Looking for Love


Women fake love to get what they want from men

As I sit around my hotel room and reminisce about my notch count which now sits somewhere between 150 and 200 women, and having gone through a dozen or so hotties (and a couple of ugly but fuckables) in the past few weeks I’ve come to realize much of the reason I become a cad was the fact I wanted one, just one woman to love me. I have yet to find that.

Being nice doesn’t help, it makes it worse. In fact, the more of a jerk I am the more women want to stay around until they solve the mystery of what makes me a jerk.

But, knowing what I now know about women I just don’t think it’s possible for them to love men the way we love them. Many if not most are adept at faking emotion, and faking love, but by virtue of having been through so many of them my senses have become keen. I can now see through each and every female facade that used to trick me.

Women can love what a man represents, his social status, finances, and power, but never the man himself because if he loses those things he ceases to exist in a woman’s eyes.

This is precisely what makes the equal pay myth, female “empowerment” and the diminishment of men in Anglo America so evil. Without holding something for women to reach upwards to, men cease to exist in the eyes of women. For they will never reach down to lift us up the way we have done for them since time immemorial. Men built the entire world for women, and our thanks will be repaid with women taking over the levers of control of the world we built and casting men into lives of abject bondage once feminism and its evil stepsister Socialism become the de facto social order.

Women have never loved men. And they never will. They only feign love to get what they want until the Hedonic Treadmill can’t spin any faster. Then, they treat men as the slaves and utility objects they’ve always seen us as.

Only a fool expects love from a woman.

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Bukowski on Women

Bukowski House

Charles Bukowski knew the inconvenient truths now discussed in the manosphere

Known for his gritty realism, Charles Bukowski told the truth about women before telling the truth about them was cool. An excellent illustration of his grasp on the behavior of women came in this famous video clip of an argument he had with a whorish Anglobitch he was dating and then later married. (Unfortunately. My guess is she manipulated him into marriage so she could extract his fortune after his death.)

The Buck had this interchange with the skank in front of cameras interviewing him for Italian television. He was pissed about her staying out whoring around every night, and the simmering tension eventually boiled over. It ends with him kicking her off the couch. It’s a golden moment illustrating the reality of male/female relations in that we get to see both a Realtalk author giving us the play by play of Anglobitch behavior while watching her maneuver to manipulate the argument to her advantage.

It resonates with me because as a former good guy turned ZFG world roaming naughty nomad, I feel Bukoswki is absolutely right with everything he says. The truth comes flowing from Bukowski in the first paragraph out of his mouth:

BUKOWSKI: I’ve always been used because I’m a good guy. Women when they meet me, they say, “I can use this son of a bitch. I can push him around, he’s an easy going guy.” So they do it. But you know finally I get to resent it a bit.

This is exactly how women behave towards nice guys. It rises to a self-evident truth. As soon as he drops a truth bomb in her face, immediately her attempt at manipulation begins:

ANGLOBITCH: What do you resent?

BUKOWSKI: Just being pushed.


BUKOWSKI: Yeah. Just being pushed.

ANGLOBITCH: Why do you let yourself be pushed by this kind of shit, you idiot? Why do you allow yourself to be pushed by this sort of thing?

Notice the dissimulation here. She’s both denying she’s pushing him around (when that’s exactly what she’s doing) and conducting a shit test at the same time.

BUKOWSKI: I’ve told you a thousand times to leave, you won’t leave. I told you I’m going to get an attorney to get you to leave.

Women constantly change the subject to play cat and mouse during arguments. Consider it the equivalent of a squid squirting ink into the water to confuse its prey.

ANGLOBITCH: Now wait, that doesn’t have anything to do with it. Why do you continually allow yourself to be pushed?

BUKOWSKI: Because I’m kind hearted. I give the other person another chance.

Women love manipulating nice guys who have a fat wallet. They’re easy marks for The Predatory Female. But Bukowski was onto her game.


BUKOWSKI: Mmm hmm. I’ve given you dozens of chances, but you keep pushing and pushing. And you keep laughing at me. That’s why I’m gonna tell you, I’m getting an attorney and I’m getting your ass moved out of here. She thinks I don’t have the guts, she thinks I can’t live without her. I can have your ass out of here so bright and so fast with a Jewish attorney, you’re going to feel like your ass is skinned, baby. You think you’re the last women on earth that I can get?

Apparently her behavior, carousing around with different men and staying out until 3 a.m. each morning was something Bukowski was supposed to accept. After all, he was a big Beta Bucks prize after becoming a successful author, but she was still craving her Alpha Fucks. She goes on dissimulating:

ANGLOBITCH: I guess I’ve never thought about it.

BUKOWSKI: Yeah, well, you better start thinking. I’m turning you over to the next.

ANGLOBITCH: The next what?

When women start playing dumb they’re trying to slow down the momentum of the conversation and take control.

BUKOWSKI: The next guy. He can have you. I won’t be the least bit jealous. With your bullshit, all your goddamn staying out every night bullshit. I don’t need the kind of woman you are.

Indeed, women are, to average kind-hearted good guy opportunistic, parasitic infections. They want your resources but nothing else about you. Bukowski knew it, and he wrote in his book Women:

The male, for all his bravado and exploration, is the loyal one, the one who generally feels love. The female is skilled at betrayal and torture and damnation.

I of course, realized this too late in life to be redeemed. The nearly four decades of abuse from literally hundreds of relationships (me ending most of them) has made caring about women that way I used to irredeemable to me.

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Being Too Hard on America


America is decaying, and becoming a shadow of its former greatness

My recent writeup on President Trump’s shithole comments and how America is a shithole received some criticism from one of TNMM’s readers. Judge Shredd writes:

I have a problem with all the things you listed as well and they suck but it’s all taken out of context. Our roads are paved, the electricity, internet, law enforcement, basic services, garbage is picked up, stores are stocked with food, we grow food, hospitals are everywhere, etc etc..we are an advanced first world society with first world problems. There are criminals, lowlives, Anglo cunts etc..you the Matrix sucks but they push that in the Western world but at least you have the opportunity to break out of it or build a business to advance here. Clue: why the fuck are people from almost everywhere else trying to come here?

Dude, I get where you’re coming from but the US is NOT a shithole taken as a whole compared to other countries. You just don’t like they General way of life here.

I understand his concern with what I wrote. But I wouldn’t have written it if I didn’t believe it to be the unvarnished truth. All I can think of when I’m in America is how I can get back out of it again. I distinctly remember saying “I hate this place” at least a couple of times a week during my time trucking as I kept myself motivated to stay financially on track with memories of life outside the matrix.

My views are harsh in part because working in the media then seeing America from coast to coast in a truck presented quite the juxtaposition for me. The candy coated lies I saw broadcast to the world on a daily basis vs. the bitter, workaday wage slavery reality I saw as I drove through countless towns, nearly every major city, and nearly every state in the nation. I realized the entire premise of America is built upon fantasy and deceit. I typed up this thoughtful rebuttal to his comment, and felt it important to share with everyone.

“Our roads are paved, the electricity, internet, law enforcement, basic services, garbage is picked up, stores are stocked with food, we grow food, hospitals are everywhere, etc etc..”

If you travel around you’ll see most of the world has all that, too. The rest of the world is not filled with heathens living in the Stone Age longing to get into America (the media puts that notion in the mass mind) as much as it’s filled with people brainwashed by the idea of America just as many of us were until we found the truth.

Once people actually come to America and see life doesn’t match what they see in Hollywood films and in the American media, many become disillusioned. I’ll never forget the looks on recent immigrants’ faces when they get stuck in shitty jobs at warehouses or processing plants (I meet them all over the nation when I’m trucking) after everything they had to go through to get into the U.S. They expected a land of milk and honey, and what they got was subsistence wage slavery sucking up all the hours of their lives and the same carrot on a stick we’re all told to chase until we die. They’re confused, but a part of them knows they got burned. Reality just hasn’t set in yet.

America is more about marketing than reality. There are 8.7 million Americans living abroad, and the number is growing as more and more people flee the dystopia it is turning into. I’d bet many millions more want to leave but don’t know how, or are cockblocked from leaving by voluminous immigration and customs laws intended to keep people in their respective cages. These numbers are never discussed because they’re not good for business.

The only way we can fix the problems of the nation is to admit they’re there, and not try to wallpaper over them. America was once a great nation, but I feel it’s not so great anymore.

If I’ve created an entire lifestyle out of my motivation to leave America, have become happier as a result, and help lead a growing movement of men who either want to go MGTOW, John Galt, or become expats, shouldn’t that tell us there’s something deeply wrong in The Land of the Fee and Home of the Slave?

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Legacy Media and Liam Neeson Now Say #MeToo Sexual Witch Trials Went Too Far


Liam Neeson joins the chorus in the pushback against #MeToo witch trials

As TNMM has been stridently proclaiming ever since the #MeToo sexual witch trial insanity began, Anglo America is quick to lose all reason when it comes to the topic that terrifies it most culturally – sex and sensuality. And, its baked-in cultural biases against men (being the deeply misandrist culture it is) in favor of women only helped add to the raving lunacy whenever the “he touched my behind” train left the station.

Women started castigating men for supposed sexual advances and favors that often happened decades ago, and almost always without any proof except a woman’s word. We the public were expected to believe women – unquestioningly – throughout the entire event. For Anglo culture subconsciously believes women are perfect goddesses and men are nothing more than heathens and beasts of burden.

The latest batch of Neo-Puritan witch trials has gone so far it’s now provoking a backlash against feminism and the culture that fosters a fear of men, sex and sensuality. Narratives that first appeared here are now making their way into the Overton Window and therefore the mainstream consciousness. Andrew Sullivan, columnist for mainstream legacy New York Magazine put it this way:

The early exposure of Roger Ailes, Bill O’Reilly, and Harvey Weinstein — achieved by meticulous, scrupulous journalists and smart, determined women — quickly extended to more ambiguous and trivial cases.

Indeed, the vast majority of the sexual witch trials we witnessed were ambiguous and trivial as you would expect in a culture that has a history of irrational witch trials based on totally baseless female claims going back some 400 years. (Not to mention a prudish, grasping female attitude toward sex!)

Ailes, O’Reilly, and Weinstein may be assholes – but were the women who made the claims sterling individuals, as pure as the driven snow? Any man who knows female nature well knows how ridiculous it is to make that assumption.

Anglo culture remains blind to the fact that women, too, often use sex to get their way.  Not just men. They know men want it. And if it comes out an aspiring starlet laid down for one of these guys, who automatically comes out looking bad? Why, it’s the man in a culture that thinks women are above sex and sensuality. Who seduced who? Why didn’t she say no? As Dave Chapelle put it:

Sexual abuse is real and evil, but if you’re talking to someone on the phone who appears to be masturbating, you can always, you know, hang up.

Returning to the original story, we find New York Magazine echoing TNMM narratives:

Distinctions among many different types of offenses — from bad behavior at private parties to brutal assault and rape of employees and co-workers — were being instantly lost in the fervor. Punishment was almost always the same — social ostracism and career destruction.

Insert some militant feminism and it isn’t long before you have a clusterfuck on your hands. A wild prairie fire, running out of control with women able to totally destroy men’s lives with just the claim an ass was groped in 1975.

Within a few weeks, the righteous exposure of hideous abuse of power had morphed into a more generalized revolution against the patriarchy.

This kind of mania will always at some point exhaust itself and this kind of zeal will always overstep. In a free society, a pushback was inevitable, and healthy. The extraordinary journalist Masha Gessen led the way, with ruminations on sex panics.

The reality is “extraordinary” journalist Mesha Gessen was predictability plain vanilla as he discussed Anglo sex panics:

Of course, the balance of power favors men so much that it’s more likely that the guilty will get away with it than that the innocent will suffer. Still, we would do well to be aware of the risks to our perception of sex, and to this culture, as it grows ever more divided.

Notice, Gessen still blames men rather than the wanton, manipulative, and often predatory nature of female sexuality. In fact, his entire article reads like controlled opposition to #MeToo.

But Gessen wasn’t alone in questioning the motives of #MeToo. Even veteran actor Liam Neeson has been challenging the Neo-Puritan feminist brigade. The AP writes:

Actor Liam Neeson says the Hollywood sexual harassment scandal has sparked “a bit of a witch hunt.”

Neeson uses precisely the term TNMM used before the term was cool. Continuing from AP:

Asked about the issue on the Irish broadcaster RTE, Neeson said: “There’s some people, famous people, being suddenly accused of touching some girl’s knee or something and suddenly they’re being dropped from their program.”

He referred to U.S. radio presenter and writer Garrison Keillor, who was dropped by Minnesota Public Radio last year over an allegation of “inappropriate behavior.” Neeson said that wasn’t the same as the “other Harvey Weinstein stuff.” Neeson also said he was “on the fence” regarding sexual misconduct allegations against Dustin Hoffman.

Of course, Neeson couched his commentary with some brown nosing to perhaps avoid becoming a target himself.

But the 65-year-old “Taken” star also said in Friday’s Late Late Show that the “#MeToo” movement taking place “across every industry (is) healthy.”

As usual, the pushback against wanton female abuse of power is tepid and muted at best in a society that loves berating and castigating men with normal sexual urges and desires. But, at least these things are being said.

We only wish a complete firebombing of feminist narratives was coming out and getting the big titty headline treatment the #MeToo fiasco did.

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Eye Candy of the Week | January 14, 2018



How sweet it is to have hotties like this at a man’s disposal. Flowing, dark hair and svelte curves accentuate this model’s ample bosom. Enjoy our Eye Candy of the Week for January 14, 2018 as we admire the female form while remembering the truth about women.

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Feminists Continue Expanding the Definition of Rape to Absurdity


Now even thinking of a scantily clad woman you know while rubbing one out is “rape” in the minds of feminists

Feminists are putting the word out that there are two new forms of rape we deplorable men need to be aware of. These stunning new (and totally illogical) definitions of rape have arisen as a result of overvalued pussies and massive female egos in the Western sexual market. Anglobitches think mere possession of their fish taco is the anatomical equivalent of a no limits American Express Centurion card. But, the “golden” pussy enterprise is an economic bubble that’s getting ready to pop as men stop investing in sagging vagina futures.

As men continue to abandon women in droves feminists continue pushing the boundaries of what does and does not constitute rape in a mad attempt at totally controlling male sexuality, which is slipping from their frigid grasp as men don’t want anything to do with crazy.

In any case, here are the two new definitions of rape feminists have spun up, hot off the hamster wheel press and now making their way around social media:

Reverse rape is the refusal to sexually engage with women of the wrong body type and is just as horrific as rape. Say no to the sexual advances of Big Bertha? You’ve just committed reverse rape. To illustrate how insane this is, it’s the equivalent of telling men they have no right to refuse sex with women – which is the very definition of rape. But, it’s the men who are being raped, while manipulative women (their most innate talent is manipulation) twist the definition around 180 degrees to their favor.

Portly feminist Anne Gus even went so far as to say this when she created this new definition of rape: No means no unless you are a man; then you are disempowering me when I want sex.

How’s that for objectification? And a total negation of men’s rights as human beings who don’t want to fuck every warthog that comes along? What happens if you get pregnant, Anne? Ever thought of that in between eating Ho-Hos?

Telepathic rape happens when a man masturbates to a woman he knows in real life without her consent. Attend a pool party full of hot chicks, let the views of their scantily clad asses and tits get you hot while (of course) Anglobitches at the shindig friendzone you, then get caught rubbing one out and you’ve just committed telepathic rape.

Believe it or not, a Utah Omega male did the bidding of a human sloth who commanded him to shoot a neighbor who was telepathically raping her. From the NY Daily News:

A Utah woman ordered her husband to shoot their trailer park neighbor because she said he was “telepathically raping her” and “using crack cocaine to control her mind.”

Meloney Selleneit, 55, allegedly bought a gun for spouse Michael, 53, who then gunned down Tony Pierce, 41, as he worked outside his home.

Pierce survived the October 2011 shooting, being hit in the back and leg, and was taken to a hospital for treatment, according to the Salt Lake Tribune.

Michael Selleneit was found competent to stand trial, and pleaded guilty to attempted manslaughter and use of a firearm by a restricted person.

What can the awakened man make of these new definitions of so-called rape?

Feminists continue marginalizing men in what can only be seen as a colossal societal shit test which weak, effeminate men are failing colossally. The definition of rape is becoming so broad it threatens to debase its original definition. Worse, women lie about rape and sexual harassment so often (20% – 50% or more of rape cases are fake according to numerous crime statistics) it’s becoming dangerous to even be caught in a room alone with a female.

There’s one caveat to this crazy. This is only happening in the Anglosphere. The rest of the world still reserves a modicum of decency and sanity when it comes to its dealings with men.

How long before any male sexual desire is classified as rape?

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On Shitholes


What’s so great about a nation that grooms its citizens to be nothing more than efficient, professional, mindless consumers?

President Trump just sent the vivisecting MSM into hysterics with a supposed – but unproven and unverified comment about not bringing in immigrants from supposed “shitholes” around the world. The Bezos Post went into a tizzy:

President Trump grew frustrated with lawmakers Thursday in the Oval Office when they discussed protecting immigrants from Haiti, El Salvador and African countries as part of a bipartisan immigration deal, according to several people briefed on the meeting.

“Why are we having all these people from shithole countries come here?” Trump said, according to these people, referring to countries mentioned by the lawmakers.

Trump then suggested that the United States should instead bring more people from countries such as Norway, whose prime minister he met with Wednesday. The president, according to a White House official, also suggested he would be open to more immigrants from Asian countries because he felt that they help the United States economically.

It’s nothing we haven’t heard from the MSM before. Race baiting, The Fallacy of the Superior Virtue of the Oppressed, that whitey President is mean, etc.

Whatever your views on Trump’s comments, let’s discuss shitholes. Here’s my view. The U.S. is kind of a shithole to me. And I’ve been to nearly every state and major city in The Land of Make Believe. I spent half my life there before beginning a mission to run away from the never-ending hamster wheel of consumption it foists on its populace.

What does America, Inc. have to offer? Work-obsessed Puritanism, bitter political fighting around the clock, no real culture to speak of other than the culture of critiquing and vivisecting everything to death, race baiting, debt slavery, broken promises like Social Security and the “rewards” of getting an edumacation and a college degree, increasing micromanagement of every detail of daily life by the government and its electronic as well as flesh and blood sentinels, women and men who are increasingly estranged from each other thanks to social engineering, broken families and child support slavery for “dads” who have been reduced to little more than check writers and sperm donors by the $50 billion a year industry known as family courts, imperialist meddling and oppression of the entire planet, and little freedom left except the freedom to consume i.e. to try and buy happiness by shopping and eating out in ersatz, coast to coast shopping malls. Not my idea of paradise.

But by all means, continue with the outdated superiority complex.

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