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Stop Buying Things for Women


Putting yourself in the subservient role of gift provider weakens you in the subconscious mind of women

Women are consummate materialists, and statistics prove it (beyond the song Material Girl that made Madonna’s entire career 30 years ago). More than half of women in Anglo America would dump the man they “love” if he didn’t deliver a gift on a birthday or for Valentine’s Day. Attention Betas: A stuffed animal or a box of chocolates literally has more value than your presence in the majority of women’s lives. Let that sink in the next time you break your back and your bank account to run like a rat on The Hedonic Treadmill.

Even a female relationship coach calls women out on these warped statistics. Rachel DeAlto threw up a flag on this play, criticizing women for expecting constant gifting no matter what benefits men provide to them.

I think it’s a little irrational. I understand being emotional, and obviously there’s some expectations involved, but talk about it before you make any irrational decision.

Expectations? Sounds like lot like female entitlement mentality to me. I’m worthy of gifts because I have the vagina and you do not! Nothing says “you’re a disposable meal ticket” than irrational ultimatums on useless consumer items that will either be dead in three days (i.e. flowers) or thrown into the garbage or closet. The money must be spent or you don’t love her!

Much like the classic Simpsons episode Trash of the Titans, marketers are constantly pushing for this type of wasteful holiday spending, even for made up holidays. All they have to do it get “x” number of women to participate in or expect gifts because of the holiday, and then social forces drive everyone to conform to the new ideal. Marketers have been using this playbook, pioneered by Edward Bernays for over a century. Trash of the Titans beautifully illustrates the insanity of making people spend billions on “assorted gougeables” and other crap:

Costingtons Manager: Okay, people, we need to cook up a new holiday for the summer. Something with gifts, cards, assorted gougeables.

Costingtons Woman: How about something religious? We had great penetration last spring with Christmas Two.

Costingtons Man: Oh, I know. Spendover, like Passover, less talk, more presents.

Costingtons Manager: No, no, no! No, it’s gotta be warm and fuzzy. Something like, um, “Love Day”, but not so lame.

Marge Simpson: Happy Love Day, everyone!

Think of Valentine’s Day as the real-world equivalent of Love Day. Never mind the fact women already receive 80% of the benefits of the consumer waste machine economy in the United States since they drive 4 out of 5 purchasing decisions, that’s just not enough. Men also pay 70% of all income taxes but the vast majority of government handouts benefit women. Yet paradoxically, Anlgo women claim to be Strong and Independent™ but they would be powerless without a massive government propping them up. Real Sexism presents more shocking statistics that show women spend, on average, 90% more than they earn. Women have it made at male expense but like the consummate gatherer (or hoarder – there’s an entire A&E TV series about it) there’s always something else that makes her eye sparkle. And, there’s never enough.

You must not fall into the trap: Stop buying her things! Or best of all, never start buying her things (even drinks) so there’s no expectation set. Buying women things puts you as a man in a submissive role! She is your master and your are her slave with this type of arrangement. It’s basic economics and psychology.


You’ll never make enough to keep up with her expectations, don’t even try

Spend Less, Earn More Respect

Save yourself the expensive lesson rather than trying to buy love, save and invest your money, and learn how to manipulate women’s emotions rather than letting them into your wallet. Use the money to invest in yourself instead and you’ll attract women like moth to a flame. If you look great with nice clothes, a nice car, trips to exotic locations, and money to burn there will be women orbiting you just as they orbit other high-status men. The trick is, never let them into your wallet. Use your money for you own self-aggrandizement, not theirs.

Importantly, realize women will never return the favor of buying things to you. It’s a one way street. As radio host Tom Leykis says, women are the cheapest creatures on earth, but only when it comes to their own money. Yet, they expect exorbitance from men in their lives.

The funny thing is, the less you spend on women the more respect you will earn from them. (Remember – are you the master or the slave in the relationship?) Spending and respect from women are inversely proportional. Don’t try to make sense out of the matter. Women’s behavior when it comes to gifting makes no logical sense whatsoever because women are not logical creatures, they’re emotional ones. You would think women would be grateful to men who go out of their way to please them – but they’re not. An astute manosphere commenter who calls himself John Doe sums up the play by play:

Women are adult children, read Schopenhauer, when you give everything to a child they become spoiled and uncontrollable. The reason a women loses respect for a man who gives them everything is just like a spoiled child who always gets their way, they feel like they have outsmarted their parents, and someone she can outsmart on a regular basis is deemed as inferior, thus they lose respect for them. In fact this can be applied to relationships with females in general. Married men who give into his wife’s demands trying to keep the peace are eventually deemed as inferior, followed by the wife losing respect for him. There’s no logic in this situation, it’s all about perceived feelings.

So, to summarize, spend your money on yourself and on your real friends, not strangers who you hope to bed, and not in ways that make you subservient or “pussy-whipped” to use a old maxim. Always consider any money you spend on women a loss, because that’s exactly what it will be someday, unless you have found a NAWALT magical unicorn. Gifts and spending will only curry short term favor with women, and in the long run being a “provider” puts you in a subservient role. With women, it’s never what have you done for me it’s always what have you done for me lately? Don’t fall into the trap. Stop buying things for women, and start buying them for yourself.

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NAWALT: Not All Women Are Like That!


NAWALT: Your chances of finding one are about the same as finding a unicorn

NAWALT! Not all women are like that! One must hear or see that tired pretense several times a week, if not more often in discussions with or about women. Sadly, in most cases the opposite is true. All women are like that, to the 99th percentile. It’s as if women think if they repeat the Big Lie often enough, men will believe it. However, the reality is the likelihood of finding a NAWALT is extremely low.

The fact women travel in packs reinforces the fact they are herd followers, and trend following behavior tells us they’re not their own person as much as a product of the culture and environment they’re in. If the most popular girl of a group dyes her hair, it won’t be long before her followers dye theirs. The pack mentality also helps explain why women often follow ridiculous and degenerate pop culture icons, and mimic everything from their behavior to their hair styles.

For an in-depth explanation of this and other female behaviors, we go back a century to a less culturally insane and less politically correct time, when a famous German philosopher was writing down his observations about women. Among many other observations, he noticed women do not use higher reasoning in most day to day decision making, which in modern times is known as The Hamster Effect. Philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer describes a female lack of reason, free from the cancer of political correctness in his time:

Man reaches the maturity of his reasoning and mental faculties scarcely before is twenty eight; woman when she is eighteen; but hers is reason of very narrow limitations. This is why women remain children all their lives, for they always see only what is near at hand, cling to the present, take the appearance of a thing for reality, and prefer trifling matters to the most important.

The female love for trifling matters (i.e. gossip) powers entire industries and provides their quarterly profits. Everything from tabloids to local news drama are designed around the female love of gossip. Observe what women talk about when with other women, especially if their guard is down. Log on to Fakebook and look at what women are sharing and talking about. The topics will be sensational, salacious, or trifling. So, with gossip, All Women Are Like That.

Lack of foresight and accepting pie in the sky claims as reality without questioning them, as women consistently show us by voting for leftist demagogues further proves Schopenhauer’s claim. Indeed, causality is typically reversed in the female mind when relationship decisions are made, and the hamster also blocks foresight of the outcomes of bad decisions like dating bad boys and criminals – which statistically have more offspring and more sexual partners than productive members of society in today’s sexual market. Schopenhauer continues with his expose of this emotional, here and now thinking:

It is by virtue of man’s reasoning powers that he does not live in the present only, like the brute, but observes and ponders over the past and future; and from this spring discretion, care, and that anxiety which we so frequently notice in people. The advantages, as well as the disadvantages, that this entails, make woman, in consequence of her weaker reasoning powers, less of a partaker in them.

In feminized America, realizing all women are like this turns the indoctrination men receive (of the mythical Strong, Independent Woman™) upside down. From childhood, boys learn they are snips, snails, and puppy dog tails and girls are sugar, spice, and everything nice! The view that everything male is bad and everything female is good is accepted as unquestionable truth in a society that does not value men. Men are taught they are evil oppressors and that women are perfect princesses.

This view elevates women above men from a very young age gives women the psychological impression they are superior, a sentiment which is reinforced in the government-run education system and in messaging from media and society. Women are told they can be just like men (except women hold the keys to the Golden Vagina which makes them special), and that each girl is an individual snowflake – different from all the rest. However, by examining more behaviors nearly all women display, the conclusion that All Women Are Like That leaps out.


Good Guys Used and Abused: All Women Are Like That

Good Guys Stepped On

Men quickly learn in today’s dating and mating jungle that being a good guy will get you nowhere with the ladies, especially when women are at their peak fertility, roughly age 18-25. Good guys are the invisible men, just as a man who spends all his money or loses his status or power also becomes invisible.

The majority of women in today’s man-hating culture pat each other on the back with YouGoGrrl-isms and not only jump on the cock carousel, but ride it as long as they can. This begins to change as women realize their looks and their taut, firm azzes and tits are not going to last forever. These assets which they leverage over men start to betray them as they age. Only when the aging process sets in and the hamster starts to realize hers is a one way trip around the sundial, that she will never be as pretty, as young, as firm, as fertile, as desired as once she was, will she start to lower her expectations from oh, a Hollywood A-lister to a Fortune 500 CEO.

The expectations continue to lower as her SMV plummets in her 30s. Then, and only then will she offer her used up vajay-jay to the Beta male who was totally invisible to her only 10 short years ago. Take a look around at women in the West. It is easy to see, once the rose-colored glasses have been removed, this is how the vast majority of women operate in a market that incentivizes rather than punishes sluttery.

Alphas get first dibs, and Beta backups figuratively get sloppy seconds. All Women Are Like That.


Predatory Instincts: All Women Are Like That

Predatory Behavior

Rev. Lawrence Shannon, who was Red Pill before Red Pill was cool, preaches the gospel of truth to men. All women, contrary to what the NAWALT priestesses will have you believe, display predatory behavior. Once again, the trio of money, status, and power come into play. As Shannon tells us:

Any combination of money, romance, and excitement. The scent of these accommodations will have her rising like a cobra in a wicker basket. The provider of such diversions occupies center stage in her life, but his identity is unimportant to her, and it’s a temporary position. Nobody can amuse her forever.

All men who have been dumped can testify to the truth of that statement. But, chin up! Don’t let the fickle female nature phase you. You have been given the right instincts by nature to deal with her fickleness. In the past, a society that wanted to be civilized gave men the power to completely dominate her.

Today, as Pandora’s Box has been thrown open by feminism, men have to realize they need to have one bird in the hand and always keep two in the bush, i.e. side pieces. Instincts to pump and dump women and maintain harems evolved to respond to this harsh reality of the mating market. Unreliable women mean men now have to focus on quantity instead of quality. Beware, though when pumping and dumping. Never let any one woman in the harem get too close.

A man, dealing with a predatory female, is like a man in the water with a shark. The environment (the matriarchal society) belongs to the predator. A man needs luck or special training to survive. Conditions permitting, a shark isn’t satisfied with just one chunk of the victim . . . it keeps coming back for more.

Tight Game will lure her, like a fisherman tossing chum into the water, but practiced aloofness is essential to keep her from getting close enough to take a chunk out of you. Remember, a predator cannot help itself when there is red meat around. The fact this is yet another piece of advice that will work all the time, every time only reinforces the AWALT realities of the world of fallen angels we live in.


Conspicuous Consumption: All Women Are Like That

Obsession with Consumerism

Women love to shop, and they love to eat out. The one consistent characteristic of Anglo America is the fact it is a coast to coast shopping mall. This coast to coast shopping mall and eatery is powered by the female id and its obsession with gathering things. Men are hunters, women are gatherers in our species, and marketing flacks have exploited women’s gathering instincts for over a century using Freudian psychology. Schopenhauer would not be surprised that women currently make up 80% of today’s consumer waste economy, usually referred to as the She-conomy by marketing flacks:

This is why they have greater inclination for extravagance, which sometimes borders on madness. Women in their hearts think that men are intended to earn money so that they may spend it, if possible during their husband’s lifetime, but at any rate after his death.

Indeed, women expect to live the life of a princess at her husband’s expense, and if she can’t find a man to pay for this extravagant lifestyle, in her mind Uncle Sugar should pay for it. A McMansion, luxury sedan or monstrous SUV, exotic vacations to far off destinations, eating out in nice restaurants for every meal, shopping to excess and conspicuous consumption to outdo her lady friends are her objectives.

The obsession with shoes, outfits, makeup, and shiny things is universal, and unless constrained by culture it can become destructive. The vanity and materialism women consistently display are more pieces of evidence which confirm: All Women Are Like That. Do not attempt to satiate her unending desire for stuff in a pathetic bid to be the man in her life, the Hedonic Treadmill makes it impossible. Once your utility has been consumed, you will find yourself bankrupt, alone, or both. All Women Are Like That.


Frivolous: All Women Are Like That


Pack behavior, love of trifling matters and gossip, the invisibility of good guys, predatory behavior, and the obsession with material things all lead to a frivolous female existence. It is nearly impossible to find exceptions to this rule in the mating jungle. Culture is the force which keeps these attributes suppressed in any sane society. However, anyone who has spent time there, and especially dated there knows Anglo America is no longer a sane society.

We have two fundamentally different psychologies when examining the behavior of men and women. Women doth protest too much when they insist they are not like other women. It is an irony that all women say they are not like that, which only gives us another way they behave alike because they all say that! Schopenhauer continues:

Because women in truth exist entirely for the propagation of the race, and their destiny ends here, they live more for the species than for the individual, and in their hearts take the affairs of the species more seriously than those of the individual. This gives to their whole being and character a certain frivolousness, and altogether a certain tendency which is fundamentally different from that of man; and this it is which develops that discord in married life which is so prevalent and almost the normal state.

Women believe they are individuals, even though they behave very much like herd creatures. I always look forward to and enjoy the moment a girl I am banging or dating tells me, “But, I’m not like other girls!” It happens every time. And what do they do in the end? They go on to later prove, that yes, they were just like all those other girls.

Learn the system, learn their tricks, be the cool, aloof, rational observer of their behavior and as a man you will have the advantage. Because 99 times out of 100, the new girl’s bag of tricks is going to be just like the old’ girls bag of tricks. All women ARE like that.

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