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Quitting Relationshits, A Personal Story


Women are fickle by nature, the cost-benefit and risk-benefit analysis does not work out in favor of associating with them in today’s legal climate

The cost-benefit and risk-benefit analysis for relationships no longer works out in Anglo America. Seriously, it doesn’t. As men, we are expected to give up the fruits of our labor and our fortunes for women who could care less about us. Real Sexism ran the calculations and women spend an outrageous 90% more than they earn, and even though men make 62% of all income we only account for 20% of domestic spending – women make up 80% of the consumerism machine. We are minimalists by nature, and women are lavish spenders and wasters. Why turn yourself into a provider module that gets put through the meat grinder to power female consumption and waste when flings will accomplish the same thing that most men want – fulfilling their sexual desires? Especially if you like having a variety of women.

In talking with a man I deeply respect who is the epitome of the “good guy” who is now approaching retirement, the same guy who gave me the timeless “it doesn’t take much for a man to live on” advice, I was disturbed to find he has never had a relationship with a women in which he wasn’t taken advantage of in some way, and/or the woman he was dating hadn’t cheated on him. But, this doesn’t surprise me at all. I must say, I also have never had a relationship that ended well, usually because cracks in game of deception the woman I was dating began appearing as soon as I started paying attention to women’s actions and not their words.

As I approach my fourth decade on this planet, I look back in horror at what a lifetime of dating women yielded. Lots of heartbreak and abuse when I was in my “good guy” Beta years. However, I’m lucky as I’ve been on both sides of the coin. I am also lucky I didn’t get married and get enslaved by the court system paying alimony like many a poor bastard. Many men never get to see what it’s like on the other side – being an Alpha rather than a simping Beta begging for scraps off the sexual table. (I’m really more of a Sigma than an Alpha and have the notch count to prove it.) I find that the less and less I care about what I say and how I act around women the more they love being around me. Some days I believe they are truly hamster-rationalizing sadists to the core.

They’ll tell me, oh, you’re a bad boy when I suggest going to smoke and drink and fuck. But, more often than not, when I’ve zeroed in on a girl who I know is game for a good time they jump on the opportunity. A lifetime of hard knocks with women and emotional pain has sharpened my instincts. Beta “good guy” no more. An asshole they want, an asshole they’ll get.


Women will probe men to see which role to play from their actress archives

Female Psychology

What’s most humorous about studying women’s psychology, after we’ve started talking and established repertoire, or agreed to go have some fun, they try to get inside my head by seeing which actress role to take on. I have literally been in the car with a girl who turned on a dime from the “good girl” act to the “wanton slut” act all because of the way my best friend and I started talking to her. She had zeroed in on me as a good guy at the time (this was nearly a decade ago) because I had a suit and tie job and a nice car and blah blah blah and she saw me as a meal ticket she could consume. The act continued until my best friend, who is in a rock band and I started our usual debaucherous discussion. She then shifted tracks and suddenly I wasn’t interested in this girl anymore when she started talking about all the slutty things she did. Guys, never believe a woman’s act. All women are the same. Trust me on this.

The great philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer knew of this tendency of women to become instant actresses, and to tailor their act to whatever manipulation they have in mind:

It is natural for a feeling of mere indifference to exist between men, but between women it is actual enmity. This is due perhaps to the fact that odium figulinum in the case of men, is limited to their everyday affairs, but with women embraces the whole sex; since they have only one kind of business. Even when they meet in the street, they look at each other like Guelphs and Ghibellines. And it is quite evident when two women first make each other’s acquaintance that they exhibit more constraint and dissimulation than two men placed in similar circumstances. This is why an exchange of compliments between two women is much more ridiculous than between two men.

As Schopenhauer knew, this is why women often don’t like each other because they know how deceptive they are. Star Trek: The Next Generation even did an episode which strongly hints at the true nature of women, when the accidental emergence of a metamorph female caused the male crew to start falling in love with her. She changed herself to bond with whatever male she happened to be around. The entire episode centers around the character Kamala using her feminine wiles to lure men, wiles that adapted and changed every time a new man walked in the room. Dating women is a lot like this episode, oddly enough.

The moral of this story is I really don’t like being an asshole to women, but a lifetime of being kicked around by them and flat out used has taught me to act otherwise. I love walking in a bar here in the Caribbean and suddenly a girl feigns interest in me to get into my wallet with a barrage of free drinks then I just walk off and leave her ass sitting there. The look on their faces is priceless.

So, I have sworn off relationshits, I don’t need deception in my life and anything more than a fling with a woman puts too much at risk in my emotional and financial lives as well as too much at risk time wise. Even the Holy Bible warns men about female nature. I can be much more productive if I just limit my interaction with women to good times and nothing more. I’ve finally accepted it: There are no unicorns. But there’s also no shortage of suckers who want to believe in unicorns. Which side do you want to be on?

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NAWALT: Not All Women Are Like That!


NAWALT: Your chances of finding one are about the same as finding a unicorn

NAWALT! Not all women are like that! One must hear or see that tired pretense several times a week, if not more often in discussions with or about women. Sadly, in most cases the opposite is true. All women are like that, to the 99th percentile. It’s as if women think if they repeat the Big Lie often enough, men will believe it. However, the reality is the likelihood of finding a NAWALT is extremely low.

The fact women travel in packs reinforces the fact they are herd followers, and trend following behavior tells us they’re not their own person as much as a product of the culture and environment they’re in. If the most popular girl of a group dyes her hair, it won’t be long before her followers dye theirs. The pack mentality also helps explain why women often follow ridiculous and degenerate pop culture icons, and mimic everything from their behavior to their hair styles.

For an in-depth explanation of this and other female behaviors, we go back a century to a less culturally insane and less politically correct time, when a famous German philosopher was writing down his observations about women. Among many other observations, he noticed women do not use higher reasoning in most day to day decision making, which in modern times is known as The Hamster Effect. Philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer describes a female lack of reason, free from the cancer of political correctness in his time:

Man reaches the maturity of his reasoning and mental faculties scarcely before is twenty eight; woman when she is eighteen; but hers is reason of very narrow limitations. This is why women remain children all their lives, for they always see only what is near at hand, cling to the present, take the appearance of a thing for reality, and prefer trifling matters to the most important.

The female love for trifling matters (i.e. gossip) powers entire industries and provides their quarterly profits. Everything from tabloids to local news drama are designed around the female love of gossip. Observe what women talk about when with other women, especially if their guard is down. Log on to Fakebook and look at what women are sharing and talking about. The topics will be sensational, salacious, or trifling. So, with gossip, All Women Are Like That.

Lack of foresight and accepting pie in the sky claims as reality without questioning them, as women consistently show us by voting for leftist demagogues further proves Schopenhauer’s claim. Indeed, causality is typically reversed in the female mind when relationship decisions are made, and the hamster also blocks foresight of the outcomes of bad decisions like dating bad boys and criminals – which statistically have more offspring and more sexual partners than productive members of society in today’s sexual market. Schopenhauer continues with his expose of this emotional, here and now thinking:

It is by virtue of man’s reasoning powers that he does not live in the present only, like the brute, but observes and ponders over the past and future; and from this spring discretion, care, and that anxiety which we so frequently notice in people. The advantages, as well as the disadvantages, that this entails, make woman, in consequence of her weaker reasoning powers, less of a partaker in them.

In feminized America, realizing all women are like this turns the indoctrination men receive (of the mythical Strong, Independent Woman™) upside down. From childhood, boys learn they are snips, snails, and puppy dog tails and girls are sugar, spice, and everything nice! The view that everything male is bad and everything female is good is accepted as unquestionable truth in a society that does not value men. Men are taught they are evil oppressors and that women are perfect princesses.

This view elevates women above men from a very young age gives women the psychological impression they are superior, a sentiment which is reinforced in the government-run education system and in messaging from media and society. Women are told they can be just like men (except women hold the keys to the Golden Vagina which makes them special), and that each girl is an individual snowflake – different from all the rest. However, by examining more behaviors nearly all women display, the conclusion that All Women Are Like That leaps out.


Good Guys Used and Abused: All Women Are Like That

Good Guys Stepped On

Men quickly learn in today’s dating and mating jungle that being a good guy will get you nowhere with the ladies, especially when women are at their peak fertility, roughly age 18-25. Good guys are the invisible men, just as a man who spends all his money or loses his status or power also becomes invisible.

The majority of women in today’s man-hating culture pat each other on the back with YouGoGrrl-isms and not only jump on the cock carousel, but ride it as long as they can. This begins to change as women realize their looks and their taut, firm azzes and tits are not going to last forever. These assets which they leverage over men start to betray them as they age. Only when the aging process sets in and the hamster starts to realize hers is a one way trip around the sundial, that she will never be as pretty, as young, as firm, as fertile, as desired as once she was, will she start to lower her expectations from oh, a Hollywood A-lister to a Fortune 500 CEO.

The expectations continue to lower as her SMV plummets in her 30s. Then, and only then will she offer her used up vajay-jay to the Beta male who was totally invisible to her only 10 short years ago. Take a look around at women in the West. It is easy to see, once the rose-colored glasses have been removed, this is how the vast majority of women operate in a market that incentivizes rather than punishes sluttery.

Alphas get first dibs, and Beta backups figuratively get sloppy seconds. All Women Are Like That.


Predatory Instincts: All Women Are Like That

Predatory Behavior

Rev. Lawrence Shannon, who was Red Pill before Red Pill was cool, preaches the gospel of truth to men. All women, contrary to what the NAWALT priestesses will have you believe, display predatory behavior. Once again, the trio of money, status, and power come into play. As Shannon tells us:

Any combination of money, romance, and excitement. The scent of these accommodations will have her rising like a cobra in a wicker basket. The provider of such diversions occupies center stage in her life, but his identity is unimportant to her, and it’s a temporary position. Nobody can amuse her forever.

All men who have been dumped can testify to the truth of that statement. But, chin up! Don’t let the fickle female nature phase you. You have been given the right instincts by nature to deal with her fickleness. In the past, a society that wanted to be civilized gave men the power to completely dominate her.

Today, as Pandora’s Box has been thrown open by feminism, men have to realize they need to have one bird in the hand and always keep two in the bush, i.e. side pieces. Instincts to pump and dump women and maintain harems evolved to respond to this harsh reality of the mating market. Unreliable women mean men now have to focus on quantity instead of quality. Beware, though when pumping and dumping. Never let any one woman in the harem get too close.

A man, dealing with a predatory female, is like a man in the water with a shark. The environment (the matriarchal society) belongs to the predator. A man needs luck or special training to survive. Conditions permitting, a shark isn’t satisfied with just one chunk of the victim . . . it keeps coming back for more.

Tight Game will lure her, like a fisherman tossing chum into the water, but practiced aloofness is essential to keep her from getting close enough to take a chunk out of you. Remember, a predator cannot help itself when there is red meat around. The fact this is yet another piece of advice that will work all the time, every time only reinforces the AWALT realities of the world of fallen angels we live in.


Conspicuous Consumption: All Women Are Like That

Obsession with Consumerism

Women love to shop, and they love to eat out. The one consistent characteristic of Anglo America is the fact it is a coast to coast shopping mall. This coast to coast shopping mall and eatery is powered by the female id and its obsession with gathering things. Men are hunters, women are gatherers in our species, and marketing flacks have exploited women’s gathering instincts for over a century using Freudian psychology. Schopenhauer would not be surprised that women currently make up 80% of today’s consumer waste economy, usually referred to as the She-conomy by marketing flacks:

This is why they have greater inclination for extravagance, which sometimes borders on madness. Women in their hearts think that men are intended to earn money so that they may spend it, if possible during their husband’s lifetime, but at any rate after his death.

Indeed, women expect to live the life of a princess at her husband’s expense, and if she can’t find a man to pay for this extravagant lifestyle, in her mind Uncle Sugar should pay for it. A McMansion, luxury sedan or monstrous SUV, exotic vacations to far off destinations, eating out in nice restaurants for every meal, shopping to excess and conspicuous consumption to outdo her lady friends are her objectives.

The obsession with shoes, outfits, makeup, and shiny things is universal, and unless constrained by culture it can become destructive. The vanity and materialism women consistently display are more pieces of evidence which confirm: All Women Are Like That. Do not attempt to satiate her unending desire for stuff in a pathetic bid to be the man in her life, the Hedonic Treadmill makes it impossible. Once your utility has been consumed, you will find yourself bankrupt, alone, or both. All Women Are Like That.


Frivolous: All Women Are Like That


Pack behavior, love of trifling matters and gossip, the invisibility of good guys, predatory behavior, and the obsession with material things all lead to a frivolous female existence. It is nearly impossible to find exceptions to this rule in the mating jungle. Culture is the force which keeps these attributes suppressed in any sane society. However, anyone who has spent time there, and especially dated there knows Anglo America is no longer a sane society.

We have two fundamentally different psychologies when examining the behavior of men and women. Women doth protest too much when they insist they are not like other women. It is an irony that all women say they are not like that, which only gives us another way they behave alike because they all say that! Schopenhauer continues:

Because women in truth exist entirely for the propagation of the race, and their destiny ends here, they live more for the species than for the individual, and in their hearts take the affairs of the species more seriously than those of the individual. This gives to their whole being and character a certain frivolousness, and altogether a certain tendency which is fundamentally different from that of man; and this it is which develops that discord in married life which is so prevalent and almost the normal state.

Women believe they are individuals, even though they behave very much like herd creatures. I always look forward to and enjoy the moment a girl I am banging or dating tells me, “But, I’m not like other girls!” It happens every time. And what do they do in the end? They go on to later prove, that yes, they were just like all those other girls.

Learn the system, learn their tricks, be the cool, aloof, rational observer of their behavior and as a man you will have the advantage. Because 99 times out of 100, the new girl’s bag of tricks is going to be just like the old’ girls bag of tricks. All women ARE like that.

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