing men who ignore them of being gay to hurling personal insults at them. How many times have we seen women throw around the “loser” insult? Whenever you hear this word, her ego has been pinpricked by something you did to her.

Female self esteem is based on what others think of them. This is why women exhibit pack and herd behavior. Marketing flacks know this which is why they push their wares on women instead of men. The majority of consumer marketing is directed at women, not men, and for good reason. Women make up 80% of consumerism in America, and much of that money is spent on making themselves more beautiful and desirable. Going back to pack and herd behavior, if a female who is revered by other women (such as an actress or pop star) adopts a new hairstyle, we have all seen that style trickle down through society as women copy first the actress and then other women who have the hairstyle. I first noticed it as a teenager with the Jennifer Aniston hairstyle when Friends came out in the 1990s. Soon after, every other girl had the “Jennifer Aniston” look.

Hilariously, female attention-seeking behavior now powers a gigantic trophy industry in Anglo America. Women are getting trophies for everything from good work at their jobs to beauty contests. While they tell men to lower their standards (do not look for a trophy wife), women are doing everything they can to become a trophy themselves, including rewarding themselves with faux trophies for doing little more than existing. Yes, their egos are that fragile.


Women’s attitudes change when have to do more for male attention than just looking pretty

Deflate the Female Ego

The neg. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s one of the most important concepts of Game. A neg is a backhanded compliment, impeccably timed and delivered. Something along the lines of: That blouse is nice, my mother has one just like it. As petty as the neg sounds, it is actually a great tactic for catching women off guard instead of the usual Beta male butt kissing that helps inflate their egos.

One of the reasons women are so arrogant today is because of a sexual market that has shifted towards the Pareto Principle. With most men figuratively (and sometimes literally) begging for sex, women receive constant attention from thirsty, incel Betas. The last thing she wants is another Beta to kiss her behind and orbit her in hopes he’ll get a few sexual crumbs off the table. The neg can be an important way to demonstrate higher value, letting her know subconsciously you are not an thirsty Beta, you are a man that other women desire. As mentioned above, women are pack and herd creatures, so a man other women want is a man your target is going to want.

If you already have a woman, keeping her ego in check is essential if you want to keep her around. There are several tips to assist you in managing her. To the uninitiated, the tips will seem counterintuitive to everything you have been told by society. But to the experienced, the tips will be common sense. Here’s a list of dos and don’ts to avoid becoming a Beta male in the female mind, all based the power of ignoring:

  • Ignore what women want
  • Don’t do what they demand you do
  • Do not listen to what they say they want
  • Be aloof, ignoring her insults and having impeccably delivered comebacks to each of them


  • Develop yourself; never make a female your main priority
  • Do not become a walking wallet
  • Always have backups (side dishes) ready to go

By ignoring women and refusing to cave to their whims, you are demonstrating subconsciously that you are a man of high value. A man with options does not jump when a girl squawks, because he doesn’t have to. Staying cool and distant demonstrates that you are the prize, and she is seeking you. Women chase what retreats. Make yourself the sought after prize rather than turning her into the sought after prize.

Developing your own productive hobbies and interests will increase your personal happiness as well as your value in her mind. Avoid becoming a walking wallet at all costs, you will never be able to keep pace on The Hedonic Treadmill and will either fall off or have a heart attack trying. And of course, the Red Pill man always has more than one female plate spinning, which is a good insurance policy against one-itis and acts as an overall confidence booster.


Men putting themselves first makes them the pursued rather than the pursuer

You Are the Prize

The biggest mistake men make is becoming trained monkeys for women, inflating their egos (as they desire men to do) with constant attention and doing what women want them to do, essentially turning themselves into doormats. Then, these men act surprised when they get walked on.

Men must remember they spend a lifetime becoming something of value while women just are women, there’s no becoming. Nature endows women with sexual market value that men have to spend a lifetime acquiring: gaining money, status, and power to even show up on the female radar.

Women, as the gatekeepers of sex hold the power to what men want. However, men also are gatekeepers. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Ignoring women and ignoring what they want shows you do not give your commitment away for nothing. In the male mind, a woman that gives sex away easily is a whore. In the female mind, a man that gives away his attention and commitment easily is a Beta.

Remember: Stay aloof, neg, ignore wishes, demands, and female attention seeking, and look out for number one. Playing with women’s emotions by ignoring them most of the time, while occasionally throwing their egos a bone with a halfhearted compliment, and not doing things for them like trained puppy dogs might seem cold to the uninitiated in the romantic arts, but the man who learns the correct behavior wields an enormous amount of power in today’s sexual jungle.

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The Quick and Dirty 7-Step Guide to Game


A quick and dirty guide to picking up chicks, condensed into 7 steps

Volumes have been written on Game and pick-up artistry since the inception of the web. It takes time to sift through all the wisdom and develop a strategy for bedding women. Those reams of writing and countless tips, while containing a cornucopia of knowledge for the Red Pill man can take a lot of time and determination to develop into a workable strategy. Much of this information can be condensed into a Quick and Dirty 7-Step Guide to memorize when out on the prowl.

Before proceeding, know that no method is 100% foolproof. Go into pickup artistry with the mindset of an apprentice. Most men (except naturals) do not have success right away. The biggest stumbling block is becoming discouraged by failure, regressing to adherence to political correctness and what females say they want from men. Take all that information and throw it into the trash. The real world does not operate the way society’s myths say it does.

A woman simply is, a man must become. Becoming a man who is successful with women takes a lot of work, especially in an r-selected sexual market. Salesmen are often told they will be told “no” by prospective clients 99 times out of 100, but the 1% of people who say “yes” will make their fortunes. Wolves, when hunting, only score a kill 1 out of 5 times. Do salesmen give up and go crawl in the corner and give up? Do wolves starve because most hunts end in failure? Certainly not. Similarly, lions on the savannah only enjoy a successful hunt 1 out of 5 times. In today’s sexual jungle in Anglo America a man must either hone his hunting skills, do without or leave a degenerating nation for greener pastures.

Here are 7 Quick and Dirty PUA steps for the newly minted poon hunter who has decided to proceed into the jungle that is today’s sexual market.


Practice makes perfect, don’t expect success right away when honing your skills

The Steps

Before heading out: Sartorial choices are extremely important. The old maxim the clothes make the man are words to live by, especially when hunting women. If you look like every other douche in the bar or club, you are not going to stand out. The importance of peacocking can’t be overstated – but dress in a way that makes you stand out without becoming a parody of yourself. Personally, I like to dress up in white. A nice white dress shirt, white pants, nice white shoes, and white fedora with just a little silver and black jewelry/bling. Men who are dressed in white get noticed, in my experience. Clothing color is not as important as communicating a sense of style and getting noticed. Hair style and weight are also important to your success. Find a style that looks good and stay in shape physically. Go on a diet if necessary.

7. Pick a girl. The hunt begins. Like a hunter out on the savannah, you are a figurative lion looking for his next romantic meal. Leave self-doubt at the door. If introverted, it may help if you have a few drinks before cold approaching so as to loosen up socially, but do not become a stumble bum before approaching. Wingmen are a major confidence booster and also help get a man into a social mood. If the girl you approach turns out to be undesirable, i.e. she has that “far-away look” but once you see her up close you lose interest, a wingman also makes a convenient way to abort the mission and refocus on a new girl. I have to go over here, my friend needs something.

Once you have isolated a sexy girl, it’s time to swoop in. Before swooping in, pick out some foible about her (large nose, large ears, weird clothing, etc.) and keep her faults mind – the girl you are approaching is not perfect, she is not a princess, she is just another girl. Taking her off the pedestal in your mind helps boost confidence, and helps you shake off any failure you might have.

6. Approach with a cocky but humorous attitude and a 1,000 watt smile. The importance of smiling while playing the mating game is underrated. It communicates self-confidence, and women will subconsciously think, wow this guy really has it going on if he’s that happy. Remember: Abundance mentality and you are the prize! Approach with a witty, backhanded compliment. One possibility is: Wow, that’s a nice dress. My mom has one just like it. The idea is to give her a compliment that’s a bit of an insult, but with plausible deniability. This move dethrones her psychologically from being Little Miss Princess to just another girl. Do not expect her to show interest after dropping a backhanded compliment, in fact the bitch shields will probably be set at maximum if you are in Anglo America. (Abroad, women haven’t yet been taught to hate men, so the approach is slightly different.)

5. Neg. Expect her to shit test you after you have dropped the backhanded compliment. She will insult you, challenge your masculinity, tease or taunt you. Have witty, short answers to her insults ready to go. Do not back off from the original, witty remark or comment you made. Neg her, which means to once again verbally knock her down a few notches. (Important: This must be done in a humorous, self-confident way!) Tailor your negs to the Sexual Market Value of the girl you are approaching. For 6s to 8s, generic negs will do. Here are a few example negs to sarcastically drop when responding to teases, taunts and insults:

  • Wow, you are very modest.
  • You are certainly above it all aren’t you.
  • Yikes, you are judgmental.
  • Um, you are the happiest person I’ve met today.
  • You are straight-laced, etc.

For 9s and 10s, stronger, in-her-face negs must be used because these women are constantly approached by men and are used to the Game. The ability to drop quality negs will increase with experience and observing the reactions of women as you drop them.

4. Make her laugh. Remember: cocky, funny. Be an asshole. Make fun of others as you people watch (women love men who criticize others, as odd as this will be if you are a nice person). Making fun of others also displays narcissism, which is one trait women love (no matter what they tell you!) in men. Also, do not talk too much! Talking too much sends Beta male signals to her limbic brain. Law 4 from the 48 Laws of Power is vital: Always Say Less Than Necessary. Let her initiate the topics of discussion, then respond in an aloof, humorous manner with as few words as possible.

3. Initiate kino. Kino is light touching intended to put her in the mood. It also communicates dominance. Betas will not initiate touching as they’re too shy. But, tonight you are an Alpha! Even if you have to fake it ’til you make it. For instance: start by touching her arm to emphasize a point in your conversation. When she says something uncool, pat her on the back and shake your head. This progresses to hugging, a hand on her leg, dancing or touch that is a bit more intimate if she is receptive. Otherwise, drop her and look for another girl, as avoiding the development of one-itis is crucial. Betas make the mistake of having a scarcity mentality. Remember, she is only a girl. In late kino, the goal is to have her sitting on your lap, kissing you, having her head on your shoulder or lap, or giving you fellatio in a dark corner.

2. Make her chase you. Women chase what recedes. Do not turn into a pile of jelly or become a Beta who talks too much or clings to her after she has shown interest. Give the impression you are not an easy man to tame. Once she is responding to you, corny role reversal jokes like Don’t think you can take me back to your apartment and take advantage, I’m not that easy! not only subconsciously communicate you are a man who is sought after by other women, but get her rationalization hamster thinking about sex at the same time. By toying with her emotions, you can turn her into putty in your hands. While executing step 2, push-pull her: Seem uninterested one minute, then interested the next.

Women communicate using emotion, and do not respond to men who use logic. Emotion is the language of love: First, aloofness when approaching, then cocky funny, then strong and unbending to her shit tests, later remaining a mystery by not saying too much, followed by light touching to give her tingles, finishing by making her chase you once she has emotionally invested in the pick-up approach. Next up is the happiest part, the close.

1. Close. If you have executed the previous steps properly, luring her into a romantic tryst should be easy at this point. If she agrees, do not go all Beta. She’ll back off. Remain aloof, cool, calm, and collected. Remain the strong, confident jerk that sparked her interest. Be assertive and instruct her as to where you both are headed. Do not ask her what she wants to do! That’s a fatal mistake. Lead, and she will follow. If you have done your job properly, she will follow you back and you’ll wake up with her in your arms the next morning after a wild night rolling in the hay.


Most of today’s women are not worth the investment entailed by a relationship

Pump and Dumps

Beyond enjoying sexual closes with hot girls, here are a few tips to keep you safe in today’s legalistic, male-hating culture. Quite frankly, most women you are meet in today’s degenerate culture are only good for having fun. Don’t get sucked into a relationship because 99 times out of 100 it is going to cost you much more than it is worth.

Psychologically, women will expect some sort of recompense for rewarding you with sex. Don’t fall into the trap. You are the Alpha that gives her a good time sexually, not the Beta who pays her bills until he goes bankrupt. Also, remember the importance of not getting a girl pregnant in today’s culture of male slavery/child support. This could be the ultimate disaster for your finances and freedom.

The basics listed above are a simplified introduction to pickup up chicks and getting laid. You can fine-tune your hunting skills based on your experiences, the social environment of the city you live in, and what gives you the most success. Some men will have better physical attributes than others, and will not have to work as hard because of it. Others will be better at negs and humor than they are with physical attractiveness. Appearance, while important, is not as important as attitude.

There are a lot of ways the 7 steps can be personalized to suit the individual practicing them. Just as every hunter must be gently guided as he begins his first hunt, every aspiring pick-up artist must be pointed in the right direction, free to make mistakes and learn from his own experiences while adhering to a set of generalities such as these. Forget the indoctrination you’ve been given, these are the realities of dating in the 21st century.

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Women’s Unrestrained Sexual Instincts Lead to Dystopia


Women’s desire to marry someone of higher status than them, if not restrained, ultimately leads to meaner men and large numbers of alienated men dropping out of society

Primitive sexual forces detailed by Freud and unleashed by feminism have released the hounds of hell on Western civilization by ending restrictions on female sexuality. Sexual forces stemming from the limbic or “reptilian” brain inside all of us, no longer constrained by culture are changing the lives of everyone in society, and changing them in de-civiling ways.

This infographic illustrates how hypergamy, or women’s biological desire to date and mate with men of higher status has eliminated large numbers of men from sexual consideration once The Law of the Jungle returned, i.e. patriarchy was abandoned. To become top dog in this skewed sexual market, an undesirable (for civilization) set of traits must be honed by men who do not wish to become genetic dead ends.


Hypergamy means the majority of men are just not good enough anymore, and men must turn into monsters or imitate them to get into the upper quintile of the sexual pyramid

Sexual Market Value

The Sexual Market Value (SMV) of women and men is of vital importance to both sexes but the equation breaks down differently for each side. Men’s sexual market value is based on wealth, social status, and power. More than anything else, this determines if a man is going to be In Like Flynn or clicking onto porn to rub one out.

Women’s sexual market value is based on hotness, youth, and fertility. Men want hot women who are young and fertile – those in their prime childbearing years.

There are biological reasons for each of these mating strategies. In the wild, a weak Beta provider will not provide the best genes for survival of the female’s offspring. A male that dominates other men (i.e. an Alpha) shows his genes have what it takes to be a winner. Since reproduction has been the prime directive for all life on the planet since it formed, a pretty, young, fertile woman is appealing to the male because she will give him the highest number of, most attractive, and healthiest offspring. However, while men will often settle for a female of lower SMV than them, for women only the best will do. The reason: eggs cost more than sperm.


When most men are not good enough, men have no incentive to remain civilized

Only the Best Will Do

Women want dominant men, and to become dominant in today’s society a man must possess a Dark Triad personality type. Possessing a mean, ruthless personality makes panties wet and allows ascension into the upper quintile (top 20%) of males is a trait that women select for by virtue of the fact women reward men who have it with a sexual cornucopia while leaving other men to wallow in miserable, incel lives.

The problem with this strategy is over time as more and more men turn mean to get women, to stay in the upper quintile men must become meaner and meaner to thwart competition. Thus, Dark Triad men fathering the offspring in the society pass on their traits to the next generation, while nice guys become genetic dead ends by virtue of women choosing men with the following traits:

  • Machiavellianism: The employment of cunning and duplicity in general conduct.
  • Narcissism: Extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one’s own talents and a craving for admiration as characterizing a personality type.
  • Psychopathy: Characterized by low fear and stress-tolerance, toleration of unfamiliarity and danger, high self-confidence and social assertiveness, poor impulse control including problems with planning and foresight, lacking affect and urge control, demand for immediate gratification, and poor behavioral restraints. Other traits include meanness, lacking empathy and close attachments with others, disdain of close attachments, use of cruelty to gain empowerment, exploitative tendencies, defiance of authority, and destructive excitement seeking.

It does not take a rocket scientist to realize when the only men who are reproducing in statistically significant numbers possess these personality traits, over time society is going to become uncivilized and more vicious. (The fact women get hot and bothered over men who have these traits also tells us a good deal about female psychology). Over time, positive male traits that build civilization up rather than exploiting it for personal gain begin to disappear from society. In effect, under patriarchy women settle and civilization benefits. Post patriarchy men settle (or go without) and civilization weakens.


Having sexual, familial, and friendship needs satisfied allows man to progress to higher being – notice sex is at the base of the pyramid and sexual intimacy, such as that with a regular partner is in the middle

Positive Male Traits

Male traits that are positive for a civilized society flourish only under patriarchy. When men do not have to fight to the death with one another over women who are monopolized by a few top dogs, a wonderful change happens. The society becomes more cooperative, it moves from low trust to high trust, and with men’s sexual desires satiated by the bonds of monogamy that women cannot break for fear of being shamed and excommunicated, the sexes can go on to pursue higher ambitions.

Sex is very important to psychology, especially male psychology. Sex appears at the base of Maslow’s hierarchy along with other physiological needs. Sex alone does not fulfill a man, however. Studies consistently show that sex is more satisfying with a regular partner than it is with many different partners. So, sexual intimacy appears higher up in the pyramid, in the middle, along with other needs for belonging. In a society where most men get no sex at all, basic physiological needs are not being met, and higher needs of belonging are certainly not being met, so men cannot ascend the pyramid properly and do not develop a sense of belonging, self-esteem, or self-realization. This deprivation turns them into efficient consumers but it does not make them happy men,nor is it good for the flowering of culture and civilization.

As an aside, I have personally had sex with many women. However, I find I am happiest and do my best work when I have a single girlfriend who is supportive and gives me regular sexual attention. The importance of this very human need for bonding and belonging is underestimated in our society. A fling with a random sexy girl is exciting and brings momentary happiness; but it is not fulfilling like a regular partner is. A society that seeks fulfillment instead of momentary happiness is better off in the long run.


Sex is a basic physiological need for both men and women


Patriarchy curbs the influences of the sexual jungle by ending the rump of sexless males at the bottom of the hierarchy. It encourages male participation in society rather than male alienation. It leads to civilization, rather than catering to base instincts in the lower reaches of the human brain.

Under patriarchy, women are forced to settle for someone comparable to their SMV, but the alternative is a system in which a man has to settle for a female of lower status than him. By catering to hypergamous instincts, society leaves out a huge number of men who could contribute to it. Today’s society tells Betas (who build up society) they are not worthy of sex, but make sure to pay your taxes so we can give the revenue to women who have kids with criminals and other miscreants. This is a reason why the MGTOW movement is gaining steam, not because men are childish and refusing to take responsibility but because they are acting rationally to lack of incentives given to them.

Abandoning such a system was a dreadful mistake for Western Civilization. The passing of patriarchy has led women to chasing top men and even the formation of harems around Alphas (such as Leonardo DiCaprio’s well-known harem), promoted the rise of Dark Triad personality traits and bad boys instead of good, responsible men, and prevented both men and women from ascending Maslow’s hierarchy towards self-esteem and self-realization.

The definition of dystopia is a society that is undesirable or frightening. It is indeed undesirable and frightening to think about where these changes will lead us in the coming generations.

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NAWALT: Not All Women Are Like That!


NAWALT: Your chances of finding one are about the same as finding a unicorn

NAWALT! Not all women are like that! One must hear or see that tired pretense several times a week, if not more often in discussions with or about women. Sadly, in most cases the opposite is true. All women are like that, to the 99th percentile. It’s as if women think if they repeat the Big Lie often enough, men will believe it. However, the reality is the likelihood of finding a NAWALT is extremely low.

The fact women travel in packs reinforces the fact they are herd followers, and trend following behavior tells us they’re not their own person as much as a product of the culture and environment they’re in. If the most popular girl of a group dyes her hair, it won’t be long before her followers dye theirs. The pack mentality also helps explain why women often follow ridiculous and degenerate pop culture icons, and mimic everything from their behavior to their hair styles.

For an in-depth explanation of this and other female behaviors, we go back a century to a less culturally insane and less politically correct time, when a famous German philosopher was writing down his observations about women. Among many other observations, he noticed women do not use higher reasoning in most day to day decision making, which in modern times is known as The Hamster Effect. Philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer describes a female lack of reason, free from the cancer of political correctness in his time:

Man reaches the maturity of his reasoning and mental faculties scarcely before is twenty eight; woman when she is eighteen; but hers is reason of very narrow limitations. This is why women remain children all their lives, for they always see only what is near at hand, cling to the present, take the appearance of a thing for reality, and prefer trifling matters to the most important.

The female love for trifling matters (i.e. gossip) powers entire industries and provides their quarterly profits. Everything from tabloids to local news drama are designed around the female love of gossip. Observe what women talk about when with other women, especially if their guard is down. Log on to Fakebook and look at what women are sharing and talking about. The topics will be sensational, salacious, or trifling. So, with gossip, All Women Are Like That.

Lack of foresight and accepting pie in the sky claims as reality without questioning them, as women consistently show us by voting for leftist demagogues further proves Schopenhauer’s claim. Indeed, causality is typically reversed in the female mind when relationship decisions are made, and the hamster also blocks foresight of the outcomes of bad decisions like dating bad boys and criminals – which statistically have more offspring and more sexual partners than productive members of society in today’s sexual market. Schopenhauer continues with his expose of this emotional, here and now thinking:

It is by virtue of man’s reasoning powers that he does not live in the present only, like the brute, but observes and ponders over the past and future; and from this spring discretion, care, and that anxiety which we so frequently notice in people. The advantages, as well as the disadvantages, that this entails, make woman, in consequence of her weaker reasoning powers, less of a partaker in them.

In feminized America, realizing all women are like this turns the indoctrination men receive (of the mythical Strong, Independent Woman™) upside down. From childhood, boys learn they are snips, snails, and puppy dog tails and girls are sugar, spice, and everything nice! The view that everything male is bad and everything female is good is accepted as unquestionable truth in a society that does not value men. Men are taught they are evil oppressors and that women are perfect princesses.

This view elevates women above men from a very young age gives women the psychological impression they are superior, a sentiment which is reinforced in the government-run education system and in messaging from media and society. Women are told they can be just like men (except women hold the keys to the Golden Vagina which makes them special), and that each girl is an individual snowflake – different from all the rest. However, by examining more behaviors nearly all women display, the conclusion that All Women Are Like That leaps out.


Good Guys Used and Abused: All Women Are Like That

Good Guys Stepped On

Men quickly learn in today’s dating and mating jungle that being a good guy will get you nowhere with the ladies, especially when women are at their peak fertility, roughly age 18-25. Good guys are the invisible men, just as a man who spends all his money or loses his status or power also becomes invisible.

The majority of women in today’s man-hating culture pat each other on the back with YouGoGrrl-isms and not only jump on the cock carousel, but ride it as long as they can. This begins to change as women realize their looks and their taut, firm azzes and tits are not going to last forever. These assets which they leverage over men start to betray them as they age. Only when the aging process sets in and the hamster starts to realize hers is a one way trip around the sundial, that she will never be as pretty, as young, as firm, as fertile, as desired as once she was, will she start to lower her expectations from oh, a Hollywood A-lister to a Fortune 500 CEO.

The expectations continue to lower as her SMV plummets in her 30s. Then, and only then will she offer her used up vajay-jay to the Beta male who was totally invisible to her only 10 short years ago. Take a look around at women in the West. It is easy to see, once the rose-colored glasses have been removed, this is how the vast majority of women operate in a market that incentivizes rather than punishes sluttery.

Alphas get first dibs, and Beta backups figuratively get sloppy seconds. All Women Are Like That.


Predatory Instincts: All Women Are Like That

Predatory Behavior

Rev. Lawrence Shannon, who was Red Pill before Red Pill was cool, preaches the gospel of truth to men. All women, contrary to what the NAWALT priestesses will have you believe, display predatory behavior. Once again, the trio of money, status, and power come into play. As Shannon tells us:

Any combination of money, romance, and excitement. The scent of these accommodations will have her rising like a cobra in a wicker basket. The provider of such diversions occupies center stage in her life, but his identity is unimportant to her, and it’s a temporary position. Nobody can amuse her forever.

All men who have been dumped can testify to the truth of that statement. But, chin up! Don’t let the fickle female nature phase you. You have been given the right instincts by nature to deal with her fickleness. In the past, a society that wanted to be civilized gave men the power to completely dominate her.

Today, as Pandora’s Box has been thrown open by feminism, men have to realize they need to have one bird in the hand and always keep two in the bush, i.e. side pieces. Instincts to pump and dump women and maintain harems evolved to respond to this harsh reality of the mating market. Unreliable women mean men now have to focus on quantity instead of quality. Beware, though when pumping and dumping. Never let any one woman in the harem get too close.

A man, dealing with a predatory female, is like a man in the water with a shark. The environment (the matriarchal society) belongs to the predator. A man needs luck or special training to survive. Conditions permitting, a shark isn’t satisfied with just one chunk of the victim . . . it keeps coming back for more.

Tight Game will lure her, like a fisherman tossing chum into the water, but practiced aloofness is essential to keep her from getting close enough to take a chunk out of you. Remember, a predator cannot help itself when there is red meat around. The fact this is yet another piece of advice that will work all the time, every time only reinforces the AWALT realities of the world of fallen angels we live in.


Conspicuous Consumption: All Women Are Like That

Obsession with Consumerism

Women love to shop, and they love to eat out. The one consistent characteristic of Anglo America is the fact it is a coast to coast shopping mall. This coast to coast shopping mall and eatery is powered by the female id and its obsession with gathering things. Men are hunters, women are gatherers in our species, and marketing flacks have exploited women’s gathering instincts for over a century using Freudian psychology. Schopenhauer would not be surprised that women currently make up 80% of today’s consumer waste economy, usually referred to as the She-conomy by marketing flacks:

This is why they have greater inclination for extravagance, which sometimes borders on madness. Women in their hearts think that men are intended to earn money so that they may spend it, if possible during their husband’s lifetime, but at any rate after his death.

Indeed, women expect to live the life of a princess at her husband’s expense, and if she can’t find a man to pay for this extravagant lifestyle, in her mind Uncle Sugar should pay for it. A McMansion, luxury sedan or monstrous SUV, exotic vacations to far off destinations, eating out in nice restaurants for every meal, shopping to excess and conspicuous consumption to outdo her lady friends are her objectives.

The obsession with shoes, outfits, makeup, and shiny things is universal, and unless constrained by culture it can become destructive. The vanity and materialism women consistently display are more pieces of evidence which confirm: All Women Are Like That. Do not attempt to satiate her unending desire for stuff in a pathetic bid to be the man in her life, the Hedonic Treadmill makes it impossible. Once your utility has been consumed, you will find yourself bankrupt, alone, or both. All Women Are Like That.


Frivolous: All Women Are Like That


Pack behavior, love of trifling matters and gossip, the invisibility of good guys, predatory behavior, and the obsession with material things all lead to a frivolous female existence. It is nearly impossible to find exceptions to this rule in the mating jungle. Culture is the force which keeps these attributes suppressed in any sane society. However, anyone who has spent time there, and especially dated there knows Anglo America is no longer a sane society.

We have two fundamentally different psychologies when examining the behavior of men and women. Women doth protest too much when they insist they are not like other women. It is an irony that all women say they are not like that, which only gives us another way they behave alike because they all say that! Schopenhauer continues:

Because women in truth exist entirely for the propagation of the race, and their destiny ends here, they live more for the species than for the individual, and in their hearts take the affairs of the species more seriously than those of the individual. This gives to their whole being and character a certain frivolousness, and altogether a certain tendency which is fundamentally different from that of man; and this it is which develops that discord in married life which is so prevalent and almost the normal state.

Women believe they are individuals, even though they behave very much like herd creatures. I always look forward to and enjoy the moment a girl I am banging or dating tells me, “But, I’m not like other girls!” It happens every time. And what do they do in the end? They go on to later prove, that yes, they were just like all those other girls.

Learn the system, learn their tricks, be the cool, aloof, rational observer of their behavior and as a man you will have the advantage. Because 99 times out of 100, the new girl’s bag of tricks is going to be just like the old’ girls bag of tricks. All women ARE like that.

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