Primitive sexual forces detailed by Freud and unleashed by feminism have released the hounds of hell on Western civilization by ending restrictions on female sexuality. Sexual forces stemming from the limbic or “reptilian” brain inside all of us, no longer constrained by culture are changing the lives of everyone in society, and changing them in de-civiling ways.
This infographic illustrates how hypergamy, or women’s biological desire to date and mate with men of higher status has eliminated large numbers of men from sexual consideration once The Law of the Jungle returned, i.e. patriarchy was abandoned. To become top dog in this skewed sexual market, an undesirable (for civilization) set of traits must be honed by men who do not wish to become genetic dead ends.
Sexual Market Value
The Sexual Market Value (SMV) of women and men is of vital importance to both sexes but the equation breaks down differently for each side. Men’s sexual market value is based on wealth, social status, and power. More than anything else, this determines if a man is going to be In Like Flynn or clicking onto porn to rub one out.
Women’s sexual market value is based on hotness, youth, and fertility. Men want hot women who are young and fertile – those in their prime childbearing years.
There are biological reasons for each of these mating strategies. In the wild, a weak Beta provider will not provide the best genes for survival of the female’s offspring. A male that dominates other men (i.e. an Alpha) shows his genes have what it takes to be a winner. Since reproduction has been the prime directive for all life on the planet since it formed, a pretty, young, fertile woman is appealing to the male because she will give him the highest number of, most attractive, and healthiest offspring. However, while men will often settle for a female of lower SMV than them, for women only the best will do. The reason: eggs cost more than sperm.
Only the Best Will Do
Women want dominant men, and to become dominant in today’s society a man must possess a Dark Triad personality type. Possessing a mean, ruthless personality makes panties wet and allows ascension into the upper quintile (top 20%) of males is a trait that women select for by virtue of the fact women reward men who have it with a sexual cornucopia while leaving other men to wallow in miserable, incel lives.
The problem with this strategy is over time as more and more men turn mean to get women, to stay in the upper quintile men must become meaner and meaner to thwart competition. Thus, Dark Triad men fathering the offspring in the society pass on their traits to the next generation, while nice guys become genetic dead ends by virtue of women choosing men with the following traits:
- Machiavellianism: The employment of cunning and duplicity in general conduct.
- Narcissism: Extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one’s own talents and a craving for admiration as characterizing a personality type.
- Psychopathy: Characterized by low fear and stress-tolerance, toleration of unfamiliarity and danger, high self-confidence and social assertiveness, poor impulse control including problems with planning and foresight, lacking affect and urge control, demand for immediate gratification, and poor behavioral restraints. Other traits include meanness, lacking empathy and close attachments with others, disdain of close attachments, use of cruelty to gain empowerment, exploitative tendencies, defiance of authority, and destructive excitement seeking.
It does not take a rocket scientist to realize when the only men who are reproducing in statistically significant numbers possess these personality traits, over time society is going to become uncivilized and more vicious. (The fact women get hot and bothered over men who have these traits also tells us a good deal about female psychology). Over time, positive male traits that build civilization up rather than exploiting it for personal gain begin to disappear from society. In effect, under patriarchy women settle and civilization benefits. Post patriarchy men settle (or go without) and civilization weakens.
Positive Male Traits
Male traits that are positive for a civilized society flourish only under patriarchy. When men do not have to fight to the death with one another over women who are monopolized by a few top dogs, a wonderful change happens. The society becomes more cooperative, it moves from low trust to high trust, and with men’s sexual desires satiated by the bonds of monogamy that women cannot break for fear of being shamed and excommunicated, the sexes can go on to pursue higher ambitions.
Sex is very important to psychology, especially male psychology. Sex appears at the base of Maslow’s hierarchy along with other physiological needs. Sex alone does not fulfill a man, however. Studies consistently show that sex is more satisfying with a regular partner than it is with many different partners. So, sexual intimacy appears higher up in the pyramid, in the middle, along with other needs for belonging. In a society where most men get no sex at all, basic physiological needs are not being met, and higher needs of belonging are certainly not being met, so men cannot ascend the pyramid properly and do not develop a sense of belonging, self-esteem, or self-realization. This deprivation turns them into efficient consumers but it does not make them happy men,nor is it good for the flowering of culture and civilization.
As an aside, I have personally had sex with many women. However, I find I am happiest and do my best work when I have a single girlfriend who is supportive and gives me regular sexual attention. The importance of this very human need for bonding and belonging is underestimated in our society. A fling with a random sexy girl is exciting and brings momentary happiness; but it is not fulfilling like a regular partner is. A society that seeks fulfillment instead of momentary happiness is better off in the long run.
Patriarchy curbs the influences of the sexual jungle by ending the rump of sexless males at the bottom of the hierarchy. It encourages male participation in society rather than male alienation. It leads to civilization, rather than catering to base instincts in the lower reaches of the human brain.
Under patriarchy, women are forced to settle for someone comparable to their SMV, but the alternative is a system in which a man has to settle for a female of lower status than him. By catering to hypergamous instincts, society leaves out a huge number of men who could contribute to it. Today’s society tells Betas (who build up society) they are not worthy of sex, but make sure to pay your taxes so we can give the revenue to women who have kids with criminals and other miscreants. This is a reason why the MGTOW movement is gaining steam, not because men are childish and refusing to take responsibility but because they are acting rationally to lack of incentives given to them.
Abandoning such a system was a dreadful mistake for Western Civilization. The passing of patriarchy has led women to chasing top men and even the formation of harems around Alphas (such as Leonardo DiCaprio’s well-known harem), promoted the rise of Dark Triad personality traits and bad boys instead of good, responsible men, and prevented both men and women from ascending Maslow’s hierarchy towards self-esteem and self-realization.
The definition of dystopia is a society that is undesirable or frightening. It is indeed undesirable and frightening to think about where these changes will lead us in the coming generations.
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