Where Do You Stand in the Sexual Hierarchy


What are your chances of hitting that? Improve your standing in the sexual hierarchy by learning about how males are subconsciously ranked by females

In nature, hierarchies are everywhere. They have been a part of history since we crawled out of the slime. In a woman’s subconscious hindbrain, she ranks men according to their social and sexual status before deciding if any of them are worthy of a visit to the love cave.

That is why learning about the Social-Sexual Hierarchy is important. Not knowing the hierarchy, then adapting accordingly to the Red Pill realities of the world will leave you in a disadvantaged position in The Mating Game. Neitzsche wrote on the importance of changing one’s opinions when faced with unpleasant facts:

The snake which cannot cast its skin has to die. As well the minds which are prevented from changing their opinions; they cease to be minds.

Adaptation is key in the sexual market. The r-selected modern sexual market and its resultant hierarchy explains why 20% of the men currently monopolize 80% of the attention and affection of women. After social restraints were lifted from women’s sexuality, Betas were abandoned in the same way Jack Dawson was abandoned by Rose, cast off to sink into the cold water after his usefulness had expired keeping her afloat in the film Titanic. Women naturally only want to pursue the very top of the sexual hierarchy when the law of the jungle returns.

In this regard, patriarchy and the nuclear family are the essential building blocks of civilization. But in the modern day free-for-all, not exploiting every advantage will leave you sexless and hopeless in Anglo America. Humans are becoming increasingly feral in this feminized environment. The bottom four-fifths of men are either angry, involuntarily celibate, or checking out of a system that treats them as little more than worker bees and subjects to extract taxes from. This is a shame, because it takes very little to make most men happy.

Where do you currently fall in the hierarchy? This infographic introduces the concept of the Social and Sexual Hierarchy.


Listed in order of sexual success with women

The Five Male Archetypes

Roughly, 20% of men are Alphas, Sigmas and top tier Betas, while the bottom 80% are other Betas, Gammas, and Omegas. We see the 80/20 rule time and time again in nature and the world, in business it is known as the Pareto Principle, and it applies to the Social-Sexual Hierarchy, too. Let’s elaborate a little more on the hierarchy.


Alphas cannot walk outside without falling into puss. The Alpha is the center of male and female attention. Women are uncontrollably drawn to the Alpha primarily because of his social status. Women would rather be part of the harem of an Alpha than the one and only of a Johnny 9-to-5 Beta or lower male in the hierarchy. Women justify the selfish and often horrible decisions they make when in the company of Alphas with their built-in Rationalization Hamster. Estimates vary widely, but the Alpha has at least 30-40, if not hundreds of sexual partners over his lifetime.


The introverted version of the Alpha. Sigmas are also very successful with women even though the idea of being the center of attention repulses them. They are Lone Wolfs and bad boys who do not play along with the usual, ridiculous social games. Estimates vary, but the Sigma has at least 30-40 sexual partners over his lifetime, but Greater Sigma notch counts can easily reach over 100 as well.


Betas tend to fumble when it comes to dealing with women. They are underappreciated and make up the majority hardworking and honest men in society. Betas do all the important work of the society but are not valued by their government or women. Betas are the source of most of the tax money used to power Uncle Sugar’s gynocentric welfare state. They can be attractive and charming, sometimes not. But as we all know social or financial status, not physical attractiveness, is everything to the female. Betas are usually kept around by women for their resources, which is why their power is diminishing in today’s sexual market. Often, a woman will have a Beta so she can spend his money while fucking an Alpha or Sigma on the side. Betas are also used and abused as well as enslaved by the family court system in America. When dating, Betas often have long dry spells in which they get no sexual action. Over their lifetime, a rough estimate is they will end up with 5-15 sexual partners.


Gammas either have no idea how vicious the sexual market is, or they become embittered by it. Gammas are either emotionally needy or do not know how to stand up to women. They can be infested with a severe case of pedestalization syndrome. Rather than adapting to harsh realities, they blame the Game for their unhappiness instead of becoming a player in it. Gammas get lucky with maybe a handful of women in their lives. Women would rather end up as the Cat Lady than marry or pursue a Long Term Relationship with a Gamma.


Omega males tend to be very awkward with women. They have little to no social status, so they are completely invisible to women. Their powerlessness in the sexual market often leads to psychological problems and indeed many of the recent mass shootings can be tied to men who were of this lowest status, as well as the medical establishment’s attempts to profit off their misery by drugging them. Needless to say, Rosy Palm and porn are their best friends. Women are repulsed by the Omega. Lifetime notch counts are in the single digits, if that.


Just because you are a Beta now doesn’t mean you have to stay one

Upward Mobility

Just because a man is born one type does not mean he has to stay that type. Improvement begins with I. Learning the Laws of Game and Laws of Hypergamy will help enormously. Realize women do not love men the way men love women. Even an Omega can adapt his mind to exploit the biology and psychology of women and become more successful in plundering poon. Likewise, a Beta can stop being a walking wallet when he learns either how to play the Game or to let women’s hypergamous instincts work for him.

These concepts are not for everyone. If you haven’t already, make the decision as to whether you want to take the Red Pill or the Blue Pill. The New Modern Man and the rest of the manosphere is written by and for those who swallow the jagged little pill of reality.

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  • Thankfully, I’ve reached an age where I find a good dump more satisfying than sex! Thank goodness I’m no longer a slave to the furry taco…


  • im female and sigmas are the best


  • Sorry, if you are a beta, you remain a beta throughout your life.


  • It’s notch count but how women you have Alpha Widowed. LTG and STG are two completely different items.


  • The very traits that conferred adaptive strength on the EEA (Environment of Evolutionary Adaptiveness) have now become the evolutionary Nemesis of the species. Alphas and Sigmas are the problem – and the only solution to this problem is a ’final one’.


  • I’m omega and I hate it, but have come to accept it. I know about hypergamy and consider myself red pill aware. I read Rollo Tomassi, Bernard Chapin and others and I can take on board their observations about the reality of female nature and the sexual market place without too much trouble. Women quite often come onto me as I’m not bad looking, but as soon as they sense my awkwardness they’re gone. At 52 years old I’m resigned to who I am and would like nothing more than to be left alone. I now consider myself MGTOW through necessity more than anything, but the need to earn a living repeatedly throws me back into this predicament with women and I am gradually being driven insane. It’s easy to start hating people, particularly women, after enough of this kind of experience. Aipha males delenda set ! They’re all frauds behind all the posturing.


  • Sometimes a man can learn redpill but still be unable to remove blue pill poison sufficiently enough to appear normal in social situations. I’m 48, started redpill 3 years ago. Once redpill showed harsh truth, i realized the extent of bluepill cancer. Redpill helps me to understand society better, but stubborn are the blue pill stains us reformed nice guys have on our faces.


  • Thank you, I have recently been searching for information approximately this topic for ages and yours is the best I
    have discovered till now. But, what about the bottom line?
    Are you sure concerning the supply?


  • In the feminist gynocentric future will Omega’s be given 2 options (housebitch or Auschwitz?)


  • RF, would you say that we are who we are…meaning if you’re a Beta, you’re a Beta…you may wish to be an Alpha but try as you may..you are a Beta?


    • Under the Hot lady’s picture, he answers your question if you are born a Beta you can change
      advice: steroids
      that was a joke.


      • Totally agree… after re-reading this article again, any man can improve and it begins with this site and this article.
        Every guy should first read this article to identify which one he is and then proceed from there.

        Rel, what’s the notch count for Gammas and Omegas?


  • seriously though

    So an alpha, (which lets be honest we all strive to be) can have upwards of 100 partners.
    What if one gets pregnant, what if like 5 get pregnant, I mean if I by some miracle do that harem thing then I’ll be having a few around the same time right?
    Five kids by five different mothers. Can’t marry them all, what if all the kids plan to go to college? We hoping some beta pops along to raise and financially support our kids?
    Condoms have a success rate of 95%, apart from that we’re reliant on the woman/women. If we’re alphas aren’t they gonna be trying to get pregnant to tie us down?
    I’m not supporting abortion here I’m just saying, assuming the women aren’t reliable at all and we’re the final line of defense against accidental pregnancies. Unless we get vasectomies, which I have no intention of doing. Even having sex with one woman means we’re vulnerable , never mind multiple women. Once she’s pregnant, she’s pregnant, her body her rules, I have little to no say. If I can’t trust her, why would I risk her being the mother of my children.
    Sleeping around does not seem to be in anyone’s interests.
    If I accidentally knock her up, I could marry her, to have a say in my kids life and make sure it’s raised right. She could still cheat, leave and with the courts as they are, she could still take my kid with her to the other wealthier/more attractive alpha.

    Yeah there are men who intimidate their partners and tell them “You wouldn’t survive without me” “You need me, I don’t need you” but they aren’t alphas. They’re afraid of being left and have to make a woman afraid as a means to keep her, that’s weakness.

    I don’t want the kind of weak minded, dependent woman that that would work on. I want a woman that knows she doesn’t NEED me but WANTS me.

    I don’t want her to feel forced into submission. She should want to be there actively out of her own will because of who I am as a person, not because she’s a weak sniveling incapable mess. If my partner has shit for brains what does that say about me?

    I know there are no guarantees, but there must be decent women out there who aren’t total imbeciles and see past all the bullshit, who are trustworthy and will carry their weight. A woman capable of walking beside me, not behind me.

    Otherwise what’s the point?


  • Do you know of any good books on how to adopt sigma male qualities? There are tons of books for people looking to become alpha’s but few resources for people that like being introverted but still want success with women.


    • Randall, There is a very simple way to determine whether or not you can be a Sigma. Do you care about what people think of you when you give your opinion on anything? Alphas want to be worshipped, Sigma’s don’t care about other peoples opinions.
      As a Sigma, I can tell you that I think most of the Alphas I know are clowns. I disagree with the sexual partner crap because a true Sigma turns away far more females than he sleeps with. An Alpha might keep a belt full of notches while a Sigma might not even wear a belt. A true Sigma will never bring attention to himself, we don’t need to.


    • Yeah, be naturally attractive and financially secure as the article mentioned.
      Sigmas are the intravorted equivalent of the Alpha in terms of looks and resources but has little interest in fame.
      If your good looking 7 or higher on the 10 scale and successful, but would hate the attention that fame brings your a sigma.
      I agree with this article however the author fails to mention
      the part genetics ( especially attractiveness.) plays in placing men in Alpha-Omega hierarchy.


  • It is refreshing to read such a perfect representation. I can tell you, with 100% accuracy, that the definition of Sigma is correct. So much so that I have had “Lone Wolf” tattooed on my knuckles without every hearing about this. I have been introverted since after school, and battled social anxiety which I have under control. I still cannot perform “day cold approaches”. At 38, I have slept with upwards of 150 women, some within the recent years the ages from 18-26, and all at least 6’s. 8’s and 9’s are a treat, and I have pulled at least 5 exotic dancers. I enjoy social settings, but it takes time to warm up and alcohol makes it easier. My looks have been likened to Adam Levine or Dan Bilzerian, which are not bad things. I make great money, without having to work as I built a company that is run by others now.

    Regardless with my notch count, and the experience with women, and my coming of age, I STILL have problems with some confidence, or even as to where I fit in, or a ZFG attitude. After the player lifestyle a few years ago, I did not find it satisfying, and even had 2 girls in my harem who did not know each other come over and have a 3 some. I have 10 hours of edited footage to prove it and my dog as a witness, lol. I have studied game extensively and it has shoved the red pill down my throat where it needed to be. But still, I encounter this nagging thoughts of rejection or that I am not good enough, or that the women simply get bothered to much and I should be respectful.

    I took the time to lay all this out, in hope of getting some guidance for myself and other Sigma’s like me. What would you suggest to the dudes like us?

    Thank you for your blog- I found it through ROK. And thank you for any insight from either you or other readers. I will be forwarding The New Modern Man within my circles.




    • Relampago Furioso

      Thanks for the kind words. To me, sounds like you’re a success doing what you are already doing. The biggest thing for me as far as guilt for not being respectful was studying women’s behavior closely, and that eliminated any guilt I had for using Game techniques. Women look out for their priorities while men often do not. Now I feel no guilt for kicking a girl to the curb, women do it to men all the time, often good men, because they “feel” a certain way. Men have this innate chivalrous code built into them, and while in normal times that’s a good thing, these aren’t normal times. That behavior will get you taken advantage of every time. Women supposedly want to be treated like men, so I started treating them like any other asshole. Strangely, they respond to this behavior in such a way it demonstrates they respect me, rather than when I acted like a doormat and got walked on.

      Even though it’s hard for me to do, and I don’t like it, I draw on my lifetime of mistreatment and betrayal by women, and the mistreatment and betrayal I’ve seen them give to many other men to guide my behavior with them today. We are not dealing with princesses, we are dealing with predators is the way I look at it. Beautiful to look at, but solipsistic, materialistic and disloyal.

      I identify as a Sigma and have a similar notch count. My life became infinitely better when I adopted female self-centeredness and stopped giving a fuck. As Al Pacino says in Devil’s Advocate, guilt is like a bag of fucking bricks, stop carrying it around and just set it down. Hate to say that, but that’s the world we live in post-feminism.


    • Keith Your not a Sigma, If your were you wouldn’t care about how others feel about your Social Anxiety or mention your successes in life or women as this is group seeking approval a behavior no true Sigma would demonstrate.
      Also if you only wanted sex you wouldn’t care much about a women’s attractiveness as this is another social proof something most Sigmas care little about.

      Sigmas being introverts are energized while alone and become emotionally drained around others the extrovert is the opposite.

      I doubt anyone is 100% extrovert or introverted more a mix of the 2. Myself probably around 80% introverted/ 20% extroverted.


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