The 10 Laws of Hypergamy


The 10 Laws of Hypergamy will help protect you from the risks of dealing with women

As pointed out in The 10 Laws of The Mating Game, there are two major options once one takes the Red Pill and learns the truth of the heartless business of natural selection, in which nature saves those heredities that work and rejects those that don’t.

In addition to Game which is regularly discussed across the manosphere, there is another option for men to use when dealing with women since all women have hypergamous instincts. What is hypergamy?

Hypergamy is a term used in social science for the act or practice of [women] marrying someone who is wealthier or of higher caste or social status.

Since Cultural Marxism has all but destroyed this option for men in Anglo America, the best option for the man who wishes to make hypergamy work in his favor is to expatriate from a declining society and go somewhere he has higher social status. There are many appealing options once a man begins traveling the world regularly, and it should not be hard to find a place that agrees with you.

You must then extricate yourself from debt slavery in America and either build a passive income or invest 50% or more of your income over a period of at least 5 to 10 years then live off that while abroad. There are also work opportunities abroad if one wants to go through all the paperwork.

In any case, for the man who wishes to make hypergamy work for him, here are 10 Laws of Hypergamy.


Your success in using hypergamy to your benefit depends on learning hard truths about women

The Laws

10. Even though it will seem like the women you meet abroad are interested in you as a man, always remember they are just like any other women you meet. They are interested in your social status, the power you have, or resources you bring to the table. As Schopenhauer said, dissimulation comes naturally to the female sex so beware. Never trust what a woman says, watch what she does.

9. You must not take the woman you meet abroad out of her native culture. As soon as she is exposed to the hemlock that is misandry and Cultural Marxism in America everything you love about her will die. She will adapt to America’s toxic culture, and your entire purpose will have been defeated. She must remain in the patriarchal culture she grew up in, and you must stay with her.

8. Remember that women often monkey branch. She may be interested in you initially because you represent an opportunity for her to raise her social or financial status. But, if she meets friends of yours who have higher status she will often “monkey branch” and swing across and become property of the other man.

7. Long distance relationships are strongly discouraged. Women are experts at deception. Often, women will have a man who provides them with resources while having another that provides them with sexual satisfaction. (Here in the Caribbean, this Beta Bucks provider often is a gringo and the lady will have a “Papi Chulo” on the side fucking her when the gringo is not around.) Remember, women are not loyal especially when unattended.

6. Beware the Green Card seeker. While this is not as big of a risk as some make it out to be, there are women who will play along until you take her home with you to your country. Once she finds out you are staying in her country for the long haul, you will be disposed of.

5. Pros are not recommended. There are generally two types of women in more libertine cultures: whores and the best girl you will ever find with no in the middle. Once you arrive as an expat, pros can be fun to “shore” (Game and have short-term flings with without paying) but they do not make good partners.

4. Play the field. You will likely have more options than you have ever had in your life by virtue of your social status especially if you are from America or Western Europe. Do not settle for the first piece of ass that comes along.

3. Adapt to the culture you are in. Rather than bringing the nihilism, anti-religiousness and materialism of Anglo America with you, adapt to the culture you are in. Abroad, the good girls often still attend church (this is a good thing) and often are very family-oriented. They also know how to do and even enjoy traditional feminine activities like cooking and cleaning. Do not stop them from doing this.

2.  Maintain frame and Game at all times. Do not become soft and Beta just because a woman has submitted to you. If you want to keep her, you still must maintain an aloof attitude.

1. Remember you are the prize and keep your self interest paramount at all times. This one is difficult for most men, but your have to put your interest over hers. Failure to do this will get you burned every time. Never, ever expect loyalty from a woman.


Utilizing hypergamy arguably makes society more civilized than Pick Up Artistry

What to Expect When Using Hypergamy

Hypergamy usually feels more natural to the average man since it is natural for women to submit to men. You will have higher social and financial status among the 95% of the world’s population that lives outside Anglo America than you do inside its borders. Using hypergamy arguably makes for a more civilized society since Pick Up Artistry or Game is a male adaptation to a sexual market that is becoming more feral by the year.

As far as options of countries to expatriate to, take your pick. If you like white women Eastern Europe is your best option. If you like brown women Latin America is your best option. If you like Asians, Southeast Asia is your best option. And if you like black women, Africa or some parts of Latin America are options.

By learning to utilize hypergamy, which is a natural instinct women have, you do not have to accept the subjugation and threat of legalized slavery Anglo America is forcing upon you. In fact, it is strongly recommended you withrdraw your support from a society that treats men like third-class citizens and increasingly targets them. Only in Anglo America (and Western Europe) has the sexual market been so horribly altered over the past 50 years on purpose by Cultural Marxism.

Learning the language of the nation which you wish to expatriate to is a necessity. In many nations, English is a de facto second language so you may not have to learn as much foreign language if you select a nation where this is the case.

Remember, women’s hypergamous instincts are not going away and you did not create hypergamy, all you can do is take advantage of it. Hypergamy can bring you opportunities with women you never expected to have but you have to leave Western culture to take advantage, and be cautious and calculating as you do.

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  • Some good tips here. I am from feminist leftist Germany and I have seen white guys here in South East Asia who are so Beta and needy, they cant even score here, or if they do, they get married right away and take the girl back home.


  • You forgot to mention Australia. This place is a feminazi hell hole! I checked out on it a while ago and have never been happier. Women abroad are so different to the degenerate pieces of garbage here that it’s like a completely different species.


  • “You must not take the woman you meet abroad out of her native culture. As soon as she is exposed to the hemlock that is misandry and Cultural Marxism in America everything you love about her will die.”
    Wait, are you saying it’s the actual experience of yours or a speculation of possible outcome? Did the beautifully sweet Cambodian girl from the comic Be Like Dirk turn into a hateful monster when taken to USA? Please enlighten me about your real life experience in this field. I say it respectfully, eager to learn from your experience. Cheers!


  • worth noting girls that are into foreign or western men are going to be more americanized then their fellow country women. Tradional women pick local men and look down on western men and their values, so keep that in mind that we are getting american-lite or american 2.0 girls.


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