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How To Have Women On Your Own Terms

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Redheads are fiery in bed, so why not have one on your terms

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.


When I first started learning about this thing called “Game”, it was all about getting the lay.  The all important f-close is the reason most men undertake the the arts of seduction.

Since we live in a culture which is hostile to male heterosexuality, most grow up with a drug induced haze of images from faggot made movies like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and other assorted dog shit which indoctrinates a young boy’s mind into a form of psychological slavery.  This form of bondage is collectively known as white knighting or male thirst.

Growing into young adulthood I seemed to have this idea that a girl who loved me dearly, fanatically devoted to my every need was the end all-be all of life’s journey.  As a young brainwashed fucktard I romanticized endlessly about how that scenario would play out or just how amazing I would feel with my very own pretty pretty princess.  This only served to raise that pedestal up even higher in my mind, putting women in the clouds while I gazed up worshipful from the unclean floor where all sinful males have to be.

Just a pathetic, unworthy chump who somehow deserves a miracle because I’m such a good guy at heart.  I would see girls at school with other guys and think, “He doesn’t deserve her.  I could treat her so much better”.

At some point I’m not sure when, this idea took over my entire thought process.  Converting to Christianity at age 21 after being a manic depressive for years was the nail in the coffin for me.  Now my beta bitch boy mentality received a monster steroid dose of delusion.  Attending churches and hearing all the spineless pastors praise women constantly was a lethal injection of poison into my highly contaminated mind and spirit.  What modern culture did to me was only exacerbated tenfold by embracing Christianity and the weak males who proliferate it’s fagged out congregations.

It was a constant struggle to wrest my mind and spirit from Medusa’s gaze.  The whole time I sensed this internal battle going on within me.  I couldn’t quite articulate it then but the struggle was between sincere belief in the paper thin facade of lies and the primal instinct in my gut screaming DANGER DANGER!

Enough is Enough

After 6 long years of spiritual slavery and cognitive dissonance I’d had enough.  I finally grabbed my nuts and said a big fuck you to the church and every fag within it.  I finally stopped believing in the lies which only caused me to bash my head against a wall constantly while every weak bitch around insisted I was on the oh so righteous path.  These “godly” men would always say things like “God has a special plan for you and He has the right woman already picked out and just around the corner” as the church tried to pawn off single mothers and used up whores as some kind of “blessing” to its lovesick, piss weak males.

I had all this pent up frustration for so long and I was so angry that I went in the complete opposite direction.  I became the biggest shitlord I could possibly imagine in a very short period of time.

So what does this have to do with having women on your own terms you ask?

Well the answer is very simple.  To have women on your own terms you simply must not care about them anymore. You must lay to rest in a shallow and forgotten grave the entire notion of romantic love. Now I know this is easier said than done but there is a plan of action to achieve these results but only if you are willing to go all the way and not hold back one bit.

Are you truly ready for that?

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You, too can tap dat ass with this sage advice

Find Your Nuts Again

In order to regain control of your mind, your life and become the tantalizing delight of the female hindbrain one must completely abandon all pretensions of care towards women and act in 100% complete and total selfishness.

“But Jack, I’m just not that kind of person.”

Well if a female’s petty love is something you truly want you had better change yourself and do it goddamn quick.  One of the best ways to become a master of pussy is having the inner power to turn down a piece of ass even when you have no other options.

“WTF Jack! Isn’t the purpose of learning game to get laid?”

While that may be the impetus which spurred you down this path, the destination is much much greater.  Now a lot of playa playa’s and guys in the manosphere might disagree with me here but the purpose of learning game isn’t just to get pussy.

The purpose of game and self improvement is to become a SUPERIOR man.  One whose thoughts, words and deeds are in a frightening, mystical alignment.

Pussy is simply a side effect of becoming a superior man.  When you the reach the point of total ZFG, women will find you irresistibly arousing.  Having been on the wrong side of those tracks for so long you will feel like you now have magical powers and your relationships with women will seem like one big hilarious joke which you entertain yourself with.  If you are like me you will maniacally laugh inside every time you see some retard female’s eyes light up with attraction when you are an arrogant, uncaring prick.

That is the point when your life will become something you live just for you.  Whether that be for your own entertainment or something more, all that matters is that your life and your destiny are now in your hands alone.

Violently Destroy Your Barriers

If you have never turned pussy away you should force yourself to do it on a regular basis until you don’t give a fuck.

Shortly after I made my exodus from fagged out Cucktianity I ran through sluts like a freight train and I got addicted to the momentum and the action.  For me getting the f-close was cool and all but the hilarious shit I said and did to get me there was the juice I began to crave.  Every time I did some crazy asshole shit I would tell myself

“Alright Jack, this time you gotta one up yourself.”

From making out with girls in front of their boyfriends, choking girls within 20 secs of meeting them and grabbing sluts out of groups of chodes to take them to the dance floor make out and finger them while the chumps stood by completely bewildered.  I was on a fucking rampage.

I remember this one blond I fucked and she must have thought that I really liked her or something because I enjoyed the sex.  She told a friend of mine that I was in love with her.  So the next time she called I made it a point to plan a meetup in which I stood her up.  After a bunch of missed calls and texts I finally simply told her, “Guess what babe?  No dick for you!”

Even though I didn’t have any other options for pussy that night I felt like a fucking boss telling some whore to get fucked (by someone else).  If you’ve never done this before, the mental and spiritual power it will give you cannot be understated.

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Make women obey your commands rather than vice versa

Feed The Fire

When you get momentum like this it is essential to go harder and harder pushing yourself into the stratosphere.

**DISCLAIMER**

Not for the faint of heart! 

This is the path to forge a man out of steel.  Ironically my entire attitude and ZFG mentality ended up attracting a girl 10yrs younger than me who ticked off a majority of all indicators to be girlfriend material.  She quickly fell madly in love with me and honestly it was fucking funny to watch.

All this time I had been led to believe what I now had was the absolute pinnacle of a male’s existence.  I remember thinking after a lengthy period with this girl, “Fuck. This is it? Goddamn. I was happier single!”

Serious relationships in my experience just bring a man down, kill his ZFG attitude and obliterate his freedom.  The path of a superior man is one of climbing ever upward.  The only caveat is this.

When you ascend to the heights no one else dares go, you might find yourself all alone.  This is not a bad thing however.

Just takes some serious introspection and honesty with oneself to assess whether or not you have the fucking cajones to handle it.

This is Jack Ronin signing off.

P.S. Do your part and punch a white knight in the face!

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Plundering Poon in the 20-25 Age Range as the Awakened Man Pushes 40+

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Why settle for bologna when you can have filet mignon?

Here’s a modest proposal for the man who has mastered Game and who wants to toss up a middle finger to women’s increasingly ridiculous demands of men in the 21st century. Stop dating women over age 35 even as you pass this milestone. The multitude of reasons why men of all ages should do this were elucidated in another TNMM article earlier this year about Female Expiration Dates.

But, important points bear repeating. Especially in a nation in which even top dog Alpha males are regularly frivorce raped. Personally, I take it a step further and won’t date women over age 30, and except in unusual circumstances only date women aged 20 to 25 even though I am pushing 40.

Call it revenge as the sexual tables have turned for men and women in my age group, i.e. women in my age group have only lost sex appeal while I have gained it, or call it a man who realized the truth of the “Men Age Like Wine and Women Age Like Milk” maxim and prefers nubile flesh and facial features over saggy and worn out ones.

What man wants a bologna sandwich when he can have the choicest cuts of pussy meat?

Oh, and before the flood of hate mail starts from dried up feminists, let’s reference a Jezebel article in which women are encouraged to adopt the same dating strategy.

While the “cougar” (the older woman who pursues significantly younger men) is at least partly an overhyped media creation, there’s some evidence that for one age group in particular, this is a real emerging trend. More than a few women in their late 20s to mid 30s who generally dated older men are now switching to going out with younger guys. While the stereotypical cougar is a woman in her 40s with a boyfriend little more than half her age, these women are still in their 30s going out with guys just a few short years younger than themselves.

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What’s good for the goose is good for the gander, ladies. The only difference is the younger men you date are likely incels who are out for an easy lay and the USDA-approved, prime filet mignon seasoned men pull gravitate to us because biology has made it this way.

Isn’t it odd that women in their prime gravitate to older men. I have no trouble tapping 20 to 25 year old tail, as women once again prove they care more about dominance (i.e. a male who has survived the shit tests of life and prospered) more than they do anything else. It’s all about exploiting that male utility value, isn’t it femcunts?

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Only the best will do for the discriminating gentleman

Choicest Cuts of Meat

So, you men who are struggling with women in your teens and 20s – hang on. If you develop yourself professionally and personally without a wit to what women say you should be doing (getting married, becoming a White Knight or other sort of Bitch Boy, etc.) you are in for a cornucopia of ass as a physically fit, successful asshole in your 30s.

This is double and triple true if you buy a plane ticket off the Anglobitch’s plantation and travel to virtually any other destination on earth, where you will more often than not be treated as a sort of demigod rather than a meal ticket to be used up and discarded.

In fact, if you go full Red Pill, and become a Machiavellian manipulator of women sensual delights most men dare not dream of will be laid out before you, even in America for those most cunning of poon hunters. As your fortunes are rising, female fortunes in your age group will be declining. It is the most delicious irony, and proof there is some modicum of justice as that Great Wheel in the Sky keeps on turning.

What does a women have to offer me after she passes age 35 other than the biological equivalent of the Spruce Goose? Even Blanche Devereaux knew that women lose their appeal to men after a certain age. As she said, men may visit, and play with her controls, but her anatomy will never really “fly” again.

Their looks have fully depreciated by this age, and today’s YouGoGrrl “empowered” corporate drone fembots  have run up the equivalent of 500,000 miles on their vaginas if they had odometers. Would you pay top dollar for a worn out car? Of course not. So why would you pick up the pieces of a post-carousel cock rider and do anything she wants you to do?

The only reason women more easily relinquish their sexuality and commitments to men at this age is because they’ve run out of pussy power. They know they’re depreciating assets and their sell by date is fast approaching or has already passed.

Men need to relegate women past the age of 35 to lives lived out as cat mommies and let them continue to be the corporate drones they so wanted to be until the company pumps and dumps them financially like so many men before did physically.

Vengeance is sweet even in the time when men must choose to be poolside or saddle up with the coming infantry to defend the declining fortunes of the West. This author sees nothing worth defending since feminism and liberalism destroyed the foundations of this culture, so I’ll see you poolside gents with a Latina on one arm and a black girl on the other.

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Don’t Date Single Moms – Stopping the Gravy Train

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Disposable Dads: A whopping 72% of children born to black mothers are born out of wedlock

The Disposable Male has turned into the Disposable Dad in a demographically and culturally failing Anglo culture. Men are now seen by women and the legal system as nothing but sperm donors and check writers if one considers the statistics rather than emotionally driven propaganda about how women are always the victim.

One of the main causes of this malaise, rent-seeking maternal behavior, must come to an end. Women have increasingly taken a ride on the Uncle Sugar gravy train since the welfare state kicked into high gear in the 1960s in America. They abandoned “good guys” for “bad boys” until we reached the modern day dystopia. That’s speaking of the ones that bothered to reproduce at all…a demographic dearth is leading to the semi-peaceful conquest of the United States in the early 21st century by immigrants and so-called refugees.

No, it’s not time for good guys to “man up” and strap on the burden brought on by hamster-driven feels and irresponsible female behavior.

The only way to stop single mommery and its attendant ills – fatherless children, an increasingly lawless and irresponsible society, and the feminization of men is to adopt an age old cultural practice once again. Single moms must be shunned and no excuses accepted for women breaking up their families. They can make for fun pump and dumps, but that’s where it ends.

In addition to the broader generalities outlined above, here are some specific although less profound reasons not to date single mommies.

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White moms are catching up as 1/3 of white children are now born out of wedlock

The List

You will never be her top priority. In fact, you’ll more than likely be dead last on her priorities list.  Expect her never to be available for you, and when she is most of the time her kid or kids will be bouncing around. Headed to the bedroom for some naughty times? She’ll more than likely have a kid barging in, knocking on the door, or making noise. Why put up with this if it’s not your kid?

Expect her to expect you to start paying for another man’s spawn, even if she collects child support from him. She will initially deny (as all women do) she’s after your money, but sooner or later she will “have something come up” i.e. female code for she spent too much money shopping for a new weave or on Starbucks and other recreational eating activities and now she “needs your help” to buy something for junior or princess. Being the good guy who has a heart and helps out only opens you up to financial abuse.

The Baby Daddy is always lurking in the shadows. A man who dates a single mother isn’t just dealing with the mom, he’s dealing with her kids and now her man. If she isn’t banging him secretly on the side, he’s always going to be trash talking you when you’re not around. Worse, he may even sabotage you for “taking his girl” away from him.

In many cases, your girl will be using you to make the Baby Daddy jealous. Don’t be a pawn in this game. Women, emotional creatures they are will often date another man just to make the man they really love jealous or to get back at him for banging some other chick. This is yet another risk of dating single moms.

You will never be respected by her kids. If it isn’t bad enough that most women see men as disposable, walking ATM machines, her kids will see you as a cash machine as well. They’ll also never have feelings for you like their real father. Sure, they be feign “love” for you as long as you are of some financial or material benefit to them, but don’t expect any kind of loyalty. As soon as you buy them the new Nintendo and mom decides she doesn’t want you anymore, the kids will follow suit with what mom does and toss you aside like refuse as well. As with women, it’s never what have you done for me, it’s what have you done for me lately when it comes to their children.

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The Disposable Dad problem is now infecting once traditional Latin moms in a toxic Anglo culture – it’s not the women it’s the culture they’re in

Single Mom Epidemic

As fathers and men in general are banished from society but the benefits of their labor legally expropriated from them, the number of children born without a family, i.e. out of wedlock has exploded. While feminism and Cultural Marxism certainly bear their share of the blame for these statistics, a legal system designed to take advantage of men and turn them into slaves certainly hasn’t helped the matter.

Check out these troubling numbers compiled by the National Review.

Preliminary data indicate that 40.7 percent of all 2012 births were out-of-wedlock, which is appalling, and there are vast differences among racial and ethnic groups. Among non-Hispanic blacks, the figure is highest, at 72.2 percent; for American Indians/Alaska Natives, it’s 66.9 percent; 53.5 percent for Hispanics; 29.4 percent for non-Hispanic whites; and a mere 17.1 percent for Asians/Pacific Islanders.

The editorial then goes on to deliver this blow to the Strong, Independent Woman™ and Don’t Need a Man™ narratives.

It is, of course, no surprise that the groups with the highest illegitimacy rates are the groups that are struggling economically, educationally, with crime, and so forth.

Expect more struggles economically, educationally, and criminally as this is the cost of relegating men to the sidelines and treating them as nothing but productive machines that power the socialist economy.

In addition to refusing to date single moms and deal with their messes, a man can Go Galt and reduce the amount of money he is paying into a system that incentivizes this type of behavior. Why work hard to become a disposable meal ticket when it’s so much easier to live on less and chase intrinsic life goals (things that naturally make men happy, plenty of sex with different women, traveling the world, living a minimalistic lifestyle, staying out of debt, etc.) rather than the extrinsic life goals women pursue i.e. materialism, competitive consumption, recreational eating, etc.

Shunning single moms rather than encouraging their behavior, as well as starving the beast that lets them behave this way (cutting government revenues by working less) is one of the best ways men can resist and even reverse their third-class citizen status in Anglo America and the West in general.

The Gravy Train must be derailed.

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Nearly Half of Adult Singles in Japan Virgins – Is It Hypergamy?

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Nearly half of Japanese women in the prime of their lives – up to age 34 – report being virgins

Just when one thinks the sexual jungle in the Western world is bad with the number of incel men growing rapidly, out comes news from the Land of the Rising Sun that an incredible 42-44% of adult singles in Japan have never been laid! Wow. Even more amazingly these statistics apply to both men and women in the prime of their lives. Unlike the West, in which women will spread their legs unendingly for bad boys while refusing a tepid kiss for Beta males, Japanese women seem to be very chaste. (At least when they’re being questioned about their sexual proclivities. Note: Women have been known to lie.)

In any case, here’s how the numbers break down for the only real sexes that exist (fuck off, leftists) aged 18-34 years:

  • 42% of men are virgins
  • 44% of women are virgins

Japan, unashamed to promote their people’s identity and self-interest, unlike suicidal Caucasians in Europe, has been working to stop its population from dying off. It is encouraging people to start fucking again. But monetary incentives don’t seem to be helping, which can be seen as further evidence that something more than Western feminism is at play when it comes to frigid relations between the sexes across cultures. The Telegraph reports:

The country’s government has worked hard to boost the birthrate in recent years, providing incentives such as support for child care and tax breaks. The new data however indicates, that, if anything Japanese men and women are growing apart.

As damaging as feminism has been in the West, possible contributing factors to sex lives that have been reduced to hand jobs and sex robots include:

Working too much and obsessing over career too much to enjoy any type of social life; an interesting proposal by economist John McMurtry that GDP rise correlates with social decay leading to a nation of estranged individuals as a culture has to increasingly sell itself out to keep GDPs rising; and a sociological shift towards extrinsic life goals (i.e. materialism) rather than intrinsic life goals (i.e. having a family) which do not actually provide happiness – only the illusion of it.

Futoshi Ishii, head researcher for the Japanese National Institute of Population and Social Security told the press he thinks individualism and people chasing fantasies are helping drive the sex drought and resulting demographic decline.

They want to tie the knot eventually. But they tend to put it off as they have gaps between their ideals and the reality. That’s why people marry later or stay single for life, contributing to the nation’s low birthrate.

As the birth rate declines, fewer young people have to work harder and harder to support larger numbers of old people in what is termed by demographers as an inverted population pyramid.

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Marry up or die seems to be the rule worldwide, even in Japan

Hypergamy

One of the key pieces of evidence that helps solve this demographic riddle is buried at the very bottom of The Telegraph’s piece on people practically going to their grave as virgins in Japan – female hypergamy. Put simply, hypergamy is the driving instinct in female mating choice. It is the instinct to fuck and marry up in social status, not across or down. One has to get all  the way to the bottom of the article to find this nugget of information:

But recent years have seen a shift in traditional family structures, and a protracted economic slowdown as a global powerhouse, which has reportedly resulted in many men struggling to hold down secure, full-time jobs.

Boom. There you have it. Women don’t want to fuck men of lower social status. It might as well be a law of the universe. Social equality or men with no secure income means an end to sex lives. Perhaps this is the real reason the wage gap myth is pushed so hard (even by Ivanka Trump!) in the United States. Because social engineers know Briffault’s Law well:

Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

If a man can provide no benefits the female can harvest from him, or gain by association with him, either social status or material wealth, or power (which usually results from social status and material wealth), he is a good as dead in a woman’s eyes. Importantly, Briffault’s Law is not just applicable to human mating, but to other animal species.

It seems women will literally let a nation and their family lineage die off if they cannot find a man who provides some sort of economic or social benefit to them. Now who’s objectifying who? Give me some benefit or I’ll stay a virgin until I die and your nation can die with you seems to be the early warning to the West coming out of Japan.

Could the sexless fiasco get even worse in the West, following Japan’s lead? A man can either make fun of this story, or look at it as a canary in the coal mine for what’s to come as men’s earning capacity and leadership roles in society are diminished by the insane leftist doctrine of equalism.

It’s hard to look at what’s going on in the world and not see the invisible hand of social engineers using science to reshape the human species into sexless worker drones. But that’s all crazy talk, right? In any case, it seems man’s biggest mistake is giving woman what she wants. The Bible talked about that sort of thing.

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Too Much Sex and Success with Women Can Lead to Burnout

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That’s my kinda girl, and I regularly bang chicks like her here in Latin America, but no matter how much a man loves women, having too many can lead to burnout

I have had unmitigated success with women since learning the harsh truth about women featured on Return Of Kings, Chateau Heartiste, and other men’s blogs. Through the collective wisdom of men on these sites, I’ve gamed and bedded women all over the world, and enjoyed some real stunners along my path of debauchery.

However, as my notch count reaches well over the century mark, I am finding that the more I know about women and the more of them I have flings or short term relationships with, the less I like women overall. I am not the first man to feel this way, in fact a highly-rated novel was published by one of the great red pill authors (before the term was even coined) in 1978 about this very phenomenon.

Here are some of my favorite lines from the book, and how they have helped me deal with my dissatisfaction with women. They may be of help to you, too, if you’ve found success with women and are drowning in ass but have come to the realization there are no unicorns. We can start our discussion by letting it be known that even 40 years ago the decline in the quality of American women was being chronicled by one of the great writers of the day:

American women drove hard bargains and the ended up looking the worst for it. The few natural American women left were mostly in Texas and Louisiana.

Today, they drive impossible bargains and are destroying the society. This is common wisdom in these parts of the internet, so let’s move on to the dissatisfaction that ultimately comes when a man has more women than he knows what to do with. Reflecting the real-life circumstances of Charles Bukowski, his novel Women vicariously details his own success through the fictional character Henry Chinaski. Much like the real-life Bukowski, at age 50, Chinaski finally sees his star rising, and right on cue here come women out of the woodwork ready to help him spend his newfound cash and revel in his newfound status and power as an author.

After a lifetime of low-rent living on the bad side of town, Chinaski is finally about to embark on a new chapter in his life as his success means more booze, bitches and lifestyle accoutrements than ever.

Where did all the women come from? The supply was endless. Each one of them was individual, different. Their pussies were different, their kisses were different, their breasts were different, but no man could drink them all, there were too many of them, crossing their legs, driving men mad. What a feast!

Indeed, once a man realizes success or simply learns how to game women, he can find himself going from famine to feast in an instant. He morphs from being totally invisible to having sexy women throw themselves at him. And, it’s like a cascade. The more women a man has, the more women want him. However, the same man may find that he is dissatisfied in some way, sooner or later, with every new woman he encounters. In his experience sleeping with and studying the mentalities of countless women, Chinaski summarizes female psychology with one astute paragraph:

Women: I liked the colors of their clothing; the way they walked; the cruelty in some faces; now and then the almost pure beauty in another face, totally and enchantingly female. They had it over us: they planned much better and were better organized. While men were watching professional football or drinking beer or bowling, they, the women, were thinking about us, concentrating, studying, deciding – whether to accept us, discard us, exchange us, kill us or whether simply to leave us. In the end it hardly mattered; no matter what they did, we ended up lonely and insane.

This realization, once a man has it, of male disposability, leads to dissatisfaction more than any other, as well as the fact most relationships end in disaster. In addition to the secret plotting and planning women do, and record keeping of every actual and perceived slight a man does to her that will be released in an explosive tirade of venom and vitriol when the relationship ends, the following quote from Women alludes to the fact women are very good at putting on an act when meeting men. They will tailor their act according to the man they’re trying to lure (Schopenhauer called this dissimulation) until he has no more value to add to their lives. I personally call the female “acquisitive” mode the “tuning the radio” phase of the relationship, and it’s fun to make women jump through a few hoops as they try to find which frequency you are on as a man and adapt their act accordingly. Bukowski writes:

Human relationships didn’t work anyhow. Only the first two weeks had any zing, then the participants lost their interest. Masks dropped away and real people began to appear: cranks, imbeciles, the demented, the vengeful, sadists, killers. Modern society had created its own kind and they feasted on each other. It was a duel to the death – in a cesspool.

Once the real woman appears and the sex and fun phase has passed, thus begins the downswing portion of the relationship. I have been here many times, as have many men, I suspect. It’s when you just want to get rid of the bitch but she wants payment for services rendered, be it material things or your very soul. Another great line from the book describes how women will attempt to take everything of value from a man, including his soul. (Usually, before placing him into the discard pile.)

And yet women – good women – frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep. Basically I craved prostitutes, base women, because they were deadly and hard and made no personal demands. Nothing was lost when they left. Yet at the same time I yearned for a gentle, good woman, despite the overwhelming price.

These days when I see a man with a girlfriend in tow, I always ask myself I wonder how much that is costing him a month? (Women spend 90% more than they earn, statistics prove it).

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The more women you have, the more you begin to see they’re psychologically all the same

No Woman To Run To, Nowhere To Hide

Rather than the pretenses that come with relationships, to me prostitutes or whores make the goal of fulfilling sexual desire much less bothersome, since a man pays for the interaction one way or the other: by either turning himself into a clown, paying for her McMansion and SUV under the guise that marriage isn’t legalized prostitution (when in fact, it is just that), or just avoiding the sophistry inherent in today’s society and paying her up front for intercourse. “Sophistry,” i.e. the use of fallacious arguments, especially with the intention of deceiving when it comes to our base desires like sexuality and dominance, I feel has become much to big a part of our daily lives. Bukowski touches on this “game-playing” in all areas of our lives in the novel.

I was naturally a loner, content just to live with a woman, eat with her, sleep with her, walk down the street with her. I didn’t want conversation, or to go anywhere except the racetrack or the boxing matches. I didn’t understand T.V. I felt foolish paying money to go into a movie theater and sit with other people to share their emotions. Parties sickened me. I hated the game-playing, the dirty play, the flirting, the amateur drunks, the bores.

Of course, it’s hard for a man not to become disillusioned with women once a man has seen the following dark side of the female psyche repeatedly.

Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they’ll spit on you…

After a while, and repeated abuse from women, a man just stops giving a fuck. He goes through one woman after the other because he has seen, perhaps, they are all the same and he will never find that unicorn he desires so much.

Then I gave up trying to please her and simply fucked her, ripping viciously. It was like murder. I didn’t care; my cock had gone crazy

As hard as it may be to believe, Bukowski’s character Chinaski touches on a situation many men will find themselves in after a surfeit of tight, young, nubile ass has spread its legs before him. Knowing what women are psychologically and how they view men is enough to take the steam out of the whole interaction when you’ve had more women than you even care to remember.

My cock was hard, but my spirit wasn’t in it.

That’s quite a feeling, when you just don’t care anymore. When you’ve just had too much ass and you can take it or leave it, even though a beautiful girl is spread eagle in front of you. What strange territory to be in as a man, a sexual cornucopia and tired of sex. (It usually wears off pretty quickly for me. But I’ve definitely been there.)

Hopefully, these lines have been therapeutic for the man who has pushed through to the other side and had too much pussy and too much female attention. This is usually the point self-medicating with alcohol, tobacco, and narcotics comes into play, when a man that knows too much just wants to forget what he knows and enjoy the moment. I find getting baked or getting drunk helps alleviate any concerns I might have about banging so many chicks as they help me turn off my brain for a little while.

Even great authors have found discontentment in success. Which is why a man must have higher goals for himself than women. They may be fun to screw around with, but never look for contentment from a woman. That’s a lesson I’ve learned, and apparently Bukowski learned it, too.

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