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Is MGTOW Feminism for Men?


Jack Ronin offers his views on a segment of the manosphere known as MGTOW

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.

Since the birth of the manosphere and the conglomeration of dissenting voices to newspeak, we have seen several differing strains of thought come up against the zeitgeist.  Today we are going to focus on one of those, MGTOW.

What Is MGTOW?

MGTOW or Men Going Their Own Way is a subset group within the manosphere which claims to be all about males regaining their sovereignty.  A brief overview based on the wiki entry is here.


MGTOW use the word “gynocentric” to describe conditions that favor women to the detriment of men, and are opposed to such circumstances. MGTOW believe there is a systemic gynocentric bias against men with some examples being double standards in gender roles, bias against men in family courts, the lack of concern for men falsely accused of rape and lack of consequences for their accusers.

Views on heterosexual relationships

According to columnist Martin Daubney, members of the MGTOW community believe that legal and romantic entanglements with women fail a cost–benefit analysis and risk–benefit analysis. Jeremy Nicholson writing for Psychology Today similarly described MGTOW as men frustrated with the lack of incentives to date who choose to opt out of dating and focus on taking care of themselves. Kay Hymowitz has stated that some self-identified MGTOW express discontent because they see women as hypergamous and manipulative. Business Insider reporter Dylan Love wrote a “fully-realized MGTOW (there are levels to it) is someone who shuns all relationships with women, short-term, long-term, romantic, and otherwise. He eventually shuns society as a whole.” Some MGTOW have many short-term relationships or engage in sex with prostitutes. Celibacy, however, is also an option. A MGTOW that chooses celibacy over relationships is said to be “going monk” and some embrace maintaining their virginity.

While there is a lot I agree with here.  Especially for younger males, this opting out of cultural norms can be very important so they can focus on improving themselves.  The problems which arise when someone fully embraces this ideology, is that ultimately it’s just a form of feminism for men.

As per the quoted text we see that MGTOW eschews all relationships with women and they generally have a vocal disdain for men who practice game or otherwise still want women in their lives.

A Weak Ideology

Taking time for yourself to gain personal strength, knowledge and understanding is very important.  MGTOW goes to the extreme however in insisting that all women are these evil creatures which will cast their magic spells on them at even the slightest interactions.  This mentality views the problem from a powerless and irredeemably weak position.  Indeed the blanket aversion to all women is a surefire recipe to never understand women or how to communicate and have any sort of functioning relationships with them.

Simply blaming women for all that ails them is a piss weak way of handling adversity.  Like the shrieking feminists they claim to hate, MGTOW guys end up behaving exactly like them.

Also ridiculously weak is the allergic reaction some of these types have to any suggestion that they aren’t living up to any of the qualities which make a real man.  Use this wording on some of them and watch the hilarious meltdown they have.  What does this remind anyone of?

You guessed it, the very same childish, infantile reactions sjw’s and their ilk vomit out at any critiques of their beloved narrative.  Feminists loathe the idea that they must change themselves.  I have seen the exact same responses from MGTOW types when I dared to insist that much if not all the problems associated with current female behavior is due largely to weak men themselves.

Who do you think allows women to behave this way?  Who cast their votes to allow the weaker, solipsistic sex the right to vote in their disenfranchisement?  You guessed it.  Males did!


Ultimately, men are responsible for the behavior of women in society

Sack The Fuck Up

Until these types of males accept the responsibility of their own actions and the choices of other males around them in creating an environment for disgusting weakness, I will regard them just like I do feminists.  People who have no accountability to themselves and the world around them.  In other words completely fucking useless and worthless sacks of flesh just waiting for the Reaper’s scythe to avail a bloated earth of inferior creatures.

With the dissemination of game knowledge and learned charisma we all know within the sphere that AWALT.  This does not mean you completely give up on ever associating with them however.  Any man who just runs away from his problems and doesn’t accept the brutal reality of our existence is not someone I would ever want to be around.  Basically I see them as just another female.

Ultimately it’s a loser’s mentality.

To improve one’s lot in life, you must first come to the realization that you indeed are weak.  Running away to cry in a corner is not the answer.  Facing the odds and standing up to the degeneracy is the only way to change things.  If we men do not have the power to change the world around us, then who does?

The MGTOW guy will say, who cares?

That is the problem.  The abject apathy helps no one.  Least of all themselves.  Improve yourself?  Who cares.  Women suck.

For anyone who still possesses the ability to think critically this is a blatant coward’s move.  Something you’d expect from a female.  Instead males with supposedly functioning genitalia are making these assertions.  Just an excuse to opt out of the game and become herbivore men.  Good riddance I say to them all.

Don’t Be A Fucking Cry Baby

We were all put here through no choice of our own.  The strong did not pout and complain.  They brought the elements to heel and the earth itself so that they and their posterity might survive.  Not idle by indifferently while a savage world continues to rain down it’s viciousness without mercy.

Men who do not reproduce and at some point gain a family for themselves are unquestionably a biological and evolutionary FAILURE.

The way forward for men is one of action.  Weaklings and naysayers will always be content to hurl their insults from the sidelines.

Take no thought of them.

After you have conquered your demons, laid waste to your enemies and rose up like the phoenix from the ashes, these same losers will be exactly where they are right now.

On the sidelines whining and complaining about an unfair and unjust world.

Do not be this type of male!

Become an absolute terror to your enemies.  A guiding light and hand of provision to those whom you choose to care for.  Rise up to all these inferior genes and wipe away the detritus from your table.

With cold eyes and a heart of fire rise up to this disgusting culture which loves decay, entropy and biological suicide.  Rise up like a fucking Beast unchained out of the Abyss, a Man.

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The Sublime Beauty Of The Housewife


Few things are more beautiful than housewives

Jack Ronin is a Politically Incorrect Correspondent for The New Modern Man. He also runs The Savage Lifestyle.

Much has been said about the sorry state of western women.  Many men are turning off and tuning out from a system designed to demonize them.  While I support starving the system and otherwise withdrawing any hands of provision to the western whore.  I also support anything which serves to uplift women into the best roles for themselves, their families and society as a whole.  As men we know that female behavior is dependent on the males who are the real culture creators and lawgivers.  We cannot have an upright and upward striving people if we do not FORCE our women to follow the roles best suited for them.  For any red pilled man we know beyond any shadow of doubt that female bad behavior will never rectify itself on it’s own.

In fact said behavior is a direct reflection of the society and the males they grow up around.  So, the only way to change this malignant strain of inferior specimens is to first cut off all support from undesirables(weak males and carousel riding career skanks).  Then we must at the same time offer the right way for them to behave and encourage and guide them into the roles to which biology and God has created them for.

The Housewife

I am fortunate that even before I was thoroughly red pilled I still made it a point to surround myself with the types of men who were similar to me or even further along the path.  Because of this I have direct observational experience at witnessing the sublime beauty of the Housewife and her happiness at making home and hearth her dwelling place.  A labor of love she endures in giving birth to her husband’s children and also making the home an inviting and nurturing place for her little ones.  While the husband is off to do the work of his calling she keeps herself busy aiding him in clerical duties and the immense work of  caring for their future.

The housewife is truly a role only fit for women who bear the most regal standard in their hearts.  The highest calling to which her biology agrees.  Her womb is the future of her and her husband’s genetic legacy, as well as their people as a whole.  To treat her body and the fruit of her womb with the kind of disdain we see from women today is only fit for the most retrograde and recalcitrant death cult mutants.  I have seen with my own eyes the joy of the housewife in preparing dinner for her family.  We as men must reinforce this role with any suitable women we may find and also aggressively encourage our friends and family to do the same.


Slut shaming was one of the ways society effectively controlled wild female sexuality in the past

Bringing Back Shame

One of the largest motivating factors to shape female behavior is societal shame.  As men it is our duty to bring back the social stigma attached to loose women along with the abusive mockery and debasement suited for these types of sewer rats.  Yes we must shame them relentlessly!

Before we direct our ire towards these wayward women, we must first target our anger and our contempt at the weak males who enable this sort of behavior in women.  That means as a man you must with horrifying aggression attack the white knight faggot wherever you may find him.  I have written about this recently in my piece about punching a white knight in the face.

Everywhere we look today there seems to be an endless throng of “nasty” women screeching from their bullhorns their great delight in attaining the status of a wretched harridan.  We must point, laugh and sneer with open disgust at them.  When the grotesque blob of low t males come to her defense we must unleash all of our rage and anger upon every last one.  Do not let these punks escape your wrath!  For the great black hole of terrible female behavior is a direct result of these types of males.  They must never be allowed to escape judgement.

A Man Brings Judgement

The masculine principle is Order.  That is what we bring to the world.  When said world is completely out of balance and lacking in order we must bring down fiery judgement on all the sinners.  We must cast them to the hell of their terrible decisions without remorse.  No one is going to change our world except for us.  Sitting by hoping and praying that one day women will see the light and repent of their behavior is the want of the weakling.  If we see that something in our world needs to change it is on US to make it happen!

If we have seen the orderly and righteous house that belongs to a man and his loving housewife.  We must with all our strength work tirelessly to bring it to realization in our own lives and the world around us.  We simply cannot wait for anyone else to do it for us.

For modern women I am sure that many if not all you have witnessed the abject fear and revulsion that is caused in the modern harlot anytime that word JUDGEMENT is used on her.  The wicked witches of the west recoil like hideous ghouls to such ego obliterating truths.

We must aim this weapon like Poseidon rising up from the depths, hurling a Trident of Truth right through their mother fucking skulls.

If you don’t have the balls to smash a white knight’s face in or publicly point and shame a ho then don’t you ever open that mouth to complain.  You are either the hand of reckoning to bring down ruthless judgement on a twisted world full of human insects.  Or you’re just another fuckboy awaiting your day of annihilation.  Either way.

Judgement is coming!

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Nature Saves Heredities That Work, Rejects Those That Don’t


Shielding any organism from reality only makes it weak

If there is one constant on this 4.5 billion year old rock we find ourselves inhabiting, it’s that nature saves those heredities that work, and rejects those that don’t. The game we are playing is one of survival. If one is searching for the meaning of life, this is about as real as it gets. Survival is what our entire lives are about, for life exists to propagate life.

This is why modern liberalism and feminism are a blight and abomination on the human species. They’re both suicidal. These ideologies push the insane ideals that life isn’t worth living, that certain ethnic groups are evil while others possess superior virtue, and that babies are nasty stumbling blocks on the road to living a gluttonous and avaricious lifestyle.

Remember, gluttony and avarice are two of the seven deadlies in Western myth and religion for a reason. Together with other so-called “deadly sins” they’re killing the West. Incidentally, the West also has pride and sloth in spades.

As a result of the total disregard for the importance of family and the continuity of the human species it represents, the West has devolved into a death cult in that it believes acquisition of useless material possessions and conspicuous consumption of everything from meals in a restaurant to box cutter sedans to iPhones is the be-all, end all of human existence.

Meantime, the flower of procreation wilts and dies away, like the eggs in so many Anglobitchs’ wombs. White people are literally fading away, dying off the planet. Let that be a warning to other ethnic groups who would follow in West’s vaingloriousness.

Feminism is destined to go extinct, and it will take all those who practice it or even tolerate it along with it. Designed as a population control technique in the 1960s, it has morphed into a metastasizing cancer.

Only the fittest will survive this latest shit test of nature.


Every animal on the planet has the will to survive, except modern day Westerners who are willingly committing suicide

Survival of the Fittest

Rather than follow the rest of society into destruction, some of us realize the intrinsic happiness family will bring and the biological imperative reproduction is.

The real reason feminists are marching in the street in the Trump era has more to do with mass female hysteria brought on by childlessness than it does any grievances that have merit. The Anglobitch is among the coddled individuals in human history, and her exorbitant, Empowered™ lifestyle means she now has the power to destroy not only herself but the very family her mother and grandmother cherished.

And that is exactly what she is doing, for in no country on the planet where there is a historical white majority are there enough babies being born to sustain the population.

This is the root of her misery. For women exist to create and nourish the next generation of human beings, not to mindlessly shuffle bureaucratic paperwork around or labor in vain like a man for resources. She knows not why she is miserable and unfulfilled with the things the world told her would make her happy. But this is why. She is missing the glory of motherhood.

That said, rather than try to save them from themselves, we must let the fools’ gene pools die with them, and be content with the fact we are the men who will survive this latest shit test from nature. We will find the women who have not succumbed to the sicknesses of the West to be the propagators of our genes.

The future belongs to those whose children will be in it. The future belongs to us. Herbert Spencer, who coined the phrase “Survival of the Fittest” knew the game well:

The wise man must remember that while he is a descendant of the past, he is a parent of the future. The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly, is to fill the world with fools.

Spencer would no doubt be mortified at mass scale cuckoldry being placed on the backs of literally millions of would-be fathers, and the propagation of fools and weaklings the ensuing welfare state causes.

Disturbingly, the mindless blob of protoplasm that makes up most of America, the unthinking and unquestioning Beta males who are the tax base the slave masters at the apex of the corporate-government complex depend on, trudge on through mediocre, increasingly sexless, and statistically sterile lives.

The gynocracy gorges itself on the largesse created by these unwanted men. Spencer knew what this system really represents.

All socialism involves slavery. That which fundamentally distinguishes the slave is that he labours under coercion to satisfy another’s desires.

Indeed, the modern Beta male labors to satisfy the demands of a massively bloated government, of feminists who benefit from his labor and the tax money a gynocentric beast steals from him, and yet he lives an existence as a loathed individual. He is the subject of contempt of those who exploit him.

For no one respects a slave.


Throw off the chains that would make you a lesser man than your ancestors

Be Bold, Be Bold, and Everywhere be Bold

Let no one tell you having a family and having continuity is outdated or no longer important. Those are words sold to slaves.

A man without posterity is a man who lives a dead-end lifestyle, and he betrays the death-defying survival instincts of better men than him who found a way to survive and thrive in such catastrophes as wars, plagues, famine, natural disaster, and heartless women of centuries and millenia past.

The modern man is much too coddled, and perhaps that is the problem to begin with. His survival instincts have been dulled by his success in the battle with nature. He has plenty of eat and a plethora of comfort maximizing gadgets, but his spirit is empty. He’s lost his mojo. He must realize this is a battle that never ends. He not only must fight the bitch known as Mother Nature, he must also fight other men who only see him as a tool to use for their own self-aggrandizement and glory. Being an obedient slave, although one that is treated decently, is not the life of a real man.

What a shame it truly is that a magnificent 4.5 billion year old epic of genetic survival ends with weak men and brainwashed women. But the strong amongst us will survive, and even thrive in this environment.

The new modern man must never succumb to the wishes of his masters, but remain loyal to his wishes and to the only constant that ever mattered on planet Earth. That constant is survival.

Men have moved heaven and earth in the past to ensure their genetic legacy does not die with them, a failure that would be totally disrespectful of his ancestors who survived the worst the universe had to throw at them with aplomb.

For I can tell you from experience there is nothing that lights a fire inside a man as looking into the eyes of his son or daughter, a new human being ready to take on all the possibilities and the pitfalls of existence anew. Knowing that he not only survived the test, but he passed it with flying colors as he captured a sexy woman of his choosing and she willingly carried his legacy in her womb for nine months.

That is a heredity that works. The ones that don’t will lay by the wayside of death. Creating beautiful and strong progeny is the most satisfying thing a mentally and physically healthy man and woman can ever accomplish in life.

There is nothing quite so beautiful in life, gentlemen, as your own children. Material possessions, money, and power are empty accolades if you have no posterity to look you in the eye with respect and love when you fade away into the blackness that pervades this entire universe.

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I Just Don’t Give a Fuck: Doing the Opposite


Today I openly enjoy threesomes, but in my Beta “nice guy” days I was a One Woman Man

The biggest change of my life occurred when I decided to stop giving a fuck. I have good reasons for not giving a fuck, and good reasons to be angry. (Incidentally, I vent my anger with my writing. I’m actually a very happy individual.)

First off, I sold out the first half of my life chasing the myths and fantasies put into my head from childhood about the wonders of the vaunted college degree and how it would change my life, and how following the system’s advice would make me healthy, wealthy and wise.


Society’s myths are sold to credulous simps it seeks to mold into profit-producing slaves, chained by the fear of losing everything they worked for if and when they ever wake up to the reality of the nightmare we are all in.

It was a good decade or so after completing all the hoop-jumping the system told me to do before I realized the exact opposite of their feted commands was what I needed to be doing with my life. The inner rebel finally appeared. I am now preaching the evangel to men everywhere, in hopes it might save them from being exploited by the corporate-government complex and bitches everywhere. I’m preaching male empowerment and personal freedom.

Here’s some background on my journey from nice guy Beta to ZFG Sigma. Maybe it can help you.


Wearing a business suit making $28,000 a year, my life in the media

Lied to About Work

Rather than partying and fucking everything that walked in my college years, I spent my time being responsible and “studying” while working at least one and often two jobs to finance myself.  Later, when I landed the “good job” everyone thought I had, I made shit pay.

Here I was, a local TV star making $28,000 a year with $25,000 in student loans. Through perseverance, a highly rated news program and an Emmy Award which made us #1 in a highly competitive market, I had managed to climb to the astonishing salary of $39,000 a year after “only” 5 years. That’s less than the median salary nationwide. School teachers made more than me. Truckers made more than me. I felt like such an imposter getting up there on TV and acting like all was well in my world everyday, when in reality I could barely pay for a meager existence.

Then I committed the cardinal sin. I asked for $50,000 a year after I found out a subordinate was making that much. My contract was not renewed, the management didn’t tell me until the last minute and the next thing I knew my ass was in bankruptcy court. Ironically, I got the $50,000 at the next station in a larger city, but by then I didn’t care anymore.

Things began to change inside me. After being used and abused I moved to my next stop on the TV star tour with an eye on escaping this existence. As an added incentive for me to GTFO, the Racial Bolshevism the media have become famous for incessantly drove home the point that I was an evil son of a bitch for being white and having a dick, in drive-by news hit piece after hit piece. I spent the next few years paying off my bankruptcy (I never got anything for free in life) while devising a plan to extricate myself from the web of lies that had turned me into a farm animal rather than a man.

I was fed up with the cage I was in, and decided to break out at any cost. I did, and the result is this blog, my sex-filled new life on a tropical island, occasional indulgence in cocaine, frequent indulgence in wine and cigar, working on my terms rather than theirs, happier than I would have ever been following the life script we are all told to go by.

Never again will I return to the complete disaster that is the television news industry, an industry in which there is an epidemic of suicide once other poor bastards like me realize the pulp fiction it subsists on is nothing but a facade. Here’s a short list of the suicides that have occurred in the past few years:

  • Nick Wiltgen, The Weather Channel
  • John Winter, WLFA meteorologist
  • Don Harman, Fox 4 Kansas City News
  • Bob Richards, KDSK-TV
  • Russel Bird, KTVZ-TV

There are 57 other suicides of journalists here.

I had some realizations along the way as I awakened to realize the cage I had been placed into with my wonderful college degree and “you’re lucky to have it” job.

The camera needs to be turned around on the mountainous, steaming pile of garbage this industry is. The social predators who inhabit news rooms love airing out the disgraces and dirty laundry of others, now it’s time for their dirty laundry to be aired out. And there’s plenty of it, believe me. News personalities are some of the most duplicitous game players you’ll ever meet, but they carry around a lot of deep, dark secrets. I would enjoy nothing more than seeing the cruel light of reality turned around on the vermin in the media, just to show the world what imposters most of them are.

After clawing my way out of this industry and the bankruptcy it foisted on me, I just don’t give a fuck about playing the career game anymore.


It’s not your fault you’re no good with women, you’ve been lied to about their nature your entire life

Lied to About Women

I wasn’t always the womanizing asshole I’ve turned into. No, in my younger days I played things straight, held women up on a pedestal, treated them better than I treated myself. All I wanted was a good wife and a couple of beautiful kids. Was that really so much to fucking ask of the Anglobitch?

How was I repaid after putting forth my best effort with women? With loneliness, financial abuse, and emotional torment.

It took a good 10-15 years after high school for me to realize the script men are given about women is totally screwed up. I often wondered when I was in college why women would just walk over top of an attractive, good guy like me. I wanted to be good to them! Why wouldn’t they notice me?

Then I noticed attractive young college girls going back to the dorm with guys that looked like thugs and listening to the sounds of them moaning as they fucked each others brains out. I wasn’t totally left out, I did manage to bang several cute girls in college but my sex life in my Beta college days was overall a dry, dry desert.

Along came the manosphere. It wasn’t long before I realized, yet again, everything I had been told was a lie.

My own research yielded the following bombshells. I frequently touch on the knowledge of Freud, Unwin, Briffault, and Tesla, as these men give the wisdom we discuss in the manosphere some scientific and psychological gravitas. The topics we discuss and the complaints we have about women aren’t just a bunch of guys sitting around making things up. These men proved women bring this to the table of any relationshit:

Once I realized the setup of this cruel game, I started exploiting it to my advantage. Being an asshole has paid dividends. Since becoming a player in the game, I’ve bedded over 100 women, most of them under age 30.

I’m happier because I don’t put up with the manipulation, emotional drama, and cheating other men put up with. I have my freedom, and accept the fact the Anglobitch has turned herself into a sex object of her own volition. It’s not my fault. I just pump and dump. So should you. Well, that or run off the Anglobitch’s plantation altogether.

So, I ended saying again, “I just don’t give a fuck” about being the nice guy and the disposable meal ticket.


Doing the opposite worked for George Costanza, and it’s working for me

Moving On

I just don’t give a fuck as become my new motto, just like Eminem. Meantime, Bukowski’s idea to “Drink, write, and fuck” has become my new creed.

I am sick to death with the system that stole half my life. I’m reserving the other half to do what I want. What do I want to do? Chase skirts, travel the world, live well on nothing, avoid paying as much money into the system as I can by earning a low income (by American standards, which incidentally gives me a great life abroad) and write.

I feel like my life is finally coming together in a meaningful and badass way. Like I’m on the verge of realizing something truly great in the next few years. I’m so glad I abandoned the life script that would have kept me in someone else’s cage and embraced a life of zero fucks given risk taking, pushing myself to do new things rather than accepting a subpar existence. All the experiences, the hard knocks, and of course the sexy ladies will be in my writings, and later a novel. I also want to be the champion of other men who have been shafted by this setup.

Comically, the wisdom of George Costanza applies, that if I do the very opposite of what the system tells me to do I’ll be a happier man.

Jerry Seinfeld: If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right.

George Costanza: Yes, I will do the opposite. I used to sit here and do nothing, and regret it for the rest of the day, so now I will do the opposite, and I will do something.

George Costanza: [He goes over to the woman] Excuse me, I couldn’t help but notice that you were looking in my direction.

Victoria: Oh, yes I was. You just ordered the same exact lunch as me.

George Costanza: [Takes a deep breath] My name is George. I’m unemployed and I live with my parents.

Victoria: I’m Victoria. [In a sexy tone of voice] Hi!

Indeed, doing the opposite has markedly improved my life. I believe it can do the same for millions of other men. Rather than giving a fuck, we should stop giving a fuck and do whatever makes us happy. Like having threesomes on a tropical island. That shit makes me happy.

It might make a social justice warrior’s head explode, though. Bonus.

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Men Should Be Living Aggressively

Living aggressively can lead men to more fulfilling lives

Living aggressively can lead men to more fulfilling lives

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When you wish to be aggressive you need to move forward.  You do this by putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. It’s not rocket science, it’s simple science. You shut up and you start working.  This is what works to move forward.

Moving forward doesn’t require you to be a genius.  It requires you to work and take action.  When you’re busy moving forward you’ll develop an aura about yourself that is hard for people to understand.  They’ll say that you just have it.  The “it” factor is what they call it in pro wrestling.

The “it” factor means that when you walk in a room people notice.  You have presence, you have charisma.  Charisma is something that can be taught.  Unlike most people I have learned this.  You’re charisma doesn’t have to be the greatest.

You just have to learn a few things and start doing things differently.

Unfortunately, people haven’t learned how important it is to develop charisma.  When you’re aggressive about pursuing what you want you’ll notice and understand that people don’t like the present moment.  Most people would rather be at work when they’re on vacation and they’d rather be on vacation when they’re at work.  Find a way to do the opposite.

Train yourself to want to be exactly where you are.  This along with developing your ability to concentrate are valuable skills to learn.  If you can’t concentrate you won’t succeed.  People know this and they still don’t care enough to learn how to concentrate.  Pick up your pieces and make it happen.

When you learn how to concentrate you’ll be able to shape the world.  This is due to the fact that concentration is a rare skill.  We all have it, some just concentrate on the wrong areas.  Concentrate on doing things that will bring you success and keep doing those things.

I will continue.  That phrase will help you with your level of determination.  I’ve been reading the book the power of concentration and that phrased is used a lot in one chapter.  People don’t understand that they can’t accomplish anything if they fail to concentrate.  Keep your attention on what you want to do and don’t stop until you accomplish it.

This single minded focus on a mission can teach you what you need to know about success.  Treating something as a mission will help with your levels of motivation.  When you’re learning to concentrate you’ll have numerous distracting thoughts.  It’s important to focus and then refocus on important and necessary tasks.

Keep moving forward and keep being aggressive.  Being aggressive works.  I don’t care what anyone says I have witnessed first hand how effective living aggressively is.  When you have the capacity and the discipline to think about what you want non stop, that is when it will come to you.  Just keep attacking each day and squeezing whatever you can out of each moment.

Once you stop and think about what you’re doing it will feel awkward.  Just power through and finish the task at hand.  People are experts at sabotaging themselves.  Instead, do the opposite.  Be your own coach and force yourself to get success.

Success comes when you’re busy and focused.  Get busy and focus on success.  Busy and success go hand in hand.  If you want something done give it to the busiest person in the room.  Keep moving forward is a great life philosophy that I got from Victor Pride’s book New World Ronin. This book is great.  I’m a Ronin in training right now.  A Ronin is considered to be a slave without a master.  We all need a purpose and a mission.  When you have a mission you’ll be able to help yourself succeed.

Just focus on taking actions that advance you and avoid actions that keep you stagnant.  Taking daily action is more important than dwelling and coming up with perfect details.  Over thinking will crush you.  Think just enough to come up with a good plan and then get to work on executing the plan.

No one has ever accomplished anything without a decent plan.  Life will punch you in the face.  It’s up to you to punch back and execute your vision/plan.  Plans only work if you do.  A good plan poorly executed is worse than an average plan violently executed.

That’s why focusing on what you want is the most important skill anyone can develop.  If you don’t focus on what you want, you’ll live your life focusing on what other people want.  That’s no way for me to live.  I refuse to do that and I won’t tolerate it.

Keep going forward and keep building your momentum.  The best businessmen in the world are the busiest.  Keep business first and everything else second.  In business take nothing personally.  This is easier said than done.

Great things only come to you when you’re busy.  Stay busy and keep attacking each day with force and fire.  Use your mental will to get things done and direct the will towards important tasks.  If you can’t get the important tasks done, you will be a failure.  Focus on doing what it takes to be a success.

Being a success requires the same amount of energy as being a failure.  More people should be successful since they instinctively know this.  Keep your attention on what you need to do and do it.  When you clutter your mind with useless thoughts or on garbage that has nothing to do with you, you will forget about what you came to accomplish.  Keep the end in mind and make things happen.

Keeping the end in mind is part of Stephen Covey’s famous book 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.  If you want to learn how to be productive read that book.  That book is a personal favorite of many readers.  When you learn how to focus and pick the right activities that will move you forward great things will begin to happen.  Pick activities that benefit you and increase your value.

This in turn will increase your value as a person.  When you’re busy getting things done and moving forward you will never want to stop.  This will allow you to become the conqueror you were born to be.  Stay greedy and stay ruthless.  These two attributes and turn a failure into a success.

When you learn how to focus you’ll be able to attract anything you desire.  I’m in year 3 of this website and I will do what’s necessary to make it grow.  I want it to be big and have thousands of readers daily.  To do this I have to write more, produce more and kick more ass.  Sitting on the sidelines and waiting for things to happen isn’t my style and I refuse to play defense.

I will move this site forward and I don’t care how long it takes.  Like Victor Pride says “It takes as long as it takes.”  Worrying about the how will only push you further away from your goal.  Keep your mindset focused on what you need to do to accomplish your goal.  What, not how.

If you need to do a keto diet to get ripped do it.  The end is more important than the means.  Do whatever it takes to make it happen.


  • You need to be aggressive and constantly look for opportunities to advance.
  • Move forward relentlessly.
  • Think only about what you want.  If it’s something you don’t want or care for, banish it from your thoughts.
  • Keep your mind focused and on task.
  • The end is more important than the means.
  • Think about the end, not the how.

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